How To Make A Girl Squirt
By Leo Gura - May 9, 2014 | 86 Comments
Give your girl an explosive orgasm.
Hey this is Leo for Actualized.org and in this video am going to show you how to make a girl squirt.
Warning this video is extremely sexually explicit.
All right let’s talk about how to make a girl squirt! This is such a passionate topic for me, I love to do this, and I love to have girls squirt for me. It’s one of my favorite things.
It’s A Beautiful Thing
As a guy you should love this as well. If you haven’t made a girl squirt in your life before then you are missing out on so much. I can’t even explain it to you. Words cannot describe the beauty of this thing that I’m about to show you.
All right so, how do you make a girl squirt? What do we mean by squirt? Squirting means that she is going to have an explosive orgasm where she is going to ejaculate and she is going to squirt her juices out all over the place. Now this is can be light squirting or it can be extremely heavy squirting. This will depend on the girl and this will depend on the mood that you set and how well you execute this whole procedure.
So in this video am going to give you the technique and also going to tell you the do’s and don’ts for making this process work. So what I’m about to show you is a technique, a technique that you going to do with your fingers. I don’t want you to focus so much on the finger technique. What I want you to focus more on is the mindset that is coming here. It’s the emotions that you’re putting into it, because the critical factor that decides between whether a girl will or will not squirt for you, is not the fingering technique that you use.
What’s more important is how you make her feel and that you make her feel totally safe and secure and relaxed and open to you. If you can get her to surrender to you, and get her to release all her tension, and get her to overcome any kind of psychological sexual hang ups that she has, because girls are very conditioned from a very early age with negative images about sex. So even though they love sex, they’ve also got this conditioning put upon them and it tells them that sex is bad, dirty and evil, and that it’s dangerous and that it shouldn’t be openly enjoyed and it shouldn’t be discussed. So you’ve got to break down that barrier and you’ve got to make her very comfortable and very intimate with you.
To do that is what am going to tell you is kind of the set up to this whole thing. So it’s not so much about fingering, its more about the set up. You get the set up right, then everything else will fall into place. You will get the fingering right, it’s not that difficult.
For Your Wife Or Girlfriend
So what is the best way to do this? First of all what kind of girl should this be done with? This should be done with your girlfriend, a girl that you’ve had sex with already, multiple times. So I would say, If you haven’t had sex with a girl five or ten times yet then don’t use this technique on her because it’s going to be too much.
You still have a lot of sexual exploration to do if you haven’t had sex five or ten times yet. So you don’t need to go and bring out the big guns yet. This is the big gun that you bring out maybe ten times in when it’s getting a little bit stale and you want to really spice it up and show her something crazy and new. Do not do this with a girl that you’re having sex with for the first time. You’re not going to have the intimacy that is necessary and it’s also going to be too much and too awkward.
When you’re having sex for the first time, there is already too much awkwardness there. You don’t want to add this on top of it. Those are the caveats. Of course if you’re married and you’re still having sex in your marriage and your wife will still let you still have sex with her, then first of all, congratulations, that’s a big accomplishment. Second of all, this can really be a great technique to spice up your love life there. So that is kind of who you are doing this with.
Now as far as expectations are concerned, there is a question, and this is a question that I still have for myself. Can every girl squirt or not? Are certain girls squirters and certain girls not? How do we know which ones are and which ones aren’t?
Well here is the skinny on this, ultimately I don’t know. I am not some sexual guru here. I haven’t had sex with hundreds of girls, so I obviously don’t know. So I haven’t got the sample sizes to know which girls can squirt and which girls can’t.
From everything that I have researched and from everything that I understand about female psychology, the trick here and the reason that you might think that your girl can’t squirt, or the girls that you have been within the past haven’t squirted, so you think that only a rare number of girls squirt. That’s not the case. The case is more as follows.
A rare number of girls will squirt naturally, because they are sexually open and feel comfortable and they are just not shy about it. The rest of the girls and probably ninety-five percent of them will not squirt naturally, because you have not set it up properly, you haven’t made them feel comfortable enough and they feel that if they squirted, that they would be embarrassed that they would make you dirty, that you wouldn’t like it, that you would find it disgusting and you would judge them for it. On top of that, a lot of girls simply don’t even know this about themselves so it’s not like they are keeping it as a secret from you, and they are not squirting for you consciously. It’s more that they are tensed sub-consciously and so they never open themselves up as much as they could, that it’s necessary for them to squirt.
