Using gambits in socializing

[StarStruck]

I found a pattern that is really effective on girls. If you see a hot girl in a group, first talk to her with minimal investment, doesn´t matter if she returns the emotional investment or not. Then subtly back off, give to her ugly friends (or any uglier girl) more emotional investment than her, joke with them and pump the state. You will see the hot girl in her head doing the computation like ´wtf is happening, why am I getting less investment than her'. This works so well. Never use logic on women. You got to know how to game her emotions for her own best interest. Even if you are in the classical sense a high value man, if you don't know how to tap into her feelings, you are just barking up the wrong tree. Women value power/status a lot so these are the levers you have to play with. For me it was important to be mindful of thoughts of me being inferior or less than her, if you think like this you will embody it and she will feel it and treat you according to the merits of your self image/esteem. She always have to feel like she is getting the better side of the deal. That is the main lesson that I extracted from my night out yesterday.

Edited December 23, 2023 by StarStruck

[Lucasxp64]

That's a classic one! Even from the times of Mystery, he mentions that one.

Fundamental: When approaching a girl in a group, we can't just focus on her, we need a game to handle the entire group.