Hard Time Setting Boundaries and Avoiding Confrontations.

[Andrey]

Hey, 

Let's share some insights and good resources on the problem of being unable to set and enforce boundaries and the tendency to avoid confrontation at all cost. Psychological root causes and practical action steps to overcome those.

Thank you.

[Jac067]

 

Very widely discussed topics and very complex issues.

There is alot of resources out there practically dozens of insights on actualized.org YT Channel and forum about this. 

[Sandhu]

Books you should definately  read:

- Not nice by Aziz gazipura

- less nice more you by Aziz Gazipura

-No more Mr. Nice guy

-The disease to please

These books not only cover people pleasing/ niceguy syndrome but also help learning creating boundries and developing a strong healthy personality.

[Sandhu]

@Andrey Tell us more about your particular problems.

[Andrey]

I don't feel comfortable sharing personal stuff on a public forum. However, this has been a problem for me for a very long time. I need to tackle it finally.

[Andrey]

 

[Andrey]

 

[Chrisd]

Hello Andrey. Im going to invite my stalker to go to the zoo with me. This will give me the opportunity to practice setting boundaries with him.