Finding a Stoner chick who plays games

[Wisebaxter]

Is this too much to ask? Most women seem to hate both weed and games. My fantasy is to be able to sit with them, get blazed, play some games and fool around. Anyone ever met any girls like this? 

Edited December 24, 2023 by Wisebaxter

[toasty7718]

I should let you know upfront that I've seen this fantasy happen firsthand for many people close to me. It has ruined their lives, halted their development, and turned their lives into perpetual nightmares. Their houses messy and cluttered. No motivation, major health problems, etc. 
 

Granted, I do think it's possible to attain this in a healthy way, but the specifics aren't known to me at the moment. 
 

Any relationship built around substances is a shaky one at best. 

Edited December 24, 2023 by toasty7718

[Wisebaxter]

@toasty7718

On 24/12/2023 at 3:16 PM, toasty7718 said:

I should let you know upfront that I've seen this fantasy happen firsthand for many people close to me. It has ruined their lives, halted their development, and turned their lives into perpetual nightmares. Their houses messy and cluttered. No motivation, major health problems, etc. 
 

Granted, I do think it's possible to attain this in a healthy way, but the specifics aren't known to me at the moment. 
 

Any relationship built around substances is a shaky one at best. 

Thanks for the response. I think a lot of stoner's are lazy and don't have good habits, which is why this scenario you described is quite common. I think if you have your shit in order in terms of your priorities then it can be avoided. For example, if I can find gamer girls who are also ambitious and driven? I'm imagining working on our shared goals, doing our work, cleaning the house (and their vaginas), before sitting down for a bong and an episode of gaming. If either of them are messy then some kind of sexually oriented punishment will be enforced. 

So really I'm talking about finding conscious women who are passionate about personal development and building the relationship around that as a priority as opposed to weed and games. I'd hate to end up stuck in a rut and just doing this as a lifestyle. Is it something you'd lie interesting in as well then? 

Edited December 27, 2023 by Wisebaxter

[Applegarden8]

On 12/24/2023 at 0:47 PM, Wisebaxter said:

Is this too much to ask? Most women seem to hate both weed and games. My fantasy is to be able to sit with them, get blazed, play some games and fool around. Anyone ever met any girls like this? 

This happens only to people who are top 1 % of gamers and make money with it and how they play something is acctually very entertaining to watch because they are so good at it. Weed... well, I never trust and plan things with people that smoke weed, they will just find a reason not to do something and will lack focus.

[Wisebaxter]

@Applegarden8 I respect your outlook on weed but my personal experience is different. I'm studying a masters degree in Composition and I smoke weed every day. I get in the zone creatively even more when I have it. But perhaps I'm an exception. If anything I lack focus without it.

[Emotionalmosquito]

On 12/26/2023 at 10:26 PM, Wisebaxter said:

If either of them are messy then some kind of sexually oriented punishment will be enforced. 

What does that mean 

On 12/26/2023 at 10:26 PM, Wisebaxter said:

cleaning the house (and their vaginas)

I thought the vagina was a self cleaning organ, no? 

[Emotionalmosquito]

I would love to find a stoner chick who wouldn’t mind the fact that I don’t smoke personally.

When I was 16, a 19 year old stoner babe drove me home from a snowboarding vacation in Breckinridge Colorado. (about a twelve hour drive) We started late in the day so an overnight stay at a hotel was necessary. When we arrived, she talked to the receptionist and came back to me in the car offering the choice of a two bed room with no hot tub or a one bed with a hot tub. No brainer.

While we were in the room filling up the tub she decided to go outside to get completely twisted on two joints and a bowl. Came back in and got in with me stoned off her gourd. We didn’t speak much during our time in because she was spaced out and I was and still am a hyper analytical, autistic motherfucker and I had taken a fat hit before we started driving which hadn’t fully worn off yet, so that didn’t help. 

Ever since then I’ve wondered what would’ve happened had I made some kind of move, or if I coulda made anything happen because I sure as hell wanted to.

