How To Solve That Problem

[28 cm unbuffed]

@NoSelfSelf

Can you read, defender of all women, Mr. White Knight?

I already told you, I know I can handle it, manage a woman, train her like a fucking dog because that's what I - in your opinion - supposedly should do. 

I'm just saying - I don't think that should be that way and that they can act like normal human beings. 

Are you brainwashed by feminism or something?

You just accept women unconditionally and let them be as they want, as their nature tells them, or otherwise, if they gaslight you, manipulate you, monkey branch your ass - it's all your fault, not a female nature fault (that tells her to act upon feelings, like an animal). 

Great advice bro, I don't buy it, go be a beta, loving simp, and accept that bullshit more

Clownfiesta 🤡

 

Edited November 17, 2023 by 28 cm unbuffed

[The0Self]

@28 cm unbuffed You don’t train them like dogs… Wtf is that shit? 🤣 

Yes they DO need more love and affection in a relationship than men do, but that’s the main difference and it’s not even a big deal.

In fact one of the reasons women may seem a little off is because they often wrongly think that men are perfect — but that obviously can be used to a man’s advantage so why any straight man would complain over such a thing idk.

Edited November 17, 2023 by The0Self

[NoSelfSelf]

@28 cm unbuffed This is my last message to you ever...

So im not defending women im allowing women to be what they want to be,but its my fault if she is bad to me , she can do whatever she wants im not her dad what she does to a guy like you  i actually enjoy it since you have no game and completely clueless...

You cant manage not being emotional on a forum and you want me believe you can manage a woman, makes sense...

You caring how she should suppos to act just show how insecure you are by wanting her to be a certen way, so it fits your phantasy but ofcourse no game=no influence...

Monkey branch lol keep watching red pill seems like you on so called red pill rage..

Im not brainwashed i just dont see how can a man think that a woman has such a power to control your being and not seeing himself as the one who is a leader,meaning everything that is happening is my fault because i am the rule,i am the direction and i am the compass and everything else, i cant stoop so low to think that so call female nature is cause of me failing...

The moment she manipulates,gaslights she is gone it will be my fault to accept that behaviour...but it seems its her fault for you being weak idk...

Have a nice day... wont reply to you again...

 

 

 

Edited November 17, 2023 by NoSelfSelf

[The0Self]

1 minute ago, NoSelfSelf said:

You cant manage not being emotional on a forum and you want me believe you can manage a woman makes sense...

For real.

[NoSelfSelf]

@The0Self I get passionate about this topic too much 🤝

[28 cm unbuffed]

@NoSelfSelf

I'm not being emotional, what are you talking about?

It's your messages that look like you didn't end elementary school / you type fast as motherfucker, because you're pissed or something.

10 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

You caring how she should suppos to act just show how insecure you are by wanting her to be a certen way so it fits your phantasy but ofcourse no game=no influence.

Bro, you told me that I should lead, and if she acts "bad" that's only my fault, are you delusional?

Don't project that shit on me, nigga.

10 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

Monkey branch lol keep watching red pill seems like you on so called red pill rage..

I got monkey branched a couple of years ago, it's just what it is lmao, I experienced it myself bruh 🙈

10 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

Im not brainwashed i just dont see how can a man think that a woman has such a power to control your being and not seeing himself as the one who is a leader meaning everything that is happening is my fault because i am the rule,i am the direction and i am the compass and everything else i cant stoop so low to think that so call female nature is cause of me failing..

I never said that a woman can control me or whatever, you are delusional, you have no real arguments, so you have to imagine them?

10 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

The moment she manipulates,gaslights she is gone it will be my fault to accept that behaviour...but it seems its her fault for you being weak idk...

Yeah, of course, which doesn't change the fact that women shouldn't even act like that in the first place.

That's unconscious, feeling-based, animal shit and I don't like it at all. It shouldn't be like that is what I'm saying. 

We are humans, not animals, and you with you're attitude are like - yeah, let's just allow it, let them be as they are, they are not evolved so let's train them like dogs, I'm a clown 🤡

10 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

Have a nice day... wont reply to you again...

I will for sure.

Don't forget to polish your white armor, before going to sleep ⚔️

Edited November 17, 2023 by 28 cm unbuffed

[petar8p]

6 hours ago, 28 cm unbuffed said:

be okay with how fucked up she is (by default) and I can't do anything about it?

Not all are fucked up bro.  

When you haven't dealt with the trauma, you will fall for someone that will reinforce that trauma until you resolve it. 

 

6 hours ago, 28 cm unbuffed said:

So you're all saying that there is no workaround for that or nobody invented it yet?

Biggest workaround is not trying to find a a workaround but facing the issue straight-on. You gotta be brave and disciplined to get to something special. IF it came easy, everybody would have it and it wouldn't be special..

