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Social circle fundamentals?

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The older I get the more I realize building a large social circle is by far the best way to gain "status" and be more social on the regular, which results in more flow states, which results in more girls etc. 

I also often don't feel like doing cold approach but not sure if I'm a bitch or it's just not something I'm into at this moment. 

I'm organizing a few comedy shows this year which will be my main thing so I've already got it going on a little. I also perform stand-up at open mics around the country. But what I want is more girls in my circle who can introduce me to more girls, and then we can go out and meet more girls etc. So I wanna create a snowball effect. Some of my kickboxing coaches have done this and whenever they give the class it's filled with hot girls lol. 

So to anyone who has done this: 

What are the fundamental rules and principles to remember when building a social circle? I want it to be as natural as possible all around my interests and personality which is stand-up comedy. I think I know what to do but any tips welcome. Also my time is limited and I'm not really interested in dating apps or anything like that unless it can be automated. 

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This type of mindset is just cringe in general. You are trying to engineer your life and learn rules to get you friends and girls. They can probably smell the neediness a mile away and are repelled by that. There are no rules or tricks. If you follow any, you will be even more awkward.

The most attractive thing is just honing your craft and not focusing on girls at all. Not sure if you noticed but chasing tail is very unfulfilling and results in hanging out with low quality women. If there is a partner that is perfect for you, then you are destined to meet them whenever you get your shit together, stop chasing meaningless sex and work on fulfilling your full potential. 

Daddy gave you a stern talling, now go think and change your life. 


"Whoever has come to understand the world has found merely a corpse, and whoever has found a corpse, of that one the world is no longer worthy." - Jesus

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19 hours ago, Butters said:

I'm organizing a few comedy shows this year which will be my main thing so I've already got it going on a little. I also perform stand-up at open mics around the country.

Nice! Do you mind sharing some clips on YouTube of your performances? I love stand-up.


I AM Lovin' It

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