Being high conscious and watching porn doesn’t go together

[shree]

I'm not sure if this adds to the discussion, but I had a personal moment involving porn and 5MeO-MALT just a short while ago.

[Yimpa]

Just now, shree said:

I'm not sure if this adds to the discussion, but I had a personal moment involving porn and 5MeO-MALT just a short while ago.

And what lesson(s) did you learn from this experience?

[shree]

Just now, Yimpa said:

And what lesson(s) did you learn from this experience?

1. My libido is way too high.

2. I often distract myself from emotional labor by watching porn. 

[Yimpa]

1 minute ago, shree said:

1. My libido is way too high.

2. I often distract myself from emotional labor by watching porn. 

I get that. Avoiding and denying feelings has been a serious issue for me for quite a long time, which is why I’m so grateful that I’m starting to approach them now. 

[Hello from Russia]

1 hour ago, StarStruck said:

Aren’t you from Russia? You should know better bro. 

Yes, but how it changes anything? We watch the same porn

There are also a ton of amateurs from Russia on pornhub who enjoy expressing themselves in this artform too, yes

But I don't really mean them

[StarStruck]

2 hours ago, Hello from Russia said:

How so? In most porn that I watch people are doing that as their life calling or artistic expression and they are deeply enjoying it

It is all anal and stuff from Russia. I’m no psycho therapist but it is so so obvious Russia has a problem with sex.  

[Davidess]

I agree with @StarStruck... Objectifying other people in porn will make your subconscious believe it's okay to be objectified. And hence you'll attract those experiences into your life. From my perspective it's not harmful per se. It's about what experiences you want to attract into your life. Plus, (in an extreme case) you can make your brain associate orgasm with people on the screen and not even go hard with a real partner.

The only way it's harmful (from my perspective) is only when people already seek out those "harmful experiences". A healthy person wouldn't seek out rape on porn anyway (even though you can't find any rape in normal porn sides, this stuff is censored).

Edited March 2, 2024 by Davidess

[Hello from Russia]

56 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

It is all anal and stuff from Russia. I’m no psycho therapist but it is so so obvious Russia has a problem with sex.  

You just all have a shadow about stage blue girls in the West, you crave them

Hence you all get recommended porn with Russian girls

[StarStruck]

28 minutes ago, RightHand said:

Arguing that porn is spiritually harmful is more of a reflection on the person making the claim than on the porn itself. 

 

We call that a self report my Guy 

@RightHand what does your name say about you

[Yimpa]

2 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

@RightHand what does your name say about you

I’m currently eating mac and cheese with a fork in my right hand. What are you talking about? 

[StarStruck]

Just now, Yimpa said:

I’m currently eating mac and cheese with a fork in my right hand. What are you talking about? 

What is your other hand doing? Keep up it above the table please.

[Ry4n]

Spiritual development has to be authentic, if you wanna do it you’ll do it, if you’re enlightened enough you will automatically stop caring about sex. This doesn’t happen for everyone of course but for me enlightenment made me see how stupid sex is and how much every human behaviour, endeavour and way of seeing the world is influenced by sex. In fact for most normies it’s like their entire life revolves around it unconsciously; it’s pathetic. From a far away view it’s hardly any different than looking at a bunch of rats 🐀 scurry for a mate to reproduce just to do the same crap all over again 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Life is a joke, have fun!

[Ry4n]

6 hours ago, Felliks said:

Pornography is neurological. I know from Leo's videos neurology isn't consciousness, but still, isn't it connected?

Pornography as a drug is a drug.

What? Everything is “neurological” and everything is a drug since life is a drug experience. 

[Ry4n]

4 hours ago, Hello from Russia said:

How so? In most porn that I watch people are doing that as their life calling or artistic expression and they are deeply enjoying it

Artistic expression 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 

What a load of croc, if that’s their artistic expression then they are a bunch of morons. 

[StarStruck]

2 minutes ago, Ry4n said:

Artistic expression 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 

What a load of croc, if that’s their artistic expression then they are a bunch of morons. 

hahahah you said what I wanted to say in a polite way. I  have to be careful. Mods give me warnings and bans for almost nothing. Last month I posted a meme and I got a ban lol.

[Ry4n]

10 minutes ago, RightHand said:

@Ry4n I'll add a nuance to this : I will almost never believe someone that says to me they don't care about sex unless they can prove that they can get sex whenever they want.

 

If you can't, then you're just using spirituality to bypass your inability to attract people into your life.

Projection! I’ve literally rejected women cos I give no fucks 😎🤪🤙It’s a waste of mental space, being alone makes you more creative and original.

Most people are boring to me. 
Sex makes you dumber. 

[Ry4n]

You can’t “use spirituality” when spirituality is actually using you and changing you automatically without choice. 
 

Ramana Maharshi certainly didn’t give a fuck, so it is possible ya monkeys! 🙈 

[Ry4n]

5 minutes ago, RightHand said:

How do you know Maharshi didn't give a fuck ? 

 

 

“Just 2 bodies rubbing up against each other” paraphrased from Ram Dass

It is a bit harsh but I see where he’s coming from. It is better to be motionless for the ultimate bliss. 
 

Again I’m dreaming all of this so if I cared that would assume that I’m just thinking I’m dreaming all of this vs actually being genuinely awake to it and not full of shit.

Edited March 2, 2024 by Ry4n

[Ry4n]

That being said life goes in phases so maybe in a few years I suddenly do give a fuck because of choosing to lose myself in my dream cos y not?

But without a doubt when you’re really in non-duality you don’t have desires genuinely. You’re completely unmoved. 

[Razard86]

10 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Spiritual nonsense.

The part I find funny is someone will watch National Geographic and watch animals get it on and everything is fine. As soon as you watch humans do the same thing they demonize it. It's so funny how powerful self-bias is. Many people on these forums have judgments about human sex they need to work through.

As long as both people are consenting watching them have sex is fine. It's amazing how so many on these forums just create toxic ideologies. So much ego on here. If it was up to them sex scenes would probably stop being in movies as well. LOL.