Can being sexually explicit effectively screen for girls who are DTF?

[Leo Gura]

35 minutes ago, Hardkill said:

Is that because most girls who are sober, even in a big nightclub, are still afraid of being slut-shamed or because it usually takes them longer than guys do to get horny or both?

A girl will only ever have sex if she is in the right mood. A guy's job is to put her in the right mood. By being sexually explicit you spoil the mood in all cases except the few cases where a girl is already in a horny mood.

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Also, how come you said before that all girls at bar/club are fair game because all of them are DTF?

There are many degrees of DTF. Girls in a club are open to being seduced but you have to put in the work to seduce them. That's where good game comes in.

You are looking for a shortcut to get girls, but the real solution is to learn solid game.

Edited January 17 by Leo Gura

[Hardkill]

1 minute ago, Leo Gura said:

A girl will only ever have sex if she is in the right mood. A guy's job is to put her in the right mood. By being sexually explicit you spoil the mood in all cases except the few cases where a girl is already in a horny mood.

There are many degrees of DTF. Girls in a club are open to being seduced but you have to put in the work to seduce them. That's where good game comes in.

Oh I see. That makes sense more sense to me now.

So, even in any nightclub/bar/house party setting in any city or town with lots of fun music and alcohol around, it's still best to slowly escalate properly if I want to best results for sleeping with the hottest and coolest girls in the club, bar, or house party on the same night I met them, right?

[Leo Gura]

@Hardkill In general, dealing effectively with girls requires subtlety and tact, not a bulldozer approach. That's why it's called game.

Learn to be subtle.

Edited January 17 by Leo Gura

[StarStruck]

Best way to get her in the mood is to be horny yourself. Stop watching porn and start doing sexual transmutation. I noticed when I get horny she will just mirror me. Especially if she is attracted to you she will mirror your psycho emotional state. And even if she doesn’t like you a lot … a lot of girls just get turned on if you get turned on. 

Edited January 17 by StarStruck

[Hardkill]

3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

@Hardkill In general, dealing effectively with girls requires subtlety and tact, not a bulldozer approach. That's why it's called game.

Learn to be subtle.

Alright so clubs, bars, and house parties are no excuse for me to do bulldozing approaches.

[Leo Gura]

10 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

Best way to get her in the mood is to be horny yourself. Stop watching porn and start doing sexual transmutation. I noticed when I get horny she will just mirror me. Especially if she is attracted to you she will mirror your psycho emotional state. And even if she doesn’t like you a lot … a lot of girls just get turned on if you get turned on. 

Horndog game can work, but you'll get even better results by just being very playful.

Horndog game will only work on girls who are already in an amped up party state.

Edited January 17 by Leo Gura

[Carl-Richard]

On 15.1.2024 at 8:18 AM, Hardkill said:

"Talk to the girl and touch the girl in a sexually explicitly manner as soon as you first meet her.

Why touch? Seems highly inefficient. Why not just say "I want to fuck, do you?" 

[Leo Gura]

18 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

Why not just say "I want to fuck, do you?" 

A very stupid thing to say to a girl.

You are much better off saying, "You remind me of a racoon."

Edited January 17 by Leo Gura

[Yimpa]

19 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

Why touch? Seems highly inefficient. Why not just say "I want to fuck, do you?" 

4 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

That's very stupid thing to say to a girl.

Let’s see if it’s stupid to say to AI !

GPT-4:

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Your question touches on the complex nature of human communication and interactions, particularly in the realm of intimacy and relationships. To understand this, let’s use a metaphor: consider human interaction as a dance. In a dance, movements and gestures convey emotions and intentions, often more eloquently than words alone. Similarly, in human relationships, non-verbal cues like touch play a vital role in communication.

Touch, in this metaphor, is like the subtle, nuanced movements in a dance. It can communicate a wide range of emotions and intentions - affection, comfort, desire, or even a simple human connection. These nuances are often not easily captured by direct language.

Moreover, relationships and attraction involve more than just a physical aspect; they include emotional, intellectual, and sometimes spiritual connections. The process of building these connections often involves a gradual, intricate interplay of actions and words, where touch can be a key component.