[petar8p]

2 hours ago, 28 cm unbuffed said:

train her like a fucking dog because that's what I - in your opinion - supposedly should do. 

You cannot train a girl with healthy self-esteem like a dog, neither are you supposed to. Those are wrong conceptions of masuclinity.

[28 cm unbuffed]

@petar8p

Yeah, I know that. This moderator smart-ass guy told something along those lines, I'm just mocking him 🥰

[UnbornTao]

On 17/11/2023 at 7:33 AM, 28 cm unbuffed said:

Because you all keep on giving me advice on some questions that you want to answer, not mine!

I'm not saying you're all wrong and I'm right, I'm just saying "That's not what I asked for"

What if the solution is along the lines of learning to relate authentically?

That doesn't provide us with instructions on how to be or what to do, yet it might be a fruitful direction to follow.

Notice what you're doing. The past already happened. A story/narrative is made up out of one's interpretations. We're served by setting imagined past trauma aside. In your experience of relating to another, those are excuses that stand in the way of being present.

One's life story isn't true but a story that is self-crafted.

Better for us not to make up excuses in order to justify our inability to relate now. Rather, focus on what real relating entails experientially: your presence, acknowledging another's presence, willingness to communicate.

Edited November 18, 2023 by UnbornTao

[Tenebroso]

All the people talking down self righteously on the OP. He is actually right this 'this women are wonderful' narrative is silly and is actually more harmful to the women you claim to care about. Why is it so hard to acknowledge that women are for the most part a chore to deal with it, does not make you toxic or spiritually undeveloped to observe that. Plus abusers, toxic, violent men have no trouble attracting all kinds of women, what does that say about female nature that society is so scared to talk about it.

[NoSelfSelf]

@Tenebroso nobody said they are wonderful they are just women and you guys who are bothered by their behaviour are the weaklings who created them, i dont get how is this not clear 😅

 

 

 

[Twentyfirst]

Hire an escort 

[Salvijus]

Why such a strong compulsion to mock/ridicule/belittle every response that you've concluded ineffective? 

@28 cm unbuffed

Edited November 18, 2023 by Salvijus

[28 cm unbuffed]

@UnbornTao

Thanks for your response, you sound like a smart fella, don't know if what you're saying is that practical though.

I mean, I know what you mean, yeah, my narrative is like that because I don't have a reference point of good experience with women, so I'm speaking from my own, fucked up, over-and-over experience.

@Tenebroso 

Thank you, +1

@NoSelfSelf

You are saying, once again, that if a woman behaves badly, it's the man's fault, because he was too weak.

Not like she can choose to behave well, even if a man is weak. No, let's accept her as she is 🫡

I'm not saying that now we have to love and accept all weak men (but who knows what some of them have gone through), but when it comes to women you say we should accept not only weak women but also the bad ones, can you even hear what you're saying?

@Twentyfirst

Don't wanna, it seems dirty and gross.

@Salvijus

Drama and conflict bring more people. I thought it was a good strategic move to bring more people to get the answer I wanted (it worked really well) 😇

Edited November 18, 2023 by 28 cm unbuffed

[Salvijus]

1 hour ago, 28 cm unbuffed said:

Drama and conflict bring more people. I thought it was a good strategic move to bring more people to get the answer I wanted (it worked really well) 😇

This answer certainly makes you look like a good righteous person. But somehow i doubt the answer was truthful. 

Edited November 18, 2023 by Salvijus

[Twentyfirst]

3 hours ago, 28 cm unbuffed said:

 

@Twentyfirst

Don't wanna, it seems dirty and gross.

Wtf? How is it dirty and gross?

You would both be as clean as you want to be

You think it's some sketchy alley way transaction? 

It solves all your problems. You want sex without the woman and this is the oldest trick in the book to get that 

Hookers will tell you everything thats on their mind if you ask them. Normal girls are more secretive 

[28 cm unbuffed]

@Salvijus

It is truthful + I'm not doing anything wrong. If people get emotional, there's something to be triggered and that's not my fault🤷‍♂️

@Twentyfirst

Yeah, let's just ignore the elephant in the room that is another man's dick in her mouth an hour before she met with you.

 

[Salvijus]

53 minutes ago, 28 cm unbuffed said:

I'm not doing anything wrong. If people get emotional, there's something to be triggered and that's not my fault🤷‍♂️

deflection 101

• Nothing is ever their fault. Whenever something goes wrong, they pass the blame to someone else. 

Edited November 18, 2023 by Salvijus

[UnbornTao]

8 hours ago, Salvijus said:

deflection 101

• Nothing is ever their fault. Whenever something goes wrong, they pass the blame to someone else. 

What is an excuse?

Edited November 18, 2023 by UnbornTao