I´m freaking done with dating advice, this game can't be won

Javfly33
By Javfly33 in Dating, Sexuality, Relationships, Family,
I´m done of all the 'alpha' or 'high value' dating advice, I´m done of all that crap, is impossible to win. I just realized I´ve been reading pickup literature from 18-19 years old, and now I´m 28. Look at that, 10 years. And after having done pick up, going on dates meeting women, watching hundreds of videos, reading this subform, etc... nothing has changed, inside and within there is still that Hell called mental self-concept and feeding it more of this conceptual crap is food for him. It seems all of this advice mental gimnastics never goes nowhere. I´m sick of it, I realize I´m going to become absolutely brain-dead in terms of dating and women. I just going to identify myself with the body, I´m a body. That's it. No mental concept of me, no 'bet'a but no 'alpha' neither. Just a body that can move and do things, or not.  More than that (entering the self-mental game) is absolute hell and I´m absolutely out of it. Do not try to convince me because I had 10 fucking years to really confirm that it does not only doesn't work but actually breaks you apart and provides great suffering. You think you are going somewhere but then you don't. If you become an alpha or high value man then you will also become beta and low value because the mind works like this, by constant comparison and is very unstable, you will be in this distopic mental place for life, endlessly trying to 'value' yourself, by all sorts of mental measurements that do not even fucking exist because the mental concept is just the devil in its purest form. You are playing with the devil by doing all of this. I´ve warn you. I see some forum members here complaining about stuff that already 3-4 years ago they were complaining. So ask yourself? Is all this advice really helping? Try to see the big picture. You are just going in circles with this crap. Try to see this shit from the sky. Is all shit. Is all fear, comparison, mental hell concept of beta-alpha. Run. Get out while you can. Go lift weights and just be a fucking body. Treat the sex thing as it deserves: a Body thing. Don't promote it to the mental game, because if not tremendous suffering is inevitable. 
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