Is great sex available after death?

[Princess Arabia]

On 2/10/2024 at 2:17 PM, DefinitelyNotARobot said:

- Wishes for great sex after death

- Gets reincarnated as an alien whose species doesn't have sex

How do you know. How do they reproduce.

[Phoenix Garfield]

What about great friendship?

[Oppositionless]

why would the next life be any different than this one if you don’t work hard to deal with your issues in this life?

I get where you’re coming from. I wanted to leave this planet so I could have another chance with an ex in another life, for a long time.

but it’s an illusion, there is no escape but hard backbreaking emotional labor.

[numbersinarow]

Watch out for unhealthy manifestations of stage red such as this.

Are you feeling down and completely frustrated, and are making up things to make yourself feel better, like unrealistic magical self-serving solutions? Then it's time to go back and "clean up."

12 hours ago, Oppositionless said:

hard backbreaking emotional labor.

And yet the limited success I had with women came from me doing nothing, definitely not this. And now I am in a position where I could improve literally anything and would still have no opportunities. People like OP are better off just forgetting about sex and focusing on something else (at least for the long time being).

[RendHeaven]

@Emotionalmosquito I'm rather fond of you, but you're honestly lame as fuck.

Listen to Leo and Princess Arabia and stop whining.

A sliver of me really feels for you and relates to your woes.

The difference between us is that I know that in this lifetime I am destined for obnoxious amounts of sex with the sexiest girls alive.

That is not my current reality, but there is no rush.

You're better than this. You're on the damn Actualized.org forum, which means that you know to dig deep and dispel your own bullshit.

You want sex? You can have it. Become a masculine gift unto the feminine. Strong, loving, unwavering, abundant.

"But that's not me!" you cry. Lol, alright then. More girls for me I guess. 

You say you love women but hah, looks to me like you have maybe 1% of the desire that I do. I love women so much that I will stop at nothing to become the best man I could possibly be, for their sake.

Hope to see you prove me wrong 👊

[Emotionalmosquito]

On 2/2/2024 at 8:26 AM, Princess Arabia said:

After your last grossly grotesque post, it is obvious to me now why you're not getting laid.

Other way around. Me being in the headspace that produces those sorts of actions isn’t what’s preventing the lays. Not getting lays is what’s causing the behavior. But at this point I have to admit they probably both feed into each other 

On 2/2/2024 at 8:26 AM, Princess Arabia said:

The Universe is trying to find you a match and it's having a hard time matching you with someone on that frequency.

WHAT?? The infinite and all powerful universe having a HARD TIME doing something, something as simple as finding me a good mate? NO!

If that’s that’s true I must be a real one-of-a-kind special case. Now you see why it’s such a joke to me when people claim to be “weird”. They’re oblivious  

On 2/2/2024 at 8:26 AM, Princess Arabia said:

Lots of people are not balanced and have weird fantasies but when it comes to the whole package you're gonna have a hard time finding someone who matches that on a mental level.

Its like if “normal” ranges from 1 to 5, someone who claims to be weird might be at a 10 or 15, whereas my power level is well over 9000. I am an ascended master of virginity; the great sunshine to all the female vampires.

I’m still finding it quite humorous how in that thread you called that guy a normie for thinking his idiosyncrasies were weird. Then our interaction goes something like, I say “Are you sure you’re ready for this?” You’re like, “Yeah. Are YOU ready?” Then I launch the big one and you go 🤯🤢 as I’m sure lots of others did

[Emotionalmosquito]

On 2/10/2024 at 1:17 PM, DefinitelyNotARobot said:

- Wishes for great sex after death

- Gets reincarnated as an alien whose species doesn't have sex

Exactly my luck. Worse yet I’d be punished for not behaving just like everyone else on that planet, much like here earth💀

On 2/28/2024 at 1:40 AM, RendHeaven said:

That is not my current reality, but there is no rush.

There are objective biological facts about our reality. One of which is the older you get the less your body is able to have and enjoy sex. It starts taking longer to get it up, finish and prepare for another than it did in your twenties and thirties. Not only that, but also, the girls will find it creepy that an “old man” is hitting on them, and will likely get security/cops involved if convenient. The way society is progressing, it won’t be too much longer until it’s made illegal for men to even so much as flirt. With this in mind, I’d like you to further explain why you feel there is no rush.

[RendHeaven]

16 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

There are objective biological facts about our reality. One of which is the older you get the less your body is able to have and enjoy sex. It starts taking longer to get it up, finish and prepare for another than it did in your twenties and thirties. Not only that, but also, the girls will find it creepy that an “old man” is hitting on them, and will likely get security/cops involved if convenient. The way society is progressing, it won’t be too much longer until it’s made illegal for men to even so much as flirt. With this in mind, I’d like you to further explain why you feel there is no rush.

What's your age?

I'm 24, still got my whole life ahead of me.

Therefore no rush.

If you're 40 or 50, I can understand your angst.

But even then, you must ask: are there 40~50 year olds out there in the world getting laid right this second?

