The power of personality when approaching women

[Raze]

Lately many on this forum have been saying looks is all or almost all that matters.

But I saw this video, notice how he gets a almost 2x results improvement just from a personality shift 

 

[Leo Gura]

Getting numbers is a useless metric.

[Rafael Thundercat]

@Raze maybe the girls thougth that he was a mormon 

[Raze]

32 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Getting numbers is a useless metric.

Who has better odds, someone with 5 numbers to call or 10?

[Leo Gura]

51 minutes ago, Raze said:

Who has better odds, someone with 5 numbers to call or 10?

1 solid number is worth 20 flimsy ones.

[Pav]

It's not the case that looks are the only thing that matters, life is rarely that simple. Personally and charisma are significant factors in attracting women. However, looks are the biggest factor determining your attractiveness to women. If a girl doesn't find you physically attractive you most likely won't even be considered as a potential sexual or romantic partner in the first place (unless they are similarly unattractive). There's a threshold of physical attractiveness with most often must be reached.

It's rarely the case that someone who a girl finds physically unattractive can make that girl attracted to them through personality or charisma. However, the opposite can indeed be true; a girl can lose interest in someone physically attractive through lack of social skills, negative emotional state, or undesirable personality characteristics.

Another important factor for attractiveness which people never seem to talk about is your emotional state or level of engery.

As for the video, getting a girls number means nothing. It's very easy to get a girls number (which is why all these pick up videos like to show that off) but that doesn't mean it's going to lead anywhere. The majority of those girls will flake or just gave the wrong number. 

The real metric is did he actually go out with that girl? Did he have sex with them? Did he start a meaningful relationship?

[LoseYourvelf]

5 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

1 solid number is worth 20 flimsy ones.

But do not discount the opposite

[Leo Gura]

2 hours ago, LoseYourvelf said:

But do not discount the opposite

I certainly do discount the opposite. Since I've been there and it is worthless.

[Buck Edwards]

It's not the power of personality. It's the power of character. 

 

Before wanting someone in your life, you got to ask a question to yourself - what exactly do I bring to the Table? 

You can only expect out of others what you can expect out of yourself. 

 

[LoseYourvelf]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

I certainly do discount the opposite. Since I've been there and it is worthless.

Well that makes me and you worthless too Leo

[LoseYourvelf]

Made the right choice? Forget anyone?

[Yimpa]

10 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Getting numbers is a useless metric.

On the other hand, how many hours a day you spend communicating with someone is pretty useful.

[LoseYourvelf]

3 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

On the other hand, how many hours a day you spend communicating with someone is pretty useful.

Unless you are karl young

Edited March 3 by LoseYourvelf