Posted December 6, 2023 (edited) @ivankiss Well, she doesn't have any money. Or, at least not income. If she had an income in the future would things change? So, right now your dating a girl who you pay her rent, her car... Do you buy her food? Kind of sounds like she just put into words what your already living with her. Edited December 6, 2023 by Thought Art "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver ◭"89"◮ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 1 minute ago, Thought Art said: @ivankiss Well, she doesn't have any money. Or, at least not income. If she had an income in the future would things change? I'm not so much concerned about finances as much as I am concerned with just how different our core values, beliefs and worldviews are. She did contribute in the past. And I'm sure she would in the future. It's really not an actual money issue in my eyes. Rather, beliefs about money, gender roles, political views, etc. That's what's bugging us. We have, most of the time, completely opposite views on everything. And we are both (too) strongly opinionated on everything. It's equally as stimulating and arousing as it is annoying and frustrating. We do tend to find common ground, quite quickly... But a few things are just like a brick fucking wall. We cannot move past them. They might as well end up being dealbreakers. Check My Music Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 10 minutes ago, Thought Art said: Some girls, are like that. Ask Princess Arabia. She is also Nigerian I'm Jamaican. Don't know about Nigerians. All of us girls are different, though. Nationality may play a minute role but it's mostly independently minded, as far as I'm concerned anyway. I think with women, it's mostly about how they were raised, past relationships, age, maturity and how they feel towards men. All those play more of a factor in dating than where you're from on an independent level, even though you can generalize certain traits using nationalities. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 (edited) @ivankiss Let me know how it goes. Be open minded. Edited December 6, 2023 by Thought Art "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver ◭"89"◮ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 (edited) @Princess Arabia I think you are right. Jamaican women are great. (: Edited December 6, 2023 by Thought Art "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver ◭"89"◮ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 6 minutes ago, Thought Art said: @Princess Arabia I think you are right. Jamaican women are great. (: Are you flirting with me. You need cab fare for that...😜 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 8 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said: Nationality may play a minute role I found nationality plays a huge role. Met a few western European girls who flat out refused free coffee on the first date lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 (edited) @Princess Arabia flirt? I would never! For you, I'd pay cab fare. But, that's cuz you got Forum cred Edited December 6, 2023 by Thought Art "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver ◭"89"◮ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 1 minute ago, Thought Art said: @Princess Arabia I would never! For you, I'd pay cab fare. But, that's cuz you got Forum flex 😁😁 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 3 minutes ago, actuallyenlightened said: I found nationality plays a huge role. Met a few western European girls who flat out refused free coffee on the first date lol What do you mean? They wanted to pay for their own coffee? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 (edited) @Princess Arabia how much a cab from Jamaica to Canada Edited December 6, 2023 by Thought Art "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver ◭"89"◮ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 Just now, Princess Arabia said: What do you mean? They wanted to pay for their own coffee? yeah even after I offered and told them not to worry about it.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 Just now, Thought Art said: @Princess Arabia how much a cab from Jamaica to Canada Lol...I live in USA. Been for awhile. Not sure how much from US, but now you're up to plane fare and hotel fees. Sure you can handle this. We should stop this conversation before it turns real Spiritually spooky. Lmao Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 @Thought Art haha unfortunately I don't have the app Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 13 minutes ago, Thought Art said: Let me know how it goes. Will do. 14 minutes ago, Thought Art said: Be open minded. I'm afraid I might be a bit too open minded in this scenario. Check My Music Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 (edited) @Princess Arabia I thought that you did. Damn, spiritually spooky you say? I might get my mod licence revoked if I keep this up hahah Edited December 6, 2023 by Thought Art "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver ◭"89"◮ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 2 minutes ago, actuallyenlightened said: yeah even after I offered and told them not to worry about it.. What happened after that, without being too revealing if you prefer not to. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said: What happened after that, without being too revealing if you prefer not to. Nothing notable, just a normal first date. Didn't seem to reflect much - just wanted to pay her own coffee. With me being from Canada, I found local Canadians have no issue accepting coffee. Just cultural expectations I guess Edited December 6, 2023 by actuallyenlightened Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 (edited) "Me givin you de eye all the way from Canada" Looking at flights right now. Edited December 6, 2023 by Thought Art "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver ◭"89"◮ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2023 1 minute ago, Thought Art said: @Princess Arabia I thought that you did. Damn, spiritually spooky you say? Yeah, I'll turn into God mode and Devil mode simultaneously. Don't worry, you'll have back up from your buddies here. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