Objectively, yes.

So let's not count ourselves out.

When was your last cold approach and how did that go?

[Emotionalmosquito]

On 3/18/2024 at 5:37 PM, RendHeaven said:

What's your age?

 

Don’t like saying exactly but I will say 26-30 range

On 3/18/2024 at 5:37 PM, RendHeaven said:

But even then, you must ask: are there 40~50 year olds out there in the world getting laid right this second?

Objectively, yes.

So let's not count ourselves out.

Yeah but unless you’re wealthy the only women available to you by that point aren’t worth a damn

On 3/18/2024 at 5:37 PM, RendHeaven said:

When was your last cold approach and how did that go?

It was Valentine’s Day and it went splendidly. Except that she was already engaged. Big fucking surprise. She was very feminine and welcoming to me. I even confessed to her my intense jealousy of happy couples that makes me enjoy the thought of watching them get ripped to shreds by a grizzly bear. She had no judgement to that, only understanding. We had an amazing talk about where we are in life and what we want out of relationships. Put me on a crazy love high for the next two days. So that was cool

[numbersinarow]

16 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

Yeah but unless you’re wealthy the only women available to you by that point aren’t worth a damn

By that logic, there aren't any women for you to get at that age, because paying for sex with an 18 year old while you're 40~ is nothing more than prostitution.

[RendHeaven]

13 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

Don’t like saying exactly but I will say 26-30 range

There's hope for you

13 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

Yeah but unless you’re wealthy the only women available to you by that point aren’t worth a damn

The wealth part is only semi-true. There are ways for you to be average-wealth at 40 and bang hot 20 year olds (but you would have to be abnormally self-actualized). Being flat broke is pretty unacceptable.

But even then, my reaction to that information would be: "Ok then, time to get wealthy." or, "Time to get self-actualized."

13 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

It was Valentine’s Day and it went splendidly. [...] We had an amazing talk about where we are in life and what we want out of relationships. Put me on a crazy love high for the next two days. So that was cool

Dude, fucking awesome.

Now go do that every day.

13 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

I even confessed to her my intense jealousy of happy couples that makes me enjoy the thought of watching them get ripped to shreds by a grizzly bear.

Being honest with your words is a good thing, but don't go out of your way to announce low self-worth.

[Emotionalmosquito]

9 hours ago, RendHeaven said:

Dude, fucking awesome.

Now go do that every day.

On 3/19/2024 at 11:15 PM, Emotionalmosquito said:

Twice a week would be pushing it for me. It’s the absolute maximum I could get away with without drawing negative attention for being the ““creep”” going around approaching girls, regardless of if I’m actually being creepy or not. Because most of society is pure evil towards desperate virgin men trying to un virgin themselves. God clearly hates the ultra horny incel guys he places in worthless cities with no means of escape. 

That girl I talked to was a remarkable human being, but a very rare breed of woman. Most girls I talk to don’t have the wholesomeness in their whole bodies that she had in the tip of one of her pubes.

9 hours ago, RendHeaven said:

There's hope for you

On 3/19/2024 at 11:15 PM, Emotionalmosquito said:

This statement is concerning even though it’s meant to be the opposite. That’s something you’d tell someone of whom there is technically a small chance could end up with prime pussy but it’s highly unlikely. Otherwise it would be something like “Success is right around the corner.” Or, “You’ll definitely get there if you keep at it.”

one of those alternatives might’ve been more what you meant, just not the way it seems to me

9 hours ago, RendHeaven said:

There are ways for you to be average-wealth at 40 and bang hot 20 year olds (but you would have to be abnormally self-actualized). Being flat broke is pretty unacceptable.

THAT is the final nail in the coffin. It’s over. In fact, it’s so over there was never even the tiniest speck of hope for me at all at any point in all of existence.

Actualizing and gaining wealth is so much fucking work and is so damn hard it is absolutely retarded. That’s on top of all the basic life challenges that have nothing to do with actualizing that are already too hard on their own. There is objectively no such thing as free will anyway. So how can you assume it’s even possible for most people to pull this shit off?

BUT, apparently I am the all mighty God itself. So it should be possible to become fully actualized overnight. Heck, back on the main topic of this thread, if I’m god, I should have the power to teleport into any reality I can possibly imagine. I’m going to a land rich in flower faeries, dryads, elves, goddesses and every other type of humanoid pussy god can dream up. Fuck this piece of shit reality and everything about it. Curse it all to hell. I want out. As God, I reserve my right and my ability to go somewhere more like this instead,

only real.

10 hours ago, RendHeaven said:

Being honest with your words is a good thing

“Do I look fat in this dress?”  

[Emotionalmosquito]

[Schizophonia]

God imagine sexuality.

[Schizophonia]

God also imagine suffering.

Than there is an avatar, there are living beings, who avoid some things.

Edited March 21 by Schizophonia

[Someone here]

@Emotionalmosquito Sex Is overrated.  You will know once you finally lose your virginity.  Its just in and out robotic movements combined with animalistic moans . There is nothing magnificent waiting for you if you have sex . In fact its the opposite ..it won't fully fulfill you . Nothing finite will ever fulfill you .because you are an infinite being .

