My Struggle

[Martin123]

Hello you beautiful people.
I have concern regarding my life purpose. I post it in the spiritual thread since it is rather of spiritual nature.
I know what I came here to do. I came to serve, I came to be a beacon of love to others, to radiate unconditional love towards others.
And, just as basically almost every light-worker has at some point, I had my moment of "I am going to become a life-coach".

Now here is the dilemma. Every day, I wake up awakening more love in my heart. I become less biased towards my own needs, and more sensitive towards the needs of other beings. That doesn't necessarily mean I am completely bias-less yet, but Im on my way.
How long do you think I should await until I step into my purpose and start truly healing others? (I mean... making it a business, and going all in, starting 1-1 sessions and then eventually after picking up on following creating retreats and talks for people, and creating a community that shines brighter and brighter with every single healing session and integration).
In terms of capability I am ready as FUCK to start doing 1-1 sessions. Like... I got this shit easy peasy lol.
However I don't feel yet true alignment of my heart with my true purpose. My subconscious still seems to be a little miss-aligned with my purpose due to past trauma (which was also necessary to gain tools for healing others)
The question is!
How long should I wait?
Thank you! <3 :-) 

Edited April 2, 2017 by Martin123

[Martin123]

Also one factor is that I consider myself still fairly young, Im turning 22 in a month. But that doesn't really seem to be an issue anymore... I thought I needed more life experience. What I found out is that once you truly understand your mind, it is worth all the experience in the world... not saying I understood truly, but I got a fair amount =D.

[Prabhaker]

17 minutes ago, Martin123 said:

How long do you think I should await until I step into my purpose and start truly healing others?

It is good to help others, because there is nobody really who is other. Helping others, you are helping yourself because we are parts of each other, members of one another. We are joined together. If I help you to be happy, I become happy. If I help you to be miserable, I become miserable. Our life is together here; it is a togetherness; we are not separate. On the periphery we may be separate; at the center we are one.

If you have the feeling that you enjoy sharing whatsoever you have understood, howsoever little it is, if you have the feeling that you enjoy, you feel blissful, you feel joyful -- and no ego arises out of it ... Let that be the criterion: if ego arises out of it, then you are not helping others, and you are destroying yourself meanwhile. If no ego arises -- you simply feel peaceful and silent and happy that you shared something with somebody, a grace descends on you -- then you are perfectly right. Then go on the housetops and shout. When you have, share it.

And there is no need to wait, that when you have the whole of it, then you will share it. Then you will not have the whole, ever. Share it, and you will get more. Give it, and you will get more.

But remember only one thing: the ego should not enter in. The moment you see ego arising, the moment you see you are feeling great, superior to others, holier than others, then something is going wrong. Then it is better to wait. You are not to wait for the whole of God to happen to you, but you are to wait for the whole of the ego to go.

Edited April 2, 2017 by Prabhaker

[Martin123]

@Prabhaker Yeah that is what I meant with becoming unbiased. I think I will wait a little and see. I am not entirely sure how far I have gone since I have made some major clearings recently. So I will see what arises.
Thank you for your answer. It showed me the obvious that I was blind to :-)

[LRyan]

What about your intuition?  I believe you will KNOW when the time is right if you listen to the messages you are receiving...

[Nic]

My best advice to your question is to go to see a real master. He will make you notice when you are ready and to not listen to any advice here and even my own.

I'm 37, been working 10 years on me, I don't feel ready to do one on one paid session. My goals of wanting to help others with words and advices changed into inspire and heal others with music, so I've trained very hard to learn the guitar to become a street musician, I feel very close to go out alone on the street for the first time and continue travel the world this way. But it doesn't mean that you are not ready, this is completely subjective. 

But I believe that if you have doubts, it probably isn't the right time.

When I was 22, I had already been living in 5 countries and moved to many places and I thought I've seen it all. Oh boy was I wrong... Now I have the decency to not believe in these kind of thoughts anymore. I think that you will not find many older adults that want to take advices from a 22 years old man even if you could help them. Maybe you could help the younger one... that could be an idea.

My recommendation is to work at least another 5 years... Experience life, gain experience, travel the world, get out of your comfort zone and never leave your goal in sight, stay focus on the goal. You will help people on the way if that's what you want, you will meet enough people who need your help. Work for charity.

Take care

 

Edited April 2, 2017 by Nic

[Toby]

Why would you need to "heal" others? Is there something wrong with "them"?

[Toby]

1 hour ago, Nic said:

My best advice to your question is to go to see a real master. He will make you notice when you are ready.

That is good advise. If I were to live in Czech Republic I already knew to whom I would be going to. There is a true healer & a spiritual teacher from time to time in CZ that is really good. He seems to be even there at this weekend in Prague.

[Martin123]

@Toby hah shame im in scotland rn

[Martin123]

@Nic dont take this the wrong way but if I were this slow in ny PD I wouldnt even consider coaching haha. 

2 hours ago, Toby said:

Why would you need to "heal" others? Is there something wrong with "them"?

because it is joy and beauty and exciting.

Healing doesnt imply "wrong" healing implies room to grow.

 

[Martin123]

@LRyan yeah haha I kinda resolved the struggle the moment I put it into words on the screen. But its still interesting to hear peoples advice. However they only affirm me in more and more trusting me and my intuition.

[Martin123]

2 hours ago, Toby said:

Why would you need to "heal" others? Is there something wrong with "them"?

Also there is a massive need for healing rn. I wouldnt be born in this time if it werent.

[Toby]

Well, depends on what "healing" is for you. I guess for everyone this is different. For me, "healing" would be showing "others" what they are. And on a more psychological/physical level assist them as well. For the former you have to be awake yourself, for the latter it takes great skill, especially how to work with all kinds of trauma-symptoms and how not to work with them.

[Martin123]

@Toby haha yeah. Id find working in a grocery store more challenging than having a session with someone in need of emotional healing.