Leo's Blog: Infinite Insights — Page 7

Please don't misunderstand me. I speak a lot about the virtues of selflessness. After a while of listening to that, it will start to seem like selfishness is evil and wrong. This leads to a devious trap, where you enter into a negative relationship with your own selfishness. A crucial aspect of truthfulness is accepting yourself exactly as you are. If you are selfish, that's how you are, that's the truth. In the future you can change but right now you are however selfish you are. That can be ugly to look at and accept. Because it is ugly. However, it is better to accept it than to repress it.

Give yourself permission to be selfish. Don't guilt-trip yourself about it too much. "I am selfish, this is just my situation. Okay." Just sit with that.

I place many high ideals upon you in this work, like not chasing money, not chasing sex, not chasing luxury, being truthful, being loving, being selfless, being healthy, etc. You are probably very far away from those ideals. Be careful trying to fake being those things. If you're a selfish asshole, just be selfish asshole. Be it, but also watch yourself being it. Watch without judgment. If you continue watching, as time passes you will start to naturally improve.

Remember, the journey to selflessness is very long. It will take 50+ years, so keep that in mind, pace yourself. If you need to be selfish to survive, so be it. That's reality, that's life. Mostly what I speak against is excessive and needless selfishness. For example, I understand if you're selfish because you're an Incel and never slept with a girl before. Then selfishness makes sense. But what I strongly criticize is people who are selfish way past their basic needs. For example, I will be highly critical of a pickup artist who has slept with 100+ girls and still continues to be a selfish exploiter of women for even more sex. This is beyond the pail. Or, for example, a multi-millionaire who keeps hoarding more money, cars, and houses. Like Andrew Tate. He has no need to be as selfish as he is. It's just pure ego at this point. Once you have your basic needs handled, you effort should go towards developing selflessness. But if you can barely have sex, barely earn money, barely take care of yourself, then you have no other option but to be selfish.

Being selfless is a kind of luxury that assumes your basic survival needs are handled. It is okay to bend a few rules to bootstrap yourself, to get yourself rolling. However, if you are already relatively successful, you have a much higher responsibility for integrity and truthfulness.

Look at yourself completely truthfully and honestly. How selfish are you? And then just accept that as your situation. Don't try to cover it up or rationalize it. You will improve just by doing this.

What you will notice if you observe yourself truthfully is that you are selfish in ways that you simply cannot stop. You could develop out of it, but right now you cannot stop. That's the truth and it's okay. We are all in this situation to various degrees. You have to be patient with yourself in this process because development cannot happen in a few weeks. It takes years.

The technique here is: spend a lot of time observing and contemplating your own selfishness, but do it without judgment or emotional drama.

Selfishness is such a monstrously powerful and intelligent force that you cannot tackle it head on. Wrangling selfishness is like surfing a tsunami. It requires tact.

This is what happens when you prioritize money over spirit.

OnlyFans is the Devil's honeypot.

What every eager prostitute eventually realizes is that she has a soul.

That's why prostitution is wrong.

How are you prostituting yourself?

By the way, Aba & Preach are impressive. Seriously mature and wise social commentary. Aba has amazing social intelligence. Their takes are almost always correct. You can learn much about social intelligence from them.

Note: I am not making light of prostitution when it is forced or girls have no other options to survive. That is serious and sad. I am making light of girls who don't need to do prostitution but do it because they are too spoiled to do serious work.

Consciousness can imagine that it’s anything. Consciousness can imagine that it’s a squirrel, a tree, a cloud, the moon, Hitler, Jesus, Santa Claus, a dragon, a glass of Coca Cola, a child sex slave, an Incel. Anything. When Consciousness imagines an identity for itself, it completely forgets that its true identity is God. The imagination is Total. That means when God imagines it’s a squirrel, it’s 100% a physical squirrel. It has no idea about anything else. It imagines that it’s a squirrel down to the atomic level and up to the psychological level. When God imagines a human identity, it imagines it so deeply that it imagines all of science, all of human history, the planet Earth, the psychology of being human, logic and rationality, mathematics, language, place of birth, family, religion, social life, money, clothing, food, politics, cinema, video games, high school, trauma, death — Every element of human life. God has to imagine all of these things  constantly in order for you to be a human self. If God changed its imagination right now, you would turn into a squirrel and scamper up a tree. The only reason you live in the 21st century is because God imagines it is the 21st century. If God changed its mind you would be a pharaoh in ancient Egypt.