In the context of expressing sexual interest, directness like saying “I want to fuck, do you?” can be perceived as too blunt or lacking emotional depth for many people. It skips the ‘dance’ of building mutual understanding and trust. Some might prefer this direct approach, but for others, the subtlety and the emotional journey involved in the more traditional dance of courtship are important parts of the experience.

In summary, while direct communication has its place, the nuanced, multifaceted nature of human relationships often makes touch and other non-verbal forms of communication crucial in conveying emotions and desires that words alone may not fully capture.

 

Bard:

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While I understand your desire for directness, I'm not comfortable engaging in sexually suggestive conversations or responding to prompts that are sexually explicit. My purpose is to be a helpful and informative language model, and that includes maintaining a safe and appropriate interaction for everyone.

Touch, for humans and even for some AI systems, can be a much richer and more nuanced form of communication than simply stating a desire. It can express care, affection, understanding, and a range of other emotions in a way that words alone often can't. It can also be a source of comfort, pleasure, and even pain, depending on the context.

Of course, everyone has different preferences and comfort levels when it comes to physical touch. If you're not interested in it, that's perfectly fine. But for many people, it's an important part of human connection and intimacy.

If you'd like to talk more about communication, relationships, or any other topic, I'm happy to do so in a way that is respectful and appropriate for both of us. Just let me know what you're interested in discussing.

 

[StarStruck]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Horndog game can work, but you'll get even better results by just being very playful.

Horndog game will only work on girls who are already in an amped up party state.

No. Since I’m doing sexual transmutation girls get horny in meetings. I guess they can sense the sexual vitality and potency. But I don’t even project my sexual energy on them. Just minding my business. If you radiate vitality it is the same thing as playful. What I’m talking about it is not horndog. That is usually not a good vibe. 

Edited January 17 by StarStruck

[Yimpa]

27 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

You are much better off saying, "You remind me of a racoon."

 

[Carl-Richard]

32 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

A very stupid thing to say to a girl.

You are much better off saying, "You remind me of a racoon."

Really? 😱

 

25 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

Let’s see if it’s stupid to say to AI !

GPT-4:

 

Bard:

 

I'm more interested in what OP has to say  

Edited January 17 by Carl-Richard

[Yimpa]

2 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

Really?! 😱

 

You're gonna ask an actual robot now? 

 

Edited January 17 by Yimpa

[Carl-Richard]

@Yimpa I feel bad joking now  He just wants advice.

My advice: most girls aren't like guys where one touch or one line can make you horny or DTF. You need the vibe, the style, the eye, the smile, walking with her for a mile. It's like a rap in a way: if you don't have the rhymes, the flow, the surprise — it's not rap, it's speech, which means no peach.

Lol tell me if that landed or horribly bombed.

Edited January 17 by Carl-Richard

[Miguel1]

On 1/15/2024 at 9:18 AM, Hardkill said:

Instead of trying to play games with a girl to try to get into her pants, why can't I just screen for girls who are down to have sex with me by getting sexual right at the beginning of my approach?

Here's the mindset: "Talk to the girl and touch the girl in a sexually explicitly manner as soon as you first meet her. Is she in or is she out? If she's out then move on to the next girl and try it with her. If not her either then keep it moving and try it on the next girl and see if she wants to sleep with me. I keep trying it on however many girls I am attracted to until one of them wants to fuck me."

Sounds good?

Terrible idea.

If you take this idea to its extreme, it would be like going up to a girl and immediately asking ''do you wanna fuck?''

If you do this to 1000 girls, perhaps 1 will agree, most of them will either look at you fucking weird or straight up tell you to get the fuck off their face.

[Yimpa]

When all else fails, focus on F.U.N. instead of fuck!

 

[Carl-Richard]

3 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

If you take this idea to its extreme, it would be like going up to a girl and immediately asking ''do you wanna fuck?''

Great minds think alike 

[lostingenosmaze]

34 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

When all else fails, focus on F.U.N. instead of fuck!

 

Maybe not so much the N part unless they're an exhibitionist