Leo's Blog: Infinite Insights

Miscellaneous bits of wisdom and resources on personal development, life purpose, philosophy, epistemology, nonduality, psychedelics, etc. Published randomly throughout the week.

in·sight
noun
  1. penetrating mental vision or discernment.
  2. the sudden act of grasping the inner nature or truth of a situation.
  3. a deep understanding of a person or thing.
synonyms: intuition, discernment, perception, awareness, understanding, comprehension, grasp, apprehension, penetration, acumen, perspicacity, acuity, vision, wisdom, recognition, realization, epiphany, ah-ha moment

Insights here are meant to be quick and half-baked. Consider these food for thought.

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April 13, 2026

This is excellent stuff. Study it deeply. It dovetails nicely with stuff I've been talking about for years.

Note: I do not agree with this YouTuber's warped right-wing political takes nor some of his biased views of women. So be careful. I'm expecting you to be knowledgeable enough at this point in our work to distinguish the signal from the noise. There are great insights here, but also some corruption. The insights are worth it.

April 13, 2026

This is a very accurate explanation of the dating market and how women select mates, from a male perspective.

Warning, there are some brutal truths here, but the dating market is brutal. Always has been.

You cannot use niceness or goodness to buy a woman's attraction. Don't do favors for them. Don't buy them anything. It never works so stop trying that. It just makes you look like a loser. What should you do instead? Work on making yourself as attractive as your genetics allows, and focus on socializing, approaching, build flirting skills, and let women chase you. DO NOT chase women. Approach them. Flirt with them. Get their numbers. Offer them dates. But do not chase them if they aren't responding to you. If a woman is not interested in meeting up with you, DO NOT try to convince her, do not try to reason with her, do not compliment her, do not help her whatsoever, do not be her friend, do not chit-chat with her, do not text her. If she isn't eager to meet up, you give her zero investment. Zero!

Warning: Be careful with this YouTuber. He has some advanced ideas mixed in with some bad right-wing politics and blackpill-type ideas. His view of women and politics is definitely distorted and corrupted. Do not get trapped in his biased way of seeing women. Do not dwell in the negativity too much. You need to take the useful insights and apply them constructively to your dating life. Do not bask in the doom and gloom of the dating market, just go out and socialize and date. Trust that you will get lucky. Not all girls are aiming for the top guys. There will be plenty of girls who are open to you. Remember, you don’t need to attract thousands of girls, just a handful is enough. You should not be wasting your time worrying about no girl liking you — this is both untrue and deeply detrimental to your success and self-esteem. Yes, the dating market it rough, but it is not impossible and it is not as bad as all the online complaining makes it out to be. There are plenty of dating opportunities if you just socialize regularly and put in the work.

Stop consuming content if it makes your bitter, whiny, and listless. You need to know the realities of the dating market not to complain and quit, but to know how to develop yourself and which actions to take to attract a mate. Your mind needs to be hopeful despite the harsh truths and challenges of dating. Visualize yourself succeeding, not failing. This is very important. You must believe in yourself and that your effort makes a difference. The truth is, it does. That's not just cope. If effort wasn't crucial, I wouldn't be talking about any of this. I don't care about online whining — all of it can go straight in the trash. Whining is not our work here.

I don't know how to explain to you how to comprehend brutal truths yet still remain hopeful, positive, and constructive. You just have to do it. Whenever I share brutal truths with you, I'm expecting it to hurt you a bit, but then for you to carry on with a hopeful and constructive attitude and action. Not to resign to doom. Truth is never a negative thing for us in this work. Understanding how the dating market actually works is great because it helps us succeed in it, not resign or quit. The sooner you learn how dating actually works, the sooner you can succeed at it. Don't wish dating were easy. That's never happening. Rise to the challenge instead. Success in dating requires changing many of your stubborn old mindsets. That's all part of our work.

April 12, 2026

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April 11, 2026

Warning: this is very advanced. If you think you understand, think again.

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There is no such thing as history. You are imagining it. You imagined all of history in order to ground your psyche/self. History is not something that physically exists. You invented the very notion of "a physical past". Where is your proof that a physical past exists? If you look carefully, you will notice you have no proof. You are imagining it! All you have are memories and mental images, which are constructions. History isn’t a physical state of the universe, history is your personal construction. History is your own psyche. You are not a physical body with a psyche that exits within history. Rather, your psyche invented the notion of history in order to solidify itself and create sanity. Without the hallucination of history you could not be sane, you could not be a human. You are not conscious enough to understand how you are imagining history. You tell yourself a physical past really exists, and you believe that so deeply it becomes true for you. You can't remember, but as a child you invented the notion of a past/history. History did not exist until you hallucinated it and mistook the hallucination for physical reality. And, of course, you are now hallucinating your childhood too. Humans wrongly believe that the past is a physical fact. It is not. It is a psyche’s hallucination. Without history, you could not explain what you are. The psyche needs to situate itself inside of an imaginary time-line in order to feel real. That’s why you insist history is physical. The past doesn’t exist and never existed. Consciousness has no past, no history, no time. These are all its temporary inventions. If you ever become conscious enough, you will see your psyche hallucinating history, weaving it together in real time.

History does not exist until Consciousness dreams one up. The history of the universe? — you're deftly imagining it right now. That's how powerful your mind is.

You invented the notion of "things before now".

Everything that happened to you yesterday is imaginary. If you ever realize this, your psyche will implode. This cannot be understood logically. You can only understand it from a much higher state of consciousness. Your logic is co-opted by the psyche to maintain sanity. So you cannot logic your way to what I'm saying. The hallucination of the past is so powerful that you cannot think your way out of it. As you try, the hallucination will overpower your reasoning. You cannot even imagine what it would be like to experience that history is a hallucination. This experience is beyond the imaginative capacity of your current state.

You also did this with space. You invented space. Space is 100% imaginary. Consciousness does not exist in space. Consciousness is spaceless and timeless.

Consciousness must be spaceless and timeless, otherwise it would not be Infinite nor Absolute. Consciousness cannot be bound by any physical fact or thing. You can't treat Consciousness like it's just another object in space-time. Consciousness isn't inside of anything, everything is inside of it. Space-time is conceived by Consciousness, thereby creating it in pseudo fashion. Space-time exists as an illusion within Absolute Consciousness/Infinity.

This is a very advanced realization. It took me a decade to understand it. I am pointing to an experience, not a belief or conceptual understanding. You can have a direct mystical experience into history being a hallucination. I mean that you are hallucinating World War 2, but even deeper, the entire domain of "things in the past". First you invented the domain of "things in the past", then you populated it with content like WW2.

April 11, 2026

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April 11, 2026

On the topic of insanity.

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