Leo’s aggression

[LastThursday]

1 hour ago, Aaron p said:

yeah he's a little aggressive, but who the fuck cares.

Sometimes aggression shouldn't be tolerated. Bullying and corruption gets normalised because people tolerate it. Isn't it so?

[Ash55]

11 hours ago, Lila9 said:

However, I don't like how he communicates in the forum, many times it's not in place and comes too aggressive and lack in emotional intelligence.

well i do agree with you but i also see how people go really crazy online too so we might drove him a bit crazy lol

11 hours ago, Lila9 said:

neutral/feminine spiritual teachers which bring me a wider perspective.

i feel like teacher like teal balances out leo and bring alot of his blind spot well not him personally but his teaching

[nhoktinvt]

1 hour ago, Yimpa said:

100% accurate 

i thought leo was a taurus

[Sandroew]

Where do you guys find Leo's communication aggressive ? Do you mean in the videos ? I would say he is brutally honest in them but not aggressive and he has stated before that he's examples he brings are deliberately on the "offensive" side too so he can poke at your ego.

Or do you mean on the forum ?

Im only asking, because if you think he is aggressive in he's videos, i would point out that there is a difference between aggressive and brutally honest.

[Schizophonia]

11 hours ago, Bobby_2021 said:

Aggression confirmed.

Lol.

[Chives99]

he used to very aggressive and lacked complete sensitivity exploding at people which looked really immature but i dont see that so much any more, when he first started a kid in his youtube comments was like what do i do ? theres a girl in my class i like? do i just talk to her??? and leo retorted back in full caps of course you have to talk to her, what are you going to do? rape her in an alleyway???? .

dude you dont talk to kids like that

Edited December 4, 2023 by Chives99

[Schizophonia]

6 minutes ago, Chives99 said:

i dunno man not treating people with respect just looks anti social and and an arsehole

I prefer a masculine energy, brutal but one that can be trusted, than a soft and versatile energy that brushes me in the direction of the hair.
Btw, Sadism is feminine.

[Buck Edwards]

13 hours ago, LastThursday said:

Sometimes aggression shouldn't be tolerated. Bullying and corruption gets normalised because people tolerate it. Isn't it so?

Full points. 

[Buck Edwards]

@Yimpa lmao. Leo = tauruz

[Chives99]

ive never ever met a hyper masculine man that was happy, always got a chip on their shoulder , always looking for  a fight. They get off on conflict , they make group settings awkward because people have to tip toe when they're around them. The hypermasculine man senses this and stops engaging with the group as much because no-one wants to feel awkward .

[Sandroew]

12 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

Btw, Sadism is feminine.

Could you elaborate on that ? Im interested why do you think that.

[sholomar]

It's called tough love. A good parent knows how to balance being a parent versus providing love so as to not raise a spoiled and entitled child. The fact we incarnate as an animal species with a distinct set of genetic characteristics means that coddling such an animal is not going to work. It might seem nice to want to feed and house the entire planet, and have everyone in safe spaces and bubbles, but when you feed the animals or shelter them they become dependent on you and weak. In the end, I've stopped feeding animals besides birds for this reason.  We evolved in scarcity. Evolution occurred because hardship pushes adaptation which pushes genetic changes. Life on this planet is savage if you really objectively analyze evolution.  It has the same rules as any video game and applying too many cheat codes takes away from the purpose of the game.

It does no good to be excessively soft on people. Sometimes it's good for people to be told harsh red pill truths about this matrix. It will help them find solutions to what's troubling them faster than telling them only what they want to hear.  It's a balancing act.

Someone above said that men who are angry are "hypermasculine" and that's not really true. Many are insecure inside or have personal demons they are projecting outwards. Men who are actually masculine are playful and generous of spirit while knowing how to set the rules and be firm when necessary. They project a vibe of being comfortable with themselves.  Nobody with a perpetual chip on their shoulders can be said to be developed to an advanced degree.

Edited December 5, 2023 by sholomar

[ted73104]

On 2023/12/4 at 5:11 PM, LastThursday said:

Sometimes aggression shouldn't be tolerated. Bullying and corruption gets normalised because people tolerate it. Isn't it so?

I agree with you. However I think Leo just wants to be himself instead of being put on a pedistal here. So if anyone feels bullied from his response, I think they can talk with someone else on the forum. I do think Leo has toned down his aggressiveness after his apology post earlier.

