I finally deciphered the idea of 'creepiness'.

[mr_engineer]

Just now, Princess Arabia said:

Not everybody is a victim. Some of us know how to decide for ourselves.

I was talking to @hoodrow trillson, not you. Maybe you did decide for yourself, but he didn't intend for you to do so. 

[Sincerity]

Just now, mr_engineer said:

Aren't your feelings your responsibility to begin with?!

Yes, so start taking some. And stop endlessly blaming the "other".

[mr_engineer]

1 minute ago, Sincerity said:

Yes, so start taking some. And stop endlessly blaming the "other".

Dude, women feel 'creepiness'. Their feelings, their responsibility. Not mine! They're the ones blaming men for their feelings of 'creepiness' here. And I detail how that works in the OP. 

Or, do you believe that only men have to take responsibility and women get to play the victim as much as they want? 

Edited December 18, 2023 by mr_engineer

[Princess Arabia]

Just now, Sincerity said:

Yes, so start taking some. And stop endlessly blaming the "other".

That flies out the window when it pertains to him. It's only "other" in his world.

[Sincerity]

1 minute ago, mr_engineer said:

Dude, women feel 'creepiness'. Their feelings, their responsibility. Not mine! They're the ones blaming men for their feelings of 'creepiness' here. 

They, they they.... 

[Princess Arabia]

2 minutes ago, mr_engineer said:

And I detail how that works in the OP.

Lol

[mr_engineer]

3 minutes ago, Sincerity said:

They, they they.... 

Kay, fine. Only men have to take responsibility, women are perpetual "oppressed victims" of the "evil oppressor men". You happy now?! 

Everything about women is my responsibility. Their thoughts, their feelings, their emotions, their actions, everything. 

Edited December 18, 2023 by mr_engineer

[Sincerity]

Just now, mr_engineer said:

Kay, fine. Only men have to take responsibility, women are perpetual "oppressed victims" of the "evil oppressor men". You happy now?! 

Everything about women is my responsibility. Their thoughts, their feelings, their emotions, everything. 

Responsibility is not a burden. It's a virtue.

No one is telling You to take responsibility for others' feelings. Take responsibility for your own and LOOK AT YOURSELF.

[mr_engineer]

1 minute ago, Squeekytoy said:

Aren't you blaming women for your feelings?

Where did you see me talk about my feelings here? Quote the post. 

Just now, Sincerity said:

Responsibility is not a burden. It's a virtue.

No one is telling You to take responsibility for others' feelings. Take responsibility for your own and LOOK AT YOURSELF.

Whose feelings are we talking about, when we talk about the idea of 'creepiness'? Context, dude. 

[eos_nyxia]

This whole thread is perplexing. What's the payoff for starting it, and what purpose was it supposed to serve? Haha.

[Sincerity]

Just now, mr_engineer said:

Whose feelings are we talking about, when we talk about the idea of 'creepiness'? Context, dude. 

You shouldn't be so concerned with others' feelings in the first place. You just ain't taking responsibility.

[Princess Arabia]

1 minute ago, mr_engineer said:

Where did you see me talk about my feelings here? Quote the post.

You're probably right. Narcissist don't have feelings; they blame others for theirs.

[Princess Arabia]

2 minutes ago, eos_nyxia said:

This whole thread is perplexing. What's the payoff for starting it, and what purpose was it supposed to serve? Haha.

To warn and remind women that there are creeps out there.

[hoodrow trillson]

1 minute ago, Squeekytoy said:

Lol this whole thread is about your feelings mate.

A perpetual self own.

[mr_engineer]

11 minutes ago, eos_nyxia said:

This whole thread is perplexing. What's the payoff for starting it, and what purpose was it supposed to serve? Haha.

The payoff is to debunk this idea of 'creepiness', to remove shame from male sexuality. 

10 minutes ago, Sincerity said:

You shouldn't be so concerned with others' feelings in the first place. You just ain't taking responsibility.

Wait a second. We should be concerned with others' feelings, or else, that's narcissism. 

I'm not saying we shouldn't be concerned about women's feelings. I'm saying that we have to fix the interpretation so that the stigmas around male sexuality go down. 

I will defend my right to not care about others' feelings, though. Narcissism should not be a crime. I just wouldn't advocate for narcissism either. 

9 minutes ago, Squeekytoy said:

Lol this whole thread is about your feelings mate.

If you don't prove what you're saying by quoting me talking about my feelings, this is bullshit. 

7 minutes ago, hoodrow trillson said:

A perpetual self own.

Okay, simp. 

Edited December 18, 2023 by mr_engineer

[Sincerity]

1 minute ago, mr_engineer said:

Wait a second. We should be concerned with others' feelings, or else, that's narcissism. 

Your concern with the others' feelings and blaming the other all the time is a self-deception keeping You from taking responsibility and LOOKING AT YOURSELF.

But it's not really the others' feelings. It's your ideas of it.

4 minutes ago, mr_engineer said:

I'm saying that we have to fix the interpretation so that the stigmas around male sexuality go down. 

Do we?

It's not about fucking male sexuality. It's about YOU. YOU. YOU. YOU. YOU!!! YOUR FEELINGS. YOUR SHAME. YOU.

It's not going to get more obvious than this.

[mr_engineer]

4 minutes ago, Sincerity said:

Your concern with the others' feelings and blaming the other all the time is a self-deception keeping You from taking responsibility and LOOKING AT YOURSELF.

But it's not really the others' feelings. It's your ideas of it.

The 'blame' that you're talking about, is called 'holding the other accountable for their feelings'. 

Basically, I recognize the reality that certain individuals trigger certain feelings in certain women. Now, the way they react to it, is they make that person the problem for triggering those feelings, by calling them 'creepy. 

What I'm doing, is saying that 'No, it's not their fault for triggering the feelings, it's your responsibility to do some shadow-work and work with that trigger, because they're your feelings'. 

Also, are you saying that 'feeling creeped out' is not a feeling? That it's 'my ideas of their feelings'?! Come on, it's a literal feeling-word! 

4 minutes ago, Sincerity said:

Do we?

It's not about fucking male sexuality. It's about YOU. YOU. YOU. YOU. YOU!!! YOUR FEELINGS. YOUR SHAME. YOU.

It's not going to get more obvious than this.

Buddy, the 'toxic masculinity' rhetoric has gotten so out of hand, with the MeToo shitshow, that male sexuality has almost become taboo. And the explanation?! 'Creepiness'. 

Edited December 18, 2023 by mr_engineer

[Sincerity]

@mr_engineer

[mr_engineer]

Just now, Sincerity said:

@mr_engineer

At least, you're thinking about what I'm saying. That's a good sign. 

[Sincerity]

Just now, mr_engineer said:

At least, you're thinking about what I'm saying. That's a good sign. 

And You are unreachable.

This is a self-improvement forum. I don't know what You're doing here.