How do you make sure that you are always appropriate?

[Princess Arabia]

Just now, StarStruck said:

Dude. It was a figure of speech. 

Yes, Ma'am.

[Chives99]

rules are for autistic people, and autistic people struggle with socialising because logic is used as a tool to get what you want from a person not relate to them for who they are. relating to a person requires selflessness responding to things in the moment not using people as a tool. Giving up on yourself is a scary thing to do but things flow much more easily as the person doesn't feel as strained by your rules and logic controlling them, instead observing body language and cues and vibes in the moment , leaving it open ended for them to come and go as they please.

[mmKay]

I've been bingeing this show lately.

Observe how when the people try to hide themselves they are ripped appart, and when they dont hide, are vulnerable and authentic they are loved. 

that's one aspect of It. this is not directly aplicable to day to day situations though as its main purpose is laughter.

[Spiral]

@Chives99 I like muffins. I do not feel attraction towards them. 
 

Obviously an oversimplification and not the best example but I don’t have much time to write now. Might get back with a better response later.

Edited December 2, 2023 by Spiral

[Chives99]

@Spiral  your not socialising with a muffin? i dont understand your point