The key to confidence in any domain of life ?

[Rishabh R]

I was walking beside the mall was with my friends. I suddenly thought of buying a success course of Tony Robbins , Robin Sharma, Dr. Robert Glover. However I started questioning why ? Then I found that I think that I am not successful. Then I started constant self questioning. When I reached my hostel - I sat down and contemplated for 5 minutes that  What would happen if I start thinking that I am already successful in life ?- Answers came - I would be happy, I would be confident, I would respect myself more. Then I contemplated for 30 minutes - Why must I think that I am already successful in life ? 

Answers were-

.Because I am already successful and attractive

.Because thinking otherwise would hurt me

.Because I have overcome tough odds of life 

. Because I am already trying

.Because I already achieved my Target in the past (this answer is special as I have scored 80% in past and attracted some girls which is the evidence)

.Because it will enhance my mood 

.Because it will detach me from external frivolous things

.Because I already am

[universe]

7 hours ago, Rishabh R said:

.Because I already am

Very nice. How do you define success?

[Rishabh R]

@universe overcoming the odds of life.

[Thought Art]

There is a good book called “The Six Pillars” of Self Esteem which may take you deeper. 
 

Also, another good book I “The Self Talk Solution” which I’ve found tu be very useful lately.

Edited December 3, 2023 by Thought Art

[Rishabh R]

@Thought Art yeah I know about six pillars of self esteem. Thank you.

[Thought Art]

What are the 6 pillars?

[Rishabh R]

@Thought Art  I was talking about the fact that I heard about the book. I just now researched that about the book again on Wikipedia.

The Practice of Living Consciously

The Practice of Self-Acceptance

The Practice of Self-Responsibility

The Practice of Self-Assertiveness

The Practice of Living Purposefully

The Practice of Personal Integrity 

This is what it showed.( I copy and pasted)

[Carl-Richard]

Practice.

[Thought Art]

@Rishabh R I know, but you’re wondering about how to develop confidence and self esteem. It may be worth reading the best book on the subject…

[Thought Art]

@Rishabh R I know, but you’re wondering about how to develop confidence and self esteem. It may be worth reading the best book on the subject…

It may also be worth reading “High Performance Habits” by Brendan Burchard. One of the best books on mastery out there. Without it I would never have created an album and played music festivals to the degree I have.

Edited December 3, 2023 by Thought Art

[Rishabh R]

@Thought Art ok.

[ivankiss]

Honesty.

Truth.

[Jacob Morres]

I remember Nathaniel Branden has a quote about self esteem being derived from an innate sense of self efficacy and self worth and accomplishments reconfirm the innateness