My Game Awakening

By Leo Gura - July 21, 2025

I had an awakening into how to get laid.

One time, when I was in a profound, high-consciousness awakened state, I started contemplating the nature of attraction, the nature of how to attract the feminine. I had a sudden insight into the essence of attraction. By this point I had spent years learning attraction and I had done thousands of cold approaches. I understood game both conceptually and experientially already. But this insight was on another level. Within seconds I grasped the key to attracting all women, I grasped the essence of it: PLAY!

Attractive interaction with women is about one thing: PLAY. You play with them. This is the master key to success with women. The inability to be playful is why guys fail at attracting girls. All of game is about training yourself to be in a playful mode. This is especially difficult for highly logical, uptight, introverted, socially inexperienced, anxious, cerebral, autistic men. Anxiety, fear, insecurity, and overthinking destroy one’s ability to be playful. The reason alcohol is so popular is because it automatically shuts down anxiety, fear, insecurity, logicality, and overthinking — making it effortless to be playful. But of course alcohol is unhealthy so I never used it.

All of game is about learning how to manipulate your own mind to enter a playful state at will, from which attracting women is both effective and effortless. Play requires genuine relaxation and enjoyment. You cannot fake being playful while being anxious and serious. Your mind and body must be relaxed. Play requires having no attachment to outcome and no scripted lines. This is why scripted pickup lines do not work and why what you say does not matter. What matters is the playful energy behind everything you say. When you are in a state of play, knowing what to say stops being a problem. You stop worrying about or running out of things to say to the girl.

This is a master-level insight. An insight that even the best pickup coaches do not teach because they do not comprehend its significance. It is THE solution to all of game. The equivalent of Peter Ralston’s insight into mastery of Judo. I can use this one master insight to teach any man how to be good with women. I can build a whole course around it. But, of course, implementing it still requires a lot of training because the logical mind does not enter a playful state easily. This is also why you cannot logically become good at game through reading books or understanding theory. And there are other important aspects to success in this field like learning how to handle logistics.

But there is a deeper point here than teaching game. I don’t care about game. The reason for this post is that I wanted to teach you the power of Awakened consciousness. I was only able to have this insight thanks to being in a state of God-Consciousness. People often wonder, “But Leo, of what use is Awakening and God? What will it do for me? It can’t get me laid, so what’s the point?” Well, actually, that’s wrong! It can get you laid. You can use God-Consciousness to have insight into any aspect of reality, from getting laid, to raising children, to art, to business, to investing, to science, to therapy. Of course, that is not a legitimate reason to pursue Awakening/God, but it is a nice ancillary benefit. You should be using God-Consciousness to generate powerful insights into relative, material domains of life and using that to act more intelligently and effectively in the world. There are profound insights to be had — that you are missing — in every domain of human life. So go get them.

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