what are your thoughts on 'femdom' kink ?

[nhoktinvt]

there are lots of kinks and fetishes but i just discovered this 'femdom' stuff that is growing more popular
i just thought it is silly and not to be taken seriously watching 'domme' content creator
interesting how the table turned between the two (?) sexes
 

[kenway]

1 hour ago, nhoktinvt said:

there are lots of kinks and fetishes but i just discovered this 'femdom' stuff that is growing more popular
i just thought it is silly and not to be taken seriously watching 'domme' content creator
interesting how the table turned between the two (?) sexes

Femdom has been very popular in the Western World for ages.

It's basically 1960s level sexual freedom. At least in the West. 

Why on earth do you find it silly?

[nhoktinvt]

let's put it in this way, you gave up all your power to the woman...as a man that's what femdom is right ?

[Jodistrict]

55 minutes ago, kenway said:

Femdom has been very popular in the Western World for ages.

It's basically 1960s level sexual freedom. At least in the West. 

Why on earth do you find it silly?

Wonder Woman will tie you up with her lasso of truth - 1975.

[kenway]

9 hours ago, nhoktinvt said:

let's put it in this way, you gave up all your power to the woman...as a man that's what femdom is right ?

It's just role reversal.

In the gay space, there are male bottoms and female tops, so why not in the hetero space?

[nhoktinvt]

2 hours ago, kenway said:

It's just role reversal.

it's hard to do but assuming the role did reverse itself then the femdom is the submissive

[kenway]

10 minutes ago, nhoktinvt said:

it's hard to do but assuming the role did reverse itself then the femdom is the submissive

How is the femdom the submissive?

[gettoefl]

femdom and findom expand the one's despotism and sadism and exploits the other's traumas and self hatred

nasty very pitiful dynamic

both indescribably wounded

[kenway]

1 hour ago, gettoefl said:

femdom and findom expand the one's despotism and sadism and exploits the other's traumas and self hatred

nasty very pitiful dynamic

both indescribably wounded

It's just theater. Purely recreational like movies or videogames. 

Take horror movies for example. Some people can handle horror movies, other people can't. But it's still just basically entertainment.

[gettoefl]

12 minutes ago, kenway said:

It's just theater. Purely recreational like movies or videogames. 

Take horror movies for example. Some people can handle horror movies, other people can't. But it's still just basically entertainment.

for me it is two addicts snatching their fix from each other with the goal of divorcing oneself from the other's humanity to the highest degree

each is deepening the other's desperation and desolation

yea some no doubt will view that as entertaining and reality tv is no doubt on the lookout for participants

[byte]

5 hours ago, kenway said:

It's just role reversal.

In the gay space, there are male bottoms and female tops, so why not in the hetero space?

Sums it up succinctly.

2 hours ago, gettoefl said:

femdom and findom expand the one's despotism and sadism and exploits the other's traumas and self hatred

nasty very pitiful dynamic

both indescribably wounded

If that is so, imho it follows that the same applies to maledom/femsub in hetero relationships.

[Princess Arabia]

It's been around forever. The list goes on with kinks. Just do you. People get off on all kinds a shit. Who knows, you yourself might get into it at some point. 

[gettoefl]

50 minutes ago, byte said:

Sums it up succinctly.

If that is so, imho it follows that the same applies to maledom/femsub in hetero relationships.

yes it is deep rooted trauma

every kink is trauma in fact

most say that's my pleasure, i say that's your pain

[LSD-Rumi]

Nothing wrong with kinks per say, but they really reflect your level of development. 

The higher your consciousness is, the purer your sexual desires become.

Your lower self desires fried chicken and gangbang porn. Your higher self is disgusted by such things.

Edited December 12, 2023 by LSD-Rumi

[nhoktinvt]

4 hours ago, kenway said:

How is the femdom the submissive?

the femdom act like the dominant on the outside but inside it is the submissive

[nhoktinvt]

1 hour ago, Princess Arabia said:

It's been around forever. The list goes on with kinks. Just do you. People get off on all kinds a shit. Who knows, you yourself might get into it at some point. 

i have my kink when i'm very young, but i think i have exhausted it now

[kenway]

39 minutes ago, nhoktinvt said:

the femdom act like the dominant on the outside but inside it is the submissive

I don't understand what you mean sorry.

Why is the dominant actually submissive on the inside? What do you mean by that?

[nhoktinvt]

well i just thought about how the role reverses itself in this sex-play and that's what i come up with

[Princess Arabia]

Humans secretly love pain. They'll even pay people to inflict pain on them. We can't get enough pain. Actually, it's because we keep running from pain, so it starts to chase us. Don't we love a chase. Humans are backwards. Come baby, hurt me. Hurt me baby. Notice how too much love scares us. We bask in our pain and tell joy to go fuck itself. That's why some women love a big you know what. Hurt me baby. Then they want to be choked and strangled, dragged by the hair and bitch slapped on the ass. Yes daddy!

Don't mind me the cat got out the bag. My other personality got loose again. I'm trying to tame it, but ever so often it acts up.

[nhoktinvt]

2 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

They'll even pay people to inflict pain on them.

i just have a business idea...nah jk