[nofap] 25 Reasons To Do It

[Santiago]

Do you even avoid having sex with girls for nofap???

And if you do have sex with girls isn't that counterproductive nofap-wise?

[Shin]

13 hours ago, Santiago said:

Do you even avoid having sex with girls for nofap???

And if you do have sex with girls isn't that counterproductive nofap-wise?

You can take care of your girl without ejaculation, it's not like they want your sperm in their vagina/mouth anyway.

[Santiago]

1 hour ago, Shin said:

You can take care of your girl without ejaculation, it's not like they want your sperm in their vagina/mouth anyway.

But... Have you tried it?? Do you enjoy sex that way? How?

[Shin]

3 minutes ago, Santiago said:

But... Have you tried it?? Do you enjoy sex that way? How?

The joy of sex isn't about ejaculation, if it were, you would go straight for it (well, that's what some guys do ).

It is even more pleasurable, because if you learn how to do it properly, you can feel pleasure in your all body instead of just the dick area.

You can even have orgasms withouth ejaculating and repeating the process, but that's quite advanced, I can't do it for now.

[egoless]

Guys do you think no fap can "cure" some porn induced fetishes out of your mind?

[Shin]

9 hours ago, egoless said:

Guys do you think no fap can "cure" some porn induced fetishes out of your mind?

The reasons why you have these fetishes is because you watch porn.

At first basic porn was satisfying, then you acclimated, then you watch hardcore, then anal, then gangbang, then bdsm etc ...

@egoless I doubt you can stop porn if you don't stop masturbation at the same time.

You can try, but what's gonna happen is that everytime you fap you will think of watching porn, or you will fantasize about fucking a woman, which is the same, because you think you are doing it when you actually don't.

This is what fucks your mind, because it thinks it got what it wants, hence the loss of motivation and determination.

Masturbation is useless anyway, you have like what, 5 minutes of pleasure max, it's not worth it considering how much energy it sucks out of you.

Edited August 8, 2017 by Shin

[egoless]

5 minutes ago, Shin said:

The reasons why you have these fetishes is because you watch porn.

At first basic porn was satisfying, then you acclimated, then you watch hardcore, then anal, then gangbang, then bdsm etc ...

 

Yes I am aware that porn addict can escalate into extreme porn categories but are these fetishes fully reversible though? How long may it take? Is it enough to abstain only from Porn itself or no fap is also required?

Edited August 8, 2017 by egoless

[Shin]

 

[Tightrope Walker]

I quitted porn for almost five months now. I used to spend quite some time daily on this. I can feel the change, my brain is in a better shape and I feel a lot more relaxed around girls.

However, I still don't quite understand the need of nofapping, UNLESS, you are having regular sex.

 

Edited August 9, 2017 by Tightrope Walker
forgot to be more specific

[Shin]

2 hours ago, Tightrope Walker said:

I quitted porn for almost five months now. I used to spend quite some time daily on this. I can feel the change, my brain is in a better shape and I feel a lot more relaxed around girls.

However, I still don't quite understand the need of nofapping, UNLESS, you are having regular sex.

 

Try not to fap for at least 3 weeks, you'll know why.

[Ferdi Le]

9 minutes ago, Shin said:

Try not to fap for at least 3 weeks, you'll know why.

Do you have a valid source that semen retention actually helps the body? I personally think the whole idea overrated (quitting porn is important and not masturbating more than twice per day also) but saying that you lose your "life force" by masturbating and therebye quitting it completely seems for me ridiculous.

Masturbation actually gives you a reproductive advantage when you do it couple days before fucking a girl because than you sperm is younger and quicker. So the benefit of semen retention simply cannot be greater than the benefit of having younger sperm during sex, otherwise evolution would have not give us masturbation.

Dont get me wrong: I dont want to necessarily rant against NoFap or anything. I would be very happy if Semen retention would really be that beneficial because it is such an easy thing to do. So please share some sources I you know

[pluto]

Well said @Shin its about pure enjoyment and givingness to others that allows this higher consciousness to eventually rewire within itself. Almost everytime i ejaculate if it isn't for a new life to be brought to this world it feels pure feeding of ego. Although sometimes it does feel special when with someone special the ejaculation still feels slightly an ego-oriented experience ultimately.

Edited August 11, 2017 by pluto

[Shin]

For the real motherfuckers !