Become As Intimate As Possible With Her
So your job is then to what? It is to break down this barrier of comfort and intimacy. You have to become very intimate with your girl, which is why a girlfriend is ideal. You have to also make her very comfortable and relaxed. Intimacy is something that you build up over a long period of time, but comfortable and relaxed in the moment, when you’ve got her on your bed and you’re about to get into the action, you’ve to make her feel very relaxed.
Now, the best way to do that, I find, is first of all have a quiet uninterrupted setting. So don’t be doing this at your parents’ house. This is something that you do at your home when you’ve got a lot of time. You set aside a chunk of two hours or something like that so that no one can disturb you. All your cell phones are off and you’ve got the whole night to yourselves. That’s the best environment to do this in.
Then, get her very relaxed, romance her, get her really excited about this process. The best way to that I find is to give her a massage. A massage relaxes the whole body. So you get her naked on your bed and then you go to work. Hopefully you know how to give girls massages. It’s really not that. An idiot can do it.
All you do is you get her naked on the bed. You don’t need to use any oil or something like that. That’s going to make things messy. You lay her down and then you start basically putting your hands on her and rubbing her in ways that would seem pleasurable to you. Obviously she is going to react in like and she is going to give you positive feedback for the massage that you’re doing.
So massage her back, massage her arms, massage her legs, massage her thighs, her feet. Basically her entire body. As your giving her the massage she’s going to be completely naked. So the things that you want to avoid are touching any of the private areas. Don’t touch her nipples and don’t touch her vagina. Leave those for later.
The reason you leave those for later is because it gets her excited. If you go straight for the money, right off the bat then that’s not foreplay, that’s not really exciting. That’s going straight for sex. So don’t do that, that’s normal sex.
What am talking about here is you’re going to do a very long and extended romance session. A lot of foreplay is going to go on here. What you’re really going to do is do the massage. Give her a really good long twenty to thirty minute massage where you’re just focusing on giving her kind of a platonic massage.
So even though she is naked you’re not really focusing on sex. You just massaging her and maybe you’re kissing her body in different places, you can kiss her all over her body, get her really excited, but also really iron out the kinks, iron out all those notches in her back. Relax all her muscles so that she’s feeling kind of like she is floating on clouds. That’s what you want.
Plant The Seed In Her Mind
It’s a really nice buzz from having a deep massage. So give her that. That will relax her. When she is that relaxed all her insecurities are going to fly out the window and the opportunity is going to open for you to tell you what you want her to do and she’s going to follow it without too much thinking and analyzing. You don’t want her doing that.
So after you do the massage, then what you want to do is build up a little bit of intimacy right in the moment. Look her in the eyes, tell her you love her if you do love her and you are on that kind of basis, then tell her that. Be very sweet and intimate with her, however you do that.
I’m not going to get into the details of that. That is going to be too long. I’ll have other videos that will tell you how to do dirty talk and intimate talk. So build up that intimacy right in the moment, so she feels that this is something special. It’s more than just like a quickie sex session. This is something special that you two are doing that only you two are sharing. So build it up with her like that.
Then what you’re going to move onto is you’re going to move on to telling her that you love when she squirts. You have to plant the seed in her mind that squirting is something that gets you really, really excited. She wants to make you happy, so if she thinks that you love squirting, then she is going to be much more receptive to squirt for you. If you never talked about it with her, she is going to assume that you don’t like it, she’s going to assume that it’s disgusting, she’s going to assume that this is something that would freak you out or if it happened that it would catch you by surprise.
So she is going to hold it back, even if she could squirt, she wouldn’t do it for you kind of like a courtesy. She doesn’t want it to take you by surprise. So what you want to tell her is that you actually love this, and that the hottest thing for you is to see a girl squirt and to see your girl squirt. This is like your dream come true.