[Emotionalmosquito]

7 hours ago, Someone here said:

@Emotionalmosquito Sex Is overrated.  You will know once you finally lose your virginity.  Its just in and out robotic movements combined with animalistic moans . There is nothing magnificent waiting for you if you have sex . In fact its the opposite ..it won't fully fulfill you . Nothing finite will ever fulfill you .because you are an infinite being .

If that’s really what you think then I would assume you’ve never had any with a super hottie, and/or you didn’t know how to get the fullest of what sex has to offer. There’s an entire rabbit hole of tantric techniques and kinky shit you can get into that makes it a million times better than robotic intercourse.

We can use the psychedelic experience as an analogy. Many people don’t know how to trip properly. They dose frivolously, completely disregarding set and setting. They may trip in chaotic environments or waste the trip by watching tv and goofing off the whole time, they might even mix it with alcohol. In this way, they greatly diminish the godly love they could have received.

Sex is no different. Done properly, it can be a direct portal to higher consciousness.

That being said, it’s not even entirely the intercourse itself I’m craving so much. Just having a girl to hold onto is more than enough. One of the best feelings I’ve ever had was holding hands and sitting in a very close embrace on the couch with a 7/10. It was a deep deep sense of belonging, security and connection to pure life. But also a very ancient feeling, like that from which we all originate and ultimately return.

So I have no idea what people mean when they say sex and relationships aren’t as good as they appear. 

[Inliytened1]

On 1/23/2024 at 5:54 AM, Emotionalmosquito said:

Since reality is infinite and everything is imagined into being, why wouldn’t it be?

If you’ve seen my threads on the dating sub you might know my craving to have a whole bunch of sex with lots of people is powerful enough to create a googol multiverses If channeled. Problem is, I’m stuck in this dense, 3d prison reality in which every single aspect of life is set up in a way to prevent me from achieving my one true purpose for existence as much and effectively as it possibly can. Maybe I imagined this experience for myself, maybe I chose this life before being born. Idk. All I know is I regret immensely my decision to be born into or whatever caused this pathetic, worthless pile of pig shit excuse of an existence where I’m not even allowed the one thing I long for more than anything in the universe.

So my question here is: Is it possible (and easily doable) to create your own world after death while keeping all your memories and ego from this life that way you can experience everything you were denied here once you’ve crossed over? 

I know that since everything that is is imaged into being by us all, technically there must be some way to create all the sexiness I want while in this life, but the amount of work it takes to make things happen in this reality is highly unacceptable. If I’m god and I created everything, it should be very possible to get all the women I could ever dream of easily and without all the years of mental and emotional torment of trial and error. Death should make that a whole lot easier because it’s like a great reset; an opportunity to actualize my needs and desires because I’d have much more creative ability since I’m temporarily outside the laws of physicality. 

The only utility of this life is that it has shown me exactly what and who I want. So now my only hope is being able to keep all those memories and desires after death while remaining with the exact same ego I’ve developed so I can have everything fulfilled once I’ve returned to the pure, creative power of the great beyond.

Im asking this here in hopes of getting some insight from some people who remember past lives, have navigated some of the territories of the great beyond or know how to design future lives based on desires from this one. 

And if anyone has experienced higher dimensional sex with feminine entities, tell me all about what that’s like in great detail and how you achieved it

Disclaimer: This is not a suicide post. I have no intention of killing myself anytime soon. Not within the next five years at least. 

But you’d have to be a clinical moron to take this bullshit life on earth over having all you want of these bitches, imo 

 

This all selfishness.  This isn't God.  I mean it is , but it's God acting out of pure selfishness.  This isn't God realization it is just selfishness.   

Edited March 22 by Inliytened1

[Razard86]

2 hours ago, Inliytened1 said:

This all selfishness.  This isn't God.  I mean it is , but it's God acting out of pure selfishness.  This isn't God realization it is just selfishness.  When all of that collapses within your own mind 

He would have to master visualization, and tapping into his imagination if he would want to achieve this dream. But I doubt he has the patience to sit and practice visualization.

[Phoenix Garfield]

Some folks here want great sex in the afterlife... Which is great and all, and there's nothing wrong with it... But it's something you can get while you're alive, just like Leo said. The question itself just feels so narrow and unimaginative too, I must say.

If that can be achieved, what about meeting your dead relatives once again? Hell, you don't have to die to meet them, just like great sex.

I know my uncle comes to me in my dreams. He's been gone for 20 years now. A few weeks ago I had a vivid dream where he came to me and we spoke about the surreal nature of dreams and reality itself. The whole thing felt like an Alan Watts lecture and I'm surprised I didn't become lucid during it. Deep down in my heart I know he isn't just rotting in the ground, but he's out there somewhere, more awake than I or anyone else here.

It's an experience I'll forever cherish. That's the type of stuff I want to experience in the afterlife.