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Leo’s aggression

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6 minutes ago, Letgotryhard said:

Important social anxiety and thinking everything I do is trash is something I attribute to a stupid form of perfectionism with overthinking

I suspect this often occurs from traumatic upbringing, particularly with narcissists or emotionally unstable people. It is possible to be emotionally or psychologically abused or manipulated without even noticing, like through a narcissistic parent. I have dealt with the exact same combination of problems and I believe it is because of upbringing. Feeling unworthy and mistrustful makes perfect sense if you imagine a narcissistic companion to go with it. This also affects motivation, including the idea that everything needs to be perfect, because this minimizes criticism in a narcissistic relationship. It feels comfortable to not take risks (the perfectionistic mindset prevents you from taking risks as well), because then you don't mess anything up, and so you don't experience verbal criticism, and thus you also don't experience any subsequent feelings of unworthiness. It is all a carefully crafted defense mechanism, in this context.


Describe a thought.

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Everybody is more agressive than him where i live lol.

 

His videos are easy to understand, what he says is easy to understand, and in the worst cases he blurts out cold sentences without punctuation.
Oulala

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Nothing will prevent Wily.

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