Leo's Blog: Infinite Insights — Page 18

I recommend that you don’t do psychedelic until the age of at least 25, so that they don’t derail your focus on mastering survival. I also recommend you don’t get into heavy, regular use of psychedelics until at least the age of 30, for the same reason. Heavy and regular use of psychedelics will significantly derail your work on basic survival, family, relationships, career, and business. You need to have those things in place before you dive deep into trans-human states of consciousness or your overall life will be negatively impacted. Your 20’s should be focused on mastering basic survival: career/business, dating & social life, practical self-help, practical psychology, life purpose, financial security, emotional stability — not chasing mystical states.

Be strategic about how you pace all this out. It is not good to dive early into psychedelics while the rest of your life is a half-baked mess. Your 20’s is all about building the practical foundation to handle all your basic survival needs, so you are not desperate and cornered. If you trip a couple times a year between 25-30, that’s okay. But if you’re tripping weekly or even daily, that will derail your foundation-building too much.

If you take a lot of psychedelics, they will disillusion you with material life. This is okay later on in life, but a big problem early on in life before you solved survival. I am so disillusioned with life that it's hard for me to even care about business, finances, dating, family. This is dangerous for an unestablished youngster. Disillusionment is a serious thing. You don't want to be dealing with it while you are starting your business or career. Working on material success demands a certain level of illusionment. Deep spiritual work isn't free, it has a cost, which is why most people don't do it.

I even want to go as far as saying, don't do psychedelics at all until you're 30+. The longer you hold off the better. I want you to be successful before you open that can of worms. I know that's disappointing for those of you who are eager, but psychedelics are truly no light matter.

This is excellent stuff. Study it deeply. It dovetails nicely with stuff I've been talking about for years.

Note: I do not agree with this YouTuber's warped right-wing political takes nor some of his biased views of women. So be careful. I'm expecting you to be knowledgeable enough at this point in our work to distinguish the signal from the noise. There are great insights here, but also some corruption. The insights are worth it.

This is a very accurate explanation of the dating market and how women select mates, from a male perspective.

Warning, there are some brutal truths here, but the dating market is brutal. Always has been.

You cannot use niceness or goodness to buy a woman's attraction. Don't do favors for them. Don't buy them anything. It never works so stop trying that. It just makes you look like a loser. What should you do instead? Work on making yourself as attractive as your genetics allows, and focus on socializing, approaching, build flirting skills, and let women chase you. DO NOT chase women. Approach them. Flirt with them. Get their numbers. Offer them dates. But do not chase them if they aren't responding to you. If a woman is not interested in meeting up with you, DO NOT try to convince her, do not try to reason with her, do not compliment her, do not help her whatsoever, do not be her friend, do not chit-chat with her, do not text her. If she isn't eager to meet up, you give her zero investment. Zero!

Warning: Be careful with this YouTuber. He has some advanced ideas mixed in with some bad right-wing politics and blackpill-type ideas. His view of women and politics is definitely distorted and corrupted. Do not get trapped in his biased way of seeing women. Do not dwell in the negativity too much. You need to take the useful insights and apply them constructively to your dating life. Do not bask in the doom and gloom of the dating market, just go out and socialize and date. Trust that you will get lucky. Not all girls are aiming for the top guys. There will be plenty of girls who are open to you. Remember, you don’t need to attract thousands of girls, just a handful is enough. You should not be wasting your time worrying about no girl liking you — this is both untrue and deeply detrimental to your success and self-esteem. Yes, the dating market it rough, but it is not impossible and it is not as bad as all the online complaining makes it out to be. There are plenty of dating opportunities if you just socialize regularly and put in the work.

Do not fall down the black pill rabbit hole. Stop consuming content if it makes your bitter, whiny, and listless. You need to know the realities of the dating market not to complain and quit, but to know how to develop yourself and which actions to take to attract a mate. Your mind needs to be hopeful despite the harsh truths and challenges of dating. Visualize yourself succeeding, not failing. This is very important. You must believe in yourself and that your effort makes a difference. The truth is, it does. That's not just cope. If effort wasn't crucial, I wouldn't be talking about any of this. I don't care about online whining — all of it can go straight in the trash. Whining is not our work here.

I don't know how to explain to you how to comprehend brutal truths yet still remain hopeful, positive, and constructive. You just have to do it. Whenever I share brutal truths with you, I'm expecting it to hurt you a bit, but then for you to carry on with a hopeful and constructive attitude and action. Not to resign to doom. Truth is never a negative thing for us in this work. Understanding how the dating market actually works is great because it helps us succeed in it, not resign or quit. The sooner you learn how dating actually works, the sooner you can succeed at it. Don't wish dating were easy. That's never happening. Rise to the challenge instead. Success in dating requires changing many of your stubborn old mindsets. That's all part of our work.

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Extra Credit Homework Assignment:

Can you articulate what exactly is wrong/corrupt about HoeMath's worldview? Where is he going wrong?