Every change makes things worse

[PepperBlossoms]

I was starting to think about this and was wondering if it was accurate- Every Major Change Makes Things Worse

[PepperBlossoms]

i've noticed how everytime i deliberately implement a major change of my choice, there is massive regret and sadness and guilt.

but then i feel regret, sadness, and guilt for the new choice as well.

i just want peace

[Judy2]

i think i can relate a lot

the idea of "healing" and "health" is associated with a lot of guilt for me as well 

it's hypocritical of me to say this since i resist it a lot myself, but...the only place where peace can be found is underneath those feelings of sadness, guilt, and regret

keep looking♡ ....or i guess stop looking so hard and let it be

Edited February 28 by Judy2

[Princess Arabia]

20 hours ago, PepperBlossoms said:

i just want peace

 

[Yimpa]

20 hours ago, PepperBlossoms said:

i've noticed how everytime i deliberately implement a major change of my choice, there is massive regret and sadness and guilt.

but then i feel regret, sadness, and guilt for the new choice as well.

Do you trust yourself?

[Yimpa]

5 hours ago, Judy2 said:

on a more practical note, focussing on changes that you truly feel positive (rather than conflicted) about might be a good starting point.

There are powerful changes that you can be conflicted about, but you do it anyway because you are so set on your values and vision for your life.

[Judy2]

8 hours ago, Yimpa said:

There are powerful changes that you can be conflicted about, but you do it anyway because you are so set on your values and vision for your life.

yes of course, and ultimately those are the changes that may end up having the biggest impact

all i said is if it's something you're struggling with, sometimes it can be helpful to get things moving by focussing on the things that feel more manageable. especially if you're struggling with depression.

sorry if that's bad advice.

[Yimpa]

@Judy2 not bad advice. I learned from you as well just now. Thank you 

[Judy2]

@Yimpa(:

Edited February 28 by Judy2

[meta_male]

On 27.2.2024 at 2:50 AM, PepperBlossoms said:

I was starting to think about this and was wondering if it was accurate

Yes it's accurate.