Tell that to her, build that up then she is like, “Oh okay, he is the kind of guy whose is cool with it. He is the kind of man who is comfortable with sexuality. He is not going to get freaked out. He is not going to judge me for squirting.” All right, so tell her that. that’s really, really important.
So once you’ve got that out of the way, then what you got to tell her that you going to be guiding her. See the other big problem is that you if you just tell a girl that “Hey I want you to squirt for me!” If you just tell her that that’s putting a lot of responsibility on her. It’s kind of like a girl telling you, “Hey, I want you to come for me right now!” If you ever had a girl tell you that, then that has the exact opposite effect.
Make Her Surrender To You
What that does, it makes you self conscious, puts you in your head and then actually, you can’t come when someone tells you to come. It’s like reverse psychology. So in this situation, it’s kind of the same thing. Don’t put the burden on her. Tell her that you’re taking the burden off her, and the way you do that is you tell her that you are guiding her.
You’re leading her into something adventurous and something new. You tell her that we are going to explore your body. You tell her, that you want to make her squirt, and you tell her that it’s okay if she doesn’t and you’re not expecting anything. That you guys are going to have a great time no matter what, but then you tell her that she is going to obey you tonight. That you are leading and she is following, she is going to obey every one of your commands.
Set it up like that. When you’ve got that kind of frame set, that’s perfect. She is going to love it. Women love to surrender themselves to a strong man especially in the bedroom. So this hits on so many levels, this gives you cudo points on so many levels in the bedroom.
So have that kind of commanding authority to the directions that you give her, also be confident about yourself, you have to believe that she will squirt. If you don’t believe it and you do it half assed, and you’re very waffly about it, and you kind of look to her to do all the work, it’s never going to happen. You have to come in there with confidence. So even if you’re not confident on the inside. Use the old the ‘fake it till you make it’ trick. You’ve got to just push through and tell yourself and that if you’re confident on the outside, then the confidence on the inside will match up to it. So you just go through and you make it happen.
The final point that you have to tell her is that you have to explicitly tell her, that she has to push when she comes. This is the key here. This is the reason that women to do not squirt is because they have a concern. The concern is that there squirt will be confused with peeing, so they think that if they are squirting they think that they are peeing and really they are two totally different things and you need to explain this to her because otherwise she is going to be self conscious about it.
What you need to tell her is you need to tell her to push. So literally she has to use her vaginal muscles to push out the juices. That’s not going to happen if she holding back and a lot of times she will be holding back because she is afraid that if she lets go, she’s going to pee all over you. Of course she doesn’t want to pee all over her man, so she is going to be very self conscious about that.
So what you tell her is, “Baby look, it’s not pee. When you’re coming and you’re pushing all your juices out, that’s exactly what I want from you. That’s not peeing, you can’t possibly pee when you’re doing that. What you’re doing is you’re coming and that what I want that’s beautiful to me.” You tell her that, and you also tell her, “I’m going to tell you to push when you’re coming and I want you to push everything out of you! I want you to push all the juices out.”
If you don’t tell her this then it’s not going to happen. Unlikely it’s going to happen. So this is a very critical component that many guys will miss. So once you explain that to her and you get her to comply and agree with that then you’re all good to go.
At this point it’s all about the technique. Now what you’ve got to do is, you’ve got to get your fingers inside of her and you’ve got to do the hard work to make her squirt. That’s something I’m going to show you right now.
All right, so now what I’m going to do is am going to show you the actual fingering technique that you’re going to use to make her squirt. So here is the set up. So what you’re going to do is you’re going to lay her on the bed, and she is going to be on her back with her legs spread and open. You’ve have already given her a massage, she’s completely relaxed, she’s really, really excited for you, she’s super horny and super wet already and you haven’t even done anything with her yet.
All right, put a pillow under her head to give her some support. Now the way you’re going to position yourself is that you’re going to lay up right next to her so your side is going to be right next her to side, your head is going to head next to her head, and then your arm is going to be between her legs. Your arm is going to reach down between her legs. You’re lying next to her.
As you’re lying next to her, get as close as you can to her almost like your hugging her and you’re holding her in your arms. That’s really nice because it’s going to build up a lot of intimacy and it’s also going to give you some leverage and stability because you want to hold onto her as your doing this action with your hands and your fingers. So once you’ve got that position, then here is how it works.
