Starting pickup: Setting Goals and Will post updates

[Shodburrito]

Almost 20. Been in one relationship. Have worked on myself for 1 1/2 years seriously now but almost 4 when it comes to the philosophy/spirituality side. Have good money, made mostly in stocks. I know. "Stocks". But seriously I've made more money than anyone I know at my age so working isn't an issue. In college. Freshman. Plan on law school. I have some idea what I want out of life, but honestly, I'm too young to know for certain. I do know I need to work on my game.

Used to be pretty below average/average in high school. Now I'm definitely above average. Not tooting my own horn, but I've had many girls tell me, and get looks nearly every time I go out in public. Even if I'm not, I said this cause why? Confidence, I don't lack in it and most guys do. I embrace failure. Not scared of rejection. So why haven't I tried game yet? More important things I had to self-actualize first. Now? I feel ready. I love myself enough to not get overly attached to anyone. Have above average conversational skills compared to my generation. I work part-time at a mini-mart so I can practice small talk all day.

 

Now. My goals:

Short Term:

Heading to a party this weekend. Pick up one girl. I mean not just get her number. Hang out throughout the night and whatever I can escalate it to.

Head on at least 5 dates by the start of spring. Just to get experience. I don't care about what follows.

Get 100% comfortable with cold approaching at parties/events and improve flirting skills to the point where it feels effortless

 

Long Term:

Go out with women of different races besides my own. Different cultures = harder barrier to entry

Secure the bag with at least 3 different girls by summer

 

Plan:

Build tension. Confidence. Sell yourself, but don't be leading with your wallet kind of guy. Be fun. I am responsible for what happens

 

Tips: ?

 

Edit: This is how good I want to get: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YIkOJkv81-I

 

Edited January 25 by Shodburrito

[Leo Gura]

The key to getting girls is to be Ryan Gosling.

[Shodburrito]

@Leo Gura LOL

[Spiral Wizard]

Feel your suppressed pain, release what’s pushing the girls away and they will come to you.

[Miguel1]

Good!

Keep us updated. How did the party go?

[lostingenosmaze]

On 1/24/2024 at 7:25 PM, Leo Gura said:

The key to getting girls is to be Ryan Gosling.

This but unironically: