Good In Bad, And Bad In Good.

[Ether]

As some of you might know, there is always good effects for negative outcomes, and positive outcomes in negative outcomes.

 

For example, if you break your leg, maybe you find the girl of your dreams in the hospital like healing.

 

I got one question, what are some positive effects about messing up an oral presentation?

 

Thank you.

[Evilwave Heddy]

You will know where you messed up so you know where you need improvement.  You learn from your mistakes.

Edit:  The girl of your dreams might walk in and comfort you after an embarrassing oral presentation. lul

Edited April 8, 2017 by Evilwave Heddy

[Ether]

1 minute ago, Evilwave Heddy said:

You will know where you messed up so you know where you need improvement.  You learn from your mistakes.

Edit:  The girl of your dreams might walk in and comfort you after an embarrassing oral presentation. lul

Haha, do you know more examples, i tend to not learn from my mistakes, because of limiting beliefs that i shall destroy.

[Evilwave Heddy]

If you do manage to mess up and you keep going with the presentation despite it, more people will respect you as you are only human.

Was that a good one?

Edit:  Whatever you do, don't run away when you mess up.

Edited April 8, 2017 by Evilwave Heddy

[Ether]

2 minutes ago, Evilwave Heddy said:

If you do manage to mess up and you keep going with the presentation despite it, more people will respect you as you are only human.

Was that a good one?

Edit:  Whatever you do, don't run away when you mess up.

Yes, if you have more just keep on telling em

 

Im trying to desbelieve all my negative thoughts.

 

Are you into \negative\good effects?

[Evilwave Heddy]

3 minutes ago, Ether said:

Are you into \negative\good effects?

I don't really like to think about the good and bad when it comes to giving oral presentations because I know it will screw with my mind like it does yours. 

How about this one...the more you mess up your oral presentation the less embarrassed you will be in the future because you gained immunity from it.

Are you gonna intentionally mess up now?

[Ether]

Just now, Evilwave Heddy said:

I don't really like to think about the good and bad when it comes to giving oral presentations because I know it will screw with my mind like it does yours. 

How about this one...the more you mess up your oral presentation the less embarrassed you will be in the future because you gained immunity from it.

Are you gonna intentionally mess up now?

Nah haha. I just want to be free from this thoughts that i have had all this years. Its hard to use my creative side to find more good sides.

[Evilwave Heddy]

So you're looking for the positives of messing up so you won't fear messing up.  Not a bad idea.  I'm sure some other people on here have some more creative positives that can come from messing up an oral presentation. lmao

[Ether]

Just now, Evilwave Heddy said:

So you're looking for the positives of messing up so you won't fear messing up.  Not a bad idea.  I'm sure some other people on here have some more creative positives that can come from messing up an oral presentation. lmao

You got it

[Ether]

Anyone got more positives ? Give me all you can lol

[Loreena]

Even if you screwed it up, you'd know that it's not a big deal. 

Are you messed up in your head ?? Take this question positively okay...

I am gonna kick your ass. Take this positively. 

Get off this forum you fat albino ...take this positively okay... 

Looooooooolllll trooooolllleed

[YaNanNallari]

I think you don't need to turn things into necessarily good or bad. If you can afford to think positively about it without it being a bad thing for you then go ahead. But sometimes it can limit critical thinking for example if you're just making everything good.

[Arkandeus]

20 hours ago, Ether said:

As some of you might know, there is always good effects for negative outcomes, and positive outcomes in negative outcomes.

 

For example, if you break your leg, maybe you find the girl of your dreams in the hospital like healing.

 

I got one question, what are some positive effects about messing up an oral presentation?

 

Thank you.

the problem with the ego is that it never wants to learn, it doesn't want to improve, to improve means that is not perfect, that it is fallible. 
Your ego gives you the illusion that it wants you to improve, but in truth doesn't it always make you feel horrible if you're not doing things ''perfectly'' from the get go?How can there be a longing for improvement if the ego wants you to be perfect from the first try?  

 

That is a good way to detect your ego, it doesn't want you to make mistakes, which is why it doesn't see any benefit in failing. 
For the ego to make a mistake, means that your survival is threatened, because the ego assumes it is always right and perfect. It assumes it's complete. And you can't be 'complete' if you're making mistakes. Ouch. 

For the spiritual self, to make a mistake, it an occasion to learn and grow. The ''mistake'' is not a threat in any way. It's merely calibration.  
You are never complete on the spiritual path of learning and growing. There's infinity to learn and grow because the universe is infinite. 

The ego views things from above. From a place of perfection, any mistake is a ''step down'', it's painful.

The spiritual self looks at things from below, any 'mistake' is an invitation to take a step up. 
Everything in your life is for your own benefit, to push you higher. Your world is yours, and it is the way it is so that you can grow, everything in your life is a helping hand trying to pull you higher. 

 

 

Edited April 9, 2017 by Arkandeus