Why Do People Play Silly Games ?

[egoeimai]

I dont need more notifications please,for this waste of time. Ive spend my "whole" day in this. dont quote me anymore. Im gonna watch youtube and sleep then.Goodnight! 

[alyra]

PSA 

 

trust me I have spent a TON of times on forums of all kinds

 

loreena is scared from what was said to her in this thread. Annetta thought she was clever and smart and spoke honestly, but then faced the reality that no matter how honest and forthright you are, we all are, we face the reality that our understanding itself is warped by the bias of our perception and the context we hold in that regard. 

 

 

to the people complaining about loreena's activity on this forum. I have only been active here for a month I guess, and I can really only remember her and a few others. and IMO loreena is a considerate person who is trying to improve. she's asked honest questions and stated her oppinions honestly, and whether or not any of those have been "lower quality consiousness" or not is, frankly not of any of our concerns. if she asks a question and we can answer it according to how we understand the actualization process goes, well, that is what this forum is for. but, irony of all ironies, by doing anything other than that - even if it is meant to be "honest and straightforward" it is a game. 

 

yes, this post is another silly game. 

 

but I have both been in Loreena's shoes, and in the shoes of the adversary she is afraid is there in anneetta and a few other of these posters. so I say - do not worry, take a step back it is ok, people are just idiots, yes including me. 

[alyra]

6 minutes ago, Annetta said:

@ashashlov  You have not been here long enough to see the pattern.  That's all that I have to say.  

Have a good one.

please understand, I am trying to explain. sorry if my explaining is not very good. I am no good at language. I suck at figuring out how to operate in social situations. 

 

but I read them very accurately, enough to say that there are no such patterns. there are never really patterns. our mind is good at creating patterns. some of them are helpful, but many of them give us pains. 

[alyra]

The only reason I spoke anything at all was so that loreena can feel like she is not the enemy, by seeing my post about how this is just how things go sometimes. it is super awkward. making this statement of course, as you (annetta) can see directly, only creates more drama on everyone else's end who isn't her. I purposefully avoided naming anyone else's names, but there is a decent chance they are affected too, and there is a decent chance that my words do not help enough on her end. if I read this wrong too much then I make her feel more at-the-boot, and if I actually end up antagonizing the situation, than was it even worth it for her? 

 

it is an unfortunate situation, but then, it's kinda funny 'cause, this forum is exactly the right place for us to investigate the effects of these things it's actually kind of interesting that it's occurred here. 

 

it is often that I have people try to read into my person and make claims on me like "don't you even read posts before replying?" or "your logic is backwards and shows how stupid you are" when I was expressing my emotional response to something. this happens on forums. this happens in real life too. it's frustrating and confusing I gotta say! and we work to try to let these things go. 

I often in the past have thought people are being mean to me, only to have them confused when I get defensive. such a confusing thing this is, I gotta say! we work to try to let these go. 

Edited April 11, 2017 by aryberry
spelling error.

[FirstglimpseOMG]

I seem to find it authentic when inauthenticity is percieved or suggested, as occured earlier in this thread. That was the interesting part. Then the poster's reactions and the subsequent back-pedalling got to be entertaining. Now it all seems to have dragged into spiritual-ego-comparison. A little beleagured and boring. It does sound like a thread belonging in the 'Serious emotional issues' section, not the 'Enlightenment, consciousness, etc.' section. Just sayin'. Yeah yeah, I love you too.