That is the power of Infinite Consciousness.

This is how understanding Consciousness differs from nonduality or enlightenment. Nondual people do not understand such things. Understanding Consciousness is different from ego-death. Ego-death is simple. Understanding Consciousness is hella complicated. I teach how to understand Consciousness. I want you to understand Consciousness so well that you can turn into a squirrel.

People ask me what I mean by truth. Truth is a rich, multi-faceted notion. Here's one facet of it:

Imagine that everything you ever did in life was recorded on camera and visible to the whole world 24/7. Imagine further that all your thoughts and emotions were recorded and published for everyone to see. Now, imagine how differently you would behave. This is an example of truth and its opposite. Imagine living this transparently by default. A life with zero privacy. Your self/ego would have nowhere to hide your devilry.

Think about all the shady, hidden shit you do — the stuff no one knows but you. Imagine all the hidden stuff everyone around the planet does. Imagine everyone's darkest secrets were all made 100% public and transparent tomorrow. Imagine how much human depravity, lies, bullshit, and corruption that would be. It would be a mountain of evil larger than Mt Everest. Just looking at it would disgust you so much it would kill you. That mountain of evil is what humanity is constantly hiding. All visible human behavior and thinking revolves around that hidden mountain of evil, like stars in a spiral galaxy orbiting around a super-massive black hole. Imagine holding all of that evil in your consciousness and loving it. That's the depth of God's Love. That's how Truth and Love intersect. To be infinitely conscious is to see everything that exists — Truth — and also to accept all of it as You. The acceptance of all that is Love.

Imagine an advanced alien species that lived with zero privacy. Imagine how truthful they would be. This is a level beyond communism. It's unimaginable to humans because humans are so evil. It is easier for mankind to die than to live truthfully. All of human civilization is structured around falsehood, bound together by falsehood. It's like the Mafia. It's like Epstein's pedophile ring. Everyone in it is dirty and guilty to protect each other. When the falsehood is small, it's a cult. When the falsehood is cyclopean, it's a civilization.

Note: I am not pure enough to live that way. So I'm in this boat with you. We are all evil together. I'm just truthful enough to identify and articulate the issue.

The solution to corruption is transparency, light, consciousness, truth, God, love.

Guys and girls both misunderstand how pickup lines work.

The point of a pickup line is not to get you laid. No woman will ever sleep with you from any verbal thing you say. The verbals are irrelevant. There is no line you can say to get a girl to like you, so stop even trying that.

That's not what pickup lines are about. The point of a pickup line is to amuse yourself with clever and witty things to say. To put yourself into a creative, flirtatious mood. For this to work, you don't want to be memorizing someone else's lines, you want to be in a state of mind where you are constantly inventing funny, clever lines of your own. As you drive to the club or the date, invent some new funny lines and write them down in your phone. Keep doing that for years and you will become insanely charming, witty, funny, and sharp.

As an exercise, I challenge you to invent ten original, clever, funny lines to say to a girl. These lines don't have to be the first thing you say, some lines are best dropped deeper into a conversation. As a bonus, these lines should reflect your values, hobbies, and personality. For example, if you are into spirituality and psychedelics, invent some funny lines related to this topic. For example, something as simple as, "Fuck it. Lets go smoke DMT." And you drop this line a lot into every conversation until it becomes a joke. For example, she might be talking about some problem she has with her best friend, and you drop in, "Fuck it. Let's go smoke DMT". You do this even when you have no intention of smoking DMT. It's just a joke. But it also aligns with your true values and interests (assuming you like DMT).

The value is not in the line, the value is in the attitude and mindset that generates the line. This is the difference between investing in a diamond vs a diamond mine. To have good game, you need to re-train your mind to be frequently thinking about funny and witty things. And then you write those down for future use. If you do this for a few years, eventually your mind will become so sharp that you'll be able to generate pickup lines in real-time, live, in the middle of a conversation. Now you own a diamond mine.

Examples of funny lines I like to drop on girls in conversation:

• I am too beautiful for you.
• One day you will love me as much as I love myself.
• That's what she said.
• This is all just a dream.
• What gifts are you gonna get me?
• I have to always keep one eye on you.
• I buried my last girlfriend in the desert.
• [knock on her skull with finger] Who's in there?
• It's okay, I forgive you.
• It's okay, I'm a professional.
• God is watching you.
• I want to bite you.

It took me years to figure that out. No one explains it properly.