 

https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/how-to-avoid-wet-dreams-10-simple-steps.21578/

[Max_V]

@Shin I hit the 9 day mark today again. It feels like there is porn in my mind 24/7 lol

[Shin]

On 28/09/2017 at 10:14 AM, Max_V said:

@Shin I hit the 9 day mark today again. It feels like there is porn in my mind 24/7 lol

Of course, that's how getting out of an addiction works.

I'm hitting (probably, don't count anymore) the 30 days mark again and I want to fuck any attractive girl I see too !

If you pass that treshold though, it'll be ok, you won't even think of it most of the time, even when you see beautiful girls.

 

[nice shot]

I was going to start a new topic, but I feel like this topic is flooding this board, so I'll just post in this thread.

I am overwhelmingly addicted to PMO. I am absolutely ashamed of it. I know that I have the power to overcome this crippling addiction. The problem is that it is just so easy to tune out for 20 minutes, PMO, and move on. As a result, I have not been able to kick this habit. The question I have is this: Would it help if I told someone that I know personally, whether it's friends or family, that I am addicted to PMO and need help? Right now I do not feel like I could live with the embarrassment, though we all know that life goes on. Thanks for any input.

Edited October 3, 2017 by nice shot
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[Heart of Space]

No fap people tend to way overstate the benefits.  But yes, there's definitely clear benefits.  I'd distill the main ones down to simple increase in focus, will power, and a more clear head.  This shit about how it shifts the world around you like you took a limitless pill is a load of poo.  Definitely worth doing, but it's not magic or anything.  

Edited October 3, 2017 by Heart of Space

[Heart of Space]

10 hours ago, nice shot said:

I was going to start a new topic, but I feel like this topic is flooding this board, so I'll just post in this thread.

I am overwhelmingly addicted to PMO. I am absolutely ashamed of it. I know that I have the power to overcome this crippling addiction. The problem is that it is just so easy to tune out for 20 minutes, PMO, and move on. As a result, I have not been able to kick this habit. The question I have is this: Would it help if I told someone that I know personally, whether it's friends or family, that I am addicted to PMO and need help? Right now I do not feel like I could live with the embarrassment, though we all know that life goes on. Thanks for any input.

My lord dude, you're making life way harder on yourself.  You have a habit, it's nothing to be ashamed of.  Are you deeply ashamed when you watch too much TV or go on the internet for too long?  Or drink your daily coffee?  Or eat a do-nut?  For fucks sake, this is part of the problem with no-fap it make people feel bad for doing something that's hardly a big deal.  You're literally adding a ton of psychological stress on yourself for a fairly benign behavior and that stress adds to your need to continue performing said addictive behaviors in your life.  It's a bad way to be man, no need to feel bad about something that's completely normal.  I'd say that's the first step to quitting.  

[Heart of Space]

On 8/21/2017 at 1:36 AM, Shin said:

For the real motherfuckers !

 

https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/how-to-avoid-wet-dreams-10-simple-steps.21578/

That is just psychotic in it's approach to this.  

Here's how you deal with wet dreams the healthy way:

Step 1:  You have a wet dream

Step 2:  You move on with you life, it makes almost no difference at all

 

No fap can be a good thing, but man ya'll have to curb your crazy neurotic approach to this.  It's unhealthy.  

Edited October 3, 2017 by Heart of Space

[nice shot]

2 hours ago, Heart of Space said:

My lord dude, you're making life way harder on yourself.  You have a habit, it's nothing to be ashamed of.  Are you deeply ashamed when you watch too much TV or go on the internet for too long?  Or drink your daily coffee?  Or eat a do-nut?  For fucks sake, this is part of the problem with no-fap it make people feel bad for doing something that's hardly a big deal.  You're literally adding a ton of psychological stress on yourself for a fairly benign behavior and that stress adds to your need to continue performing said addictive behaviors in your life.  It's a bad way to be man, no need to feel bad about something that's completely normal.  I'd say that's the first step to quitting.  

I am not trying to blow it out of proportion, and I am definitely not beating myself up over this. I don't feel stressed out over it. I just recognize that I have little to no control over these urges and act out on them 9 times out of 10. I have come to the conclusion that I am addicted to pornography. You would say the first step to quitting is what, not feeling bad? I can work on that, but that's something that literally goes hand in hand with masturbation for many people. By that, I mean guilt, shame, embarrassment. I am still hung up on whether or not I should approach someone in my life to get help with this.