Women Will Never Satisfy Men

By Leo Gura - February 17, 2026

Women will never give a man enough sex to satisfy him. Doesn’t matter who the girlfriend is, nor how many of them you have, women will always leave a man sexually frustrated. It is mandatory for a man to learn to satisfy himself, because women never will. Women are not interested in sexually satisfying men. Can’t blame them, it just is what it is. This is a critical lesson for a man to learn. Perhaps you are still under the fantasy that some woman will satisfy you. If only you find the right one. That’s a fairytale. The reality is that only you can satisfy yourself. This why no-fap is so stupid. All your no-fap will fail. No-fap will only drive you crazy. It cannot succeed. The situation is much worse than no-fappers imagine. Getting a girlfriend or wife will not solve your sexual frustrations. You think having a girlfriend or wife will sexually satisfy you? Ha! You think doing pickup will sexually satisfy you? Ha! You don’t know women. They don’t give a shit about your sexual needs.

I had this epiphany not while I was single but while I had a girlfriend. That was eye-opening to me. I realized that sex with her would never be enough to satisfy me. This changed my attitude towards sex and relationships dramatically. I deconstructed the fantasy that women will ever sexually satisfy me, which made me 100% responsible for sexually satisfying myself, which was a huge shift. There is so much powerful illusion involved in sexual relationships.

This is the real black pill.

It is not a woman’s responsibility to satisfy you, it is your responsibility. What a paradigm shift! This changes everything.

What blackpillers don’t realize is that getting a girlfriend will not satisfy you. It will not solve your problems. If only life were so easy. The poor dream that money will satisfy them like blackpillers dream that having a girlfriend will satisfy them. These are powerful illusions which only break when you fully play them out.

As long as your attitude is that women are responsible for sexually satisfying you, you will forever be their slave and forever frustrated no matter how many of them you get in bed. Your sexual frustration triples when you expect women to satisfy you. You need hoping and they keep letting you down. This isn’t their fault. They will never care about you. It is your fault for expecting them to be that selfless.

Doing pickup will not resolve this issue. It doesn’t matter if you’ve slept with 500 women, tomorrow you will still be frustrated.

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