Pretend that her legs are pointing up. So one leg is pointing this way and one leg is pointing this way. This means that this is her vagina here and her head is down that way and so is yours. So your fingers, now, this is what is going to happen. You’re going to take your middle finger and you’re going to take your index finger, I mean your ring finger.
You’re going to put these two together like this and this is what you’re going to put inside of her. So this goes inside her vagina like this. This right here is the upper wall of her vagina so if you would turn it around this kind where the clit would be. Now this is the inside of it. You put your fingers in like this and now you’ve got the right position.
The g-spot is going to be located right here. It’s not that deep in, it’s on the upper wall of the vagina and it’s about an inch or so. You can feel it, it’s got a slightly different texture to it than the rest of the vagina. So this is the g-spot area. What I like to do, don’t put your fingers directly on the g-spot. Put your fingers in as deep as you can, the deeper the better. What you’re really going to be doing is you’re going to be stimulating that g-spot with this part of your finger here, not with the tips of your fingers or the pad of the fingers but really here, lower.
Start Slow and Build Up From There
So now you’ve got this situation going like this. Now look, there’s different motions that you can do and you don’t want to go in there and start pumping right away. If you go in there and start pumping right way like a mad man then you’re not doing it right. You want to build it up slowly, so you can finger her and play around with her and do all that stuff, but when you’re really ready to make squirt then this is what you do.
Your fingers are all the way inside and they’re pressed all the way up against the back wall. What you’re going to start to do is you’re going to start to do a kind of a motion like this, where you’re just pressing. Look at what I’m doing. See, I’m pressing, I’m pressing in on the upper wall and then am releasing.
So press and release, press, release. You want to start about at this rate. Where it’s kind of slow and you’re getting her even more and more and more excited. In order to make her to squirt, you’re going to be doing a pretty aggressive move with your hand.
In order to do that, she has to be extremely, extremely wet, sopping wet. You have to hear the wetness. If you do not hear that, then there is not enough lubrication in there and you might cause a friction and some problems and it might lead to pain, but if she is really excited and wet and you have done everything like I told you, then everything is going to be fine. You don’t need to worry about hurting her in anyway.
So now it’s like this and you’re pumping her away, and you’re getting her closer and closer to orgasm. You’re going to see. She’s going to be moaning and moaning and she’s going to be calling your name out and she going to be talking dirty to you and you can do that back to her as you’re doing this. So as you’re doing this you can look her in the eyes because your faces will be close to each other. You can kiss her you can caress her in other ways, but this hand is going to be doing this kind of pumping action. Slowly over a minute or two you want to ramp that up, you just want to ramp the speed up.
Notice I’m not going in and out, nor am I doing kind of a curling motion, nor am I going like that. What am doing is I’m doing a pump, kind of just a push on the upper wall, that’s perfect. Keep doing kind of pump action, and make it faster, and faster and faster. As your doing this faster and faster and faster, notice that right now am just using my fingers here and am using a little bit of my arm, but I’m not using this part of my arm. I’m just using my hand, so that’s how its starts.
Then as you see that she’s getting more and more excited, and she is getting closer and closer to orgasm, then you’re going to want to go faster and you’re going to want to go harder. So faster and harder, and to go faster and harder, what’s going to happen is that your whole hand is going to start moving back and forth. You see what’s happening here. Not just the pump, but now a back and forth is happening. This is the idea that you want. You want to do this kind of pumping action and you’re going to go faster, and faster and faster like this.
Build Up Your Dominant Hand
This is going to strain your hand a lot so it’s good if you build up your hand. You have to use your dominant hand, so if your right handed, use your right hand, if you’re left handed use your left hand. I literally cannot do this with my left hand. It’s not strong enough. Even my right hand will start to cramp because you need to do this consistently and with a lot of pressure and you can’t let up. So as she is coming closer and closer to orgasm, you’ve got to really put a lot of pressure into it like this.
Now here’s the trick, you know that your girl sends out signals when she is getting close to come, so you know your girls signals. You’ve got a kind of intuition for it and you usually know about sixty to thirty seconds in that she is about to come, she’s getting close. She will be telling you or she will be moaning is a certain way or she will be moving her hips and her body in a certain way where you just know it’s going to happen.
