What are some of the best values to adopt for future :

[Rishabh R]

I bought read the book Subtle art of not giving a ____ and I want to live out it's values :

The values are :

Radical responsibility: I am responsible for everything that happens in my life regardless of who is at fault

Uncertainty and not knowing: Questioning beliefs,thoughts,assumptions

Failure : willing to see one's mistakes and flaws

Rejection through commitment to a particular career, place or person

Contemplation of mortality

Thank you 

[hyruga]

Be non attached to unimportant things.

Take responsibility for your life. 

Don't blame God or your destiny. No excuses.

Have pure intentions.

Liberate your mind.

[Rishabh R]

@hyruga that's a good list.

[Princess Arabia]

8 hours ago, hyruga said:

Be non attached to unimportant things.

Take responsibility for your life. 

Don't blame God or your destiny. No excuses.

Have pure intentions.

Liberate your mind.

Even important things. Even more so. Love the "intentions" part.

[Leo Gura]

Rather than following a book, ask yourself: What is most valuable to me in life?

Don't be afraid to make your value highly unique and customized to you.

Your values must come deep from your heart, not from a book.

Edited December 22, 2023 by Leo Gura

[BlessedLion]

15 hours ago, Rishabh R said:

Radical responsibility: I am responsible for everything that happens in my life regardless of who is at fault

I’ve never loved this perspective 

[UnbornTao]

5 minutes ago, BlessedLion said:

I’ve never loved this perspective 

Who is the one that doesn't love it?

[Rishabh R]

@Leo Gura my interests - the answer to the question. Also you gave similar values in your videos like questioning and not knowing,responsibility, learning from failures. Yes radical honesty was also a value which is honesty to oneself ( in most cases I don't know). By the way how can I learn from failures - Is questioning , What can I learn from my failures the key ?(I was contemplating it yesterday)

[Leo Gura]

@Rishabh R I mention various values, but ultimately you have decide for yourself what resonates with you.

[Rishabh R]

@Leo Gura ok but those values in the book resonated with me and the best value which resonated with me from you was questioning  and curiosity. I daily sit and contemplate a question . Thank you 

Edited December 22, 2023 by Rishabh R

[Leo Gura]

@Rishabh R Good.

[Rishabh R]

@Leo Gura haha you typed good mistakenly two times😂. However , I must learn from my failures by asking the question that What can I learn from my failures? And writing answers in my diary.Like this

[Dabidoe]

Be careful what you believe, it may end up coming true (good or bad)
Don't let the temporary pain balloon into longterm downfall.
Accept death to embrace life.
Self discipline, self acceptance and self love are all interconnected.
You don't have to listen to other people's POV, self help books etc... it's your life to live.
You are the master of your fate. It's your life to win or your life to fuck up... don't blame anyone for the results you didn't get for the work you didn't do.
Do the shit you don't want to in order to accomplish the shit you really want to.
Have fun, laugh, you're going to die sooner than you'd like so you might as well have fun.

[Yimpa]

With everyone sharing the same exact values, there would be nothing to value at all.