She would get so forgetful from all the weed it was hilarious. She’d do stuff like pull over and park to get out and dig for something in her trunk putting stuff out on the car in the process, then get back in and start driving with the hatch wide open and her stuff spread all over before realizing.

Cant remember if she was a gamer though, very well might have been.

 

[Yimpa]

Find a video game club in your area and also visit your local video game stores. 

[Wisebaxter]

 

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I would love to find a stoner chick who wouldn’t mind the fact that I don’t smoke personally.

@Emotionalmosquito Yeah we all just want someone to accept us for who we are. It sounds like you did that with her and saw her as endearing, which is nice. 

On 29/12/2023 at 1:41 PM, Emotionalmosquito said:

When I was 16, a 19 year old stoner babe drove me home from a snowboarding vacation in Breckinridge Colorado. (about a twelve hour drive) We started late in the day so an overnight stay at a hotel was necessary. When we arrived, she talked to the receptionist and came back to me in the car offering the choice of a two bed room with no hot tub or a one bed with a hot tub. No brainer.

While we were in the room filling up the tub she decided to go outside to get completely twisted on two joints and a bowl. Came back in and got in with me stoned off her gourd. We didn’t speak much during our time in because she was spaced out and I was and still am a hyper analytical, autistic motherfucker and I had taken a fat hit before we started driving which hadn’t fully worn off yet, so that didn’t help. 

Ever since then I’ve wondered what would’ve happened had I made some kind of move, or if I coulda made anything happen because I sure as hell wanted to.

She would get so forgetful from all the weed it was hilarious. She’d do stuff like pull over and park to get out and dig for something in her trunk putting stuff out on the car in the process, then get back in and start driving with the hatch wide open and her stuff spread all over before realizing.

Cant remember if she was a gamer though, very well might have been.

It sounds like of those situations that was so random and romantic even that it sticks in your mind and you never quite forget it. The chance encounter with a gorgeous stoner chick who got your guys a room with a hot tub. Did you get in the hot tub together? It also sounds like it might be the sort of occasion you look back on and ask 'Should I have done this or that?' I have a couple of those. I think you did the right thing as girls make it quite obvious if they want that. you wouldn't wanna risk tainting the occasion with a misplaced 'move.' Plus it sounds like you were young too and maybe nowadays you'd know what to say or how to play it. Also if you were high and not used to that...I know what that's like too. I had this girl cook for me her house on a date once and she rolled us up a fat joint. I was so baked I just couldn't say shit haha, it was mortifying. I didn't hear back, unsurprisingly. 

 

 

[Applegarden8]

On 12/27/2023 at 9:55 AM, Wisebaxter said:

@Applegarden8 I respect your outlook on weed but my personal experience is different. I'm studying a masters degree in Composition and I smoke weed every day. I get in the zone creatively even more when I have it. But perhaps I'm an exception. If anything I lack focus without it.

Whatever works for you. I find no problem composing completely sober.

My problem with people who do drugs is that they endlessly try to convince to use it too. And then they get into problems with police and drag you too. But about what I said that people who smoke weed are lazy and slow, that may not be the case, but I have seen many people who have been like what I am describing, mostly in my childhood. Their words simply do not match their actions.

Edited December 31, 2023 by Applegarden8

[Wisebaxter]

On 29/12/2023 at 3:54 PM, Yimpa said:

Find a video game club in your area and also visit your local video game stores. 

@Yimpa Thanks for taking the to help. I'll see if anything like that exists. 

[Emotionalmosquito]

On 12/31/2023 at 3:51 AM, Wisebaxter said:

Did you get in the hot tub together?

Yes she got in with me. And if I remember correctly, it took up most of my focus just trying to not get a boner 

On 12/31/2023 at 3:51 AM, Wisebaxter said:

It also sounds like it might be the sort of occasion you look back on and ask 'Should I have done this or that?'