So when you’re getting to that point, that’s the critical point. You have to look into her eyes and you have to establish deep intimate connection with her and you have to tell her that you want her to squirt. So you say something like “Baby, I want you to squirt for me.” Or you can ask her a question like “Baby do you want to squirt for me right now?”
As she is getting closer she going to say of course yes and she is going to be moaning. That’s perfect, that’s right where you want her. Now as you’re doing this, the whole point is that you’re setting this up so that in the last ten to five seconds of this wild orgasm that she is going to have is you’re going to be telling her squirt and to push for you.
You literally have to say these words, “Baby squirt, squirt for me!” But that’s not enough. You also have to tell her, “Push!” ‘Push’ is telling her exactly what she needs to do with her muscles down there. So that she can release the juices. So you have to be telling her this especially in the last ten to five seconds as she is about to orgasm.
If you do that, then she going to be following your commands. If you just expect her to squirt for you automatically, or you expect to tell her, “Hey, baby squirt” and then not give her any further instructions, then she might not know what to do. So you have to really tell her to push. Time it such that you’re telling this to her in the last ten seconds.
So as she is about to come tell her to push and even if you kind of miss it and she’s already coming, you notice that she has just had an orgasm as second ago tell her to push anyways cause her orgasm is going to be long. It can be extended for a whole minute or even more. So if you do this right you have got quite a window there to make sure that you tell her what you need to be telling her. So as soon as she has her orgasm, if you missed it, tell her to start pushing, and she will.
Here is how it’s going to look. This is kind of the demo. You have to go really fast. At this point, it’s going to get really sloppy and really violent and going to be really, really aggressive, like that. So that’s about the speed and strength that you’re going at at the very, very end when she is going to start squirting for you.
As she has her orgasm, the critical thing to also remember, of course you’re telling her that you love her, you’re telling her that she is squirting for you, you’re telling her to push and you keep doing the pumping. So she is going to have her wild orgasm and you keep doing the pumping and you tell her to keep coming, keep coming, keep coming. Try to extend that orgasm for as long as you can. What’s beautiful about women is that they can basically, come forever it’s amazing what you can do with a woman.
She Will Love You For It
So you keep doing this even after she is coming, because her orgasm is going to be extended and you don’t want to just cut it off as soon as it starts. You want to keep going through that motion. You can let up on it you don’t need to be that violent anymore. You can kind of let up on it and go a little bit easier, although you can also go violent for a long, long, long time and you can string over multiple orgasms, have her squirt multiple times for you. You can really take this to advanced levels, but let’s start you off with something simple. Get her to squirt once and have one nice strong orgasm there.
Keep doing this motion until you bring her down, and she is really happy, she had a full orgasm, she has calmed down a bit from it, then you can get out and move on to other things. That’s basically the process. As you can tell am a little winded myself right now from just demonstrating this. That’s because it does take energy. It will take the wind out of you and your arm will cramp up and your arm will hurt. So you have to go to the gym, flex that bicep and flex your forearms and work on your fingers so that you’re really strong in that department.
Ultimately, what happens is that if you do this, and you make her squirt, then you are going to have a blast and she’s going to have an even bigger blast. She’s going to love you so much it’s insane. The amount of intimacy that this builds up is ridiculous, because most girls have never experienced this in their lives. They are going see you as the man who is showing her, how to be adventurous in the bedroom and to a girl that’s the most amazing things ever.
You’re helping her learn about her sexuality. You’re helping her expand her understanding of her sexuality. You’re helping her drop all the hang ups she has about sexuality that she has gotten since she was a girl from all the social conditioning. So that’s a really, really good thing.
When can you do this, literally she might get hooked on you like crack cocaine, because you are going to built up so much intimacy. You are going to make her come in such a way that she has never come in her entire life. She probably doesn’t even know that she has this in her, that she this capability, but when you bring this out, your relationship is going to be so much stronger. You guys can have so much more fun and then that will open the doors to all sorts of other crazy sexual exploration that you two can do in the future. So go and ahead and try this out. Make sure you do this with your girlfriend, not with a first time girl, and report back your results.
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