[PenguinPablo]

On 12/3/2023 at 6:42 PM, Leo Gura said:

Meow

Edited December 8, 2023 by PenguinPablo

[lostingenosmaze]

On 12/3/2023 at 4:42 PM, Leo Gura said:

Meow

Visualizing his awakening as a cat spinning yarn, transforming into an Alien-mouse, seeing the consciousness of a cartoon wolf, RPing a cat on the forum, Leo's definitely not beating the furry allegations. Leo's gonna succeed in his Alien Consciousness ascension once he finds the right person to comission his Alien-mouse fursuit 

Edited December 8, 2023 by lostingenosmaze

[MrTelepath]

This has been my only issue with him. He comes off as being heartless at times. I’m probably going to get a lot of hate and resentment for this but sometimes I come to the conclusion that he responds with such aggression and lack of caring for boastful reasons. Like he gets a sense of enjoyment from putting people down and correcting them when the opportunity arises. But it’s very difficult to tell how people mean things on the internet as oppose to face-to-face interactions so I could be wrong.

That being said, I’m grateful for him and the community he’s built. I’ve been following Actualized.org for a few years now and his content played a huge role to where I’m at right now in my journey.

[Yimpa]

On 12/28/2023 at 7:49 PM, Shrooms_Alvarez said:

But it’s very difficult to tell how people mean things on the internet as oppose to face-to-face interactions so I could be wrong.

I’m the opposite way. It’s easier for me to tell how people mean things on the internet as opposed to face-to-face interactions. 

[enzyme]

He's a person the same as any of us on here - it's pretty common to feel frustration/anger from time to time regardless of how enlightened/developed you are.

[Yimpa]

On 12/30/2023 at 4:37 PM, enzyme said:

He's a person the same as any of us on here - it's pretty common to feel frustration/anger from time to time regardless of how enlightened/developed you are.

To take it a step further, the Universe imagines people who have certain characteristics, as well as degrees of development (personal, spiritual, etc.)

[Letgotryhard]

On 12/3/2023 at 6:00 AM, nuwu said:

Symbolic complexity is meaningless on its own. Researching type indicators contributes to self-reflection on mental frameworks. From my understanding, cognitive functions are focal points of thought processes in dichotomic networks of perspectives, with extraversion equivalent to maximalism | divergence | grasp of everything, and introversion to minimalism | convergence | grasp of nothing, intertwining creation and destruction (or upside-down depending on perspective; destruction is a creative process; maximization is a minimization problem, and vice-versa). The MBTI map is effective despite inherently imperfect, distinctions between cognitive functions are malleable, blurry | overlapping, oblivious to edge cases, and probably formed over arbitrary clusters of thoughts. There are also theories surrounding the dimensionality of functions. Nonetheless, despite reductionism, some equilibrium are more stable than others. 16personalities.com is misleading and shouldn’t be recommended, try advanced-personality.com

1) In NiTe archetypes, semantic networks are lossy communication tools. Intuitive convergence is prior to constructive understanding. Authors might have difficulties expressing comprehensive leaps since these are not grounded in structures. Ti is normally unvalued & subconscious, but still manifest.
2) In TiNe, constructivism is favored. I am not an active Ti user so I don't know. Ni is subconscious & unvalued, possibly stronger than dominant function, but not directly manifested.
3) Other archetypes like TiNi, NiTi, and NiFi exist. I have a strong Fi as far as I've observed, such that I get easily lost in NiFi emo loops, and support systems of values detached from extraverted ideals.
4) Cognition in narcissism is difficult to identify. They may wear infinite masks and may adjust to whichever appearances fit a narrative, manipulative intent, or excessive desire for attention | recognition.

Personally, I have important social anxiety, and I think everything I do is trash, especially when directly confronted on specifics outside notes and iterative refinements. I am mainly spinning Leo's ideas. I can't tolerate psychedelic body loads, and I have too much brain fog for meditation. Due to health issues, I can barely do anything other than playing games and funposting. I also use `|` and `&` because I struggle to format layered unions and intersections. These are not abbreviations, and they have the highest operator precedences.

@nuwu I was trying to join this site just to comment on a few of the things you’ve said here.  The NiFi emo system of values detached from extroverted ideals, for me specifically I believe I attempt to mirror Fi with Ni as part of my ego.  Supposedly I’m INFJ but I disagree with putting it all in a box.  There is a lot of interesting information you wrote here that I’m surprised people didnt take too seriously.  Important social anxiety and thinking everything I do is trash is something I attribute to a stupid form of perfectionism with overthinking, like trying to pull too much out of small situations.  While “normal” people deal with most situations as a much smaller and minute event, I have resorted to isolation as a result of every single thing appearing risk-like as a catastrophic possibility for failure.  This even extends beyond social situations and further into the area of the activity of my own thoughts.  My specific form of “OCD” I have struggled with in the past is more just like a mental trick which I can accidentally push onto myself as a result of anxiety.

You sound like an interesting person and when I read this I felt compelled to reply, although there’s hundreds of millions of people in the world I have a problem with feeling completely alone in the way that I am.

Edited January 27 by Letgotryhard