Definitely. I’ve always wondered since then. But I don’t know if the idea that women always make it super obvious is always true. Sometimes the hints can be vague from what I’ve heard 

 

On 12/31/2023 at 3:51 AM, Wisebaxter said:

you wouldn't wanna risk tainting the occasion with a misplaced 'move.'

I reckon instead of a ‘move’ you could always just use your words to ask if making a move would be appropriate? If I had tried a move and it failed, she was so blazed it probably would’ve been forgotten in ten seconds, but still, I would remember and I would still be dying of cringe to this day had that happened.

On 12/31/2023 at 3:51 AM, Wisebaxter said:

I had this girl cook for me her house on a date once and she rolled us up a fat joint. I was so baked I just couldn't say shit haha, it was mortifying. I didn't hear back, unsurprisingly.

Well damn, she could’ve at least had a little understanding for someone who got a bit too high instead of ghosting u for it!

[meta_male]

On 24.12.2023 at 11:47 AM, Wisebaxter said:

My fantasy is to be able to sit with them, get blazed, play some games and fool around. Anyone ever met any girls like this? 

@Wisebaxter They do exist of course. I dated a girl I smoked with here and there. The girls of two of my friends smoke regularly. My ex gf's sister and her bf were a gamer couple. And met plenty other girls who smoke (and are into gaming) too.

On 27.12.2023 at 5:26 AM, Wisebaxter said:

So really I'm talking about finding conscious women who are passionate about personal development and building the relationship around that as a priority as opposed to weed and games.

Yes, this would be more fulfilling.

[Wisebaxter]

18 hours ago, meta_male said:

@Wisebaxter They do exist of course. I dated a girl I smoked with here and there. The girls of two of my friends smoke regularly. My ex gf's sister and her bf were a gamer couple. And met plenty other girls who smoke (and are into gaming) too

@meta_male Encouraging then I really need to get myself out there more. If I really wanted to find a girl like that I could be strategic about it.  I'm thinking the Metaverse might be a good place. If they're on VR they're probably gamers. I could see if there's a stoner hang out. 

 

[meta_male]

@Wisebaxter I'd make it a personal thing you do for yourself, as in me time and focus on spending quality time with women and people in general if you care about conscious relationships. This will get you out there more.

[Wisebaxter]

On 13/01/2024 at 5:07 PM, meta_male said:

@Wisebaxter I'd make it a personal thing you do for yourself, as in me time and focus on spending quality time with women and people in general if you care about conscious relationships. This will get you out there more.

@meta_maleThanks buddy, I appreciate you taking the time to give me that advice. I need to do a Joe Dispenza special and change who I am somehow, rewire myself to enjoy socialising. Quality time with women and people in general. Yeah I like the sound of that. My relationships have been shit because they haven't been formed on any foundation. I've also be focused mainly focused on sex and just too driven by that aspect of things and not on who that person actually is. I was just trying to get laid and happened to get stuck with them as it's easy to form a quick connection with sex and fool yourself. It would be nice to just put all of that to one side and form some deeper connections based on more. I bet the love I could experience would be so much more profound. 

[Schizophonia]

In reality this girl is probably overweight lol.
In any case a very different morpho-energetic phenotype from the girl in the photo.

[meta_male]

@Schizophonia Thou shalt not stereotype.

[Wisebaxter]

@Schizophonia A vigorous health regime would need to be followed along with all the weed smoking and gaming

[Emerald]

On 12/29/2023 at 7:50 AM, Emotionalmosquito said:

What does that mean 

I thought the vagina was a self cleaning organ, no? 

I was about to make this same comment. 

The vagina (which specifically refers to the internal canal) is a self-cleaning organ.

And if you try to put anything inside to clean it then you'll mess up all the vaginal flora and end up with all sorts of yeast infections and other problems.

And the vulva (the external lady parts) is best to clean with either just water or some kind of gentle soap and water.