The Success Principles Journal

[Spiritual Warrior]

The Success Principles by Jack Canfield. This is a phenomenal book that contains all of the practical tips on how to get what you want out of life. Its time that I start focusing on this aspect as I would like to be a successful, mature, and financially independent man that enjoys his work and has an abundance of wealth in relationships, women, sex, and money. 

I am going to work on this aspect of my life by going through the book chapter by chapter and doing the exercises honestly. This is stage orange, I am trying to integrate and maximize stage orange in my life, that is the goal here. 

Lets get started. 

Principle 1: Take 100% Responsibility for Your Life

I feel like I have a good grasp on this in my life. I will not be making any excuses, there is no blaming, no making other people feel bad for me. This is where I am at, I take full responsibility for where I am at in life. And I take full responsibility for what I am doing about it and where I am heading. It is my life, it is my responsibility to take ownership of it and make it my own. 

Principle 2: Be Clear Why You're Here

I am here because I would like to maximize stage orange. I want success, love, intimate partners, sex, good looks, I want all of the material desires that I can think of. 

Principle 3: Decide What you Want

Lets focus on this chapter today, deciding what I want. Write it down, be clear about it. Going to read this chapter today. 

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Principle 1: Take 100% Responsibility for your life 

Write down some things that I blame other people for: 

1. I had a difficult childhood. It's my family's fault 
2. My friends aren't very ambitious, so neither am I. It's their fault. 
3. up until now, I have blamed women for my lack of success with them. I blame them for being difficult to talk to, for not giving me a chance, for only wanting the hottest guy in the bar. 
4. I blame D***** and Y***** and I*** for me not being happy right now at the dance studio

Now, let's flip this around. How would I think about these situations if I were to take full responsibility for them. 

1. Instead of blaming my family for my difficulties, I could focus on and be grateful for the value that they have added to my life. I take 100% responsibility for my life because I have 100% control over what I do about it. 

2. Instead of blaming my friends for their lack of ambition, I can take full responsibility for my own ambition and motivation in life. I am a warrior, a warrior that is geared and ready to take down any demon that dares cross my path. 

3. Instead of blaming women for my lack of success with them, focus on what you can do right now, right fucking now to improve. Focus on talking with them more, making them feel more comfortable. If you are resenting them, feel into the resentment, and then later ask yourself why the resentment.

4. Instead of blaming the workers at the dance studio for my unhappiness, I could take my own unhappiness into my own hands. How could I do that? If I am feeling useless because I don't have any lessons to teach, I could start writing down what I am going to teach in my next lesson. I could have a plan when I go into the dance studio, "this is what I am going to work on today because I want to accomplish or achieve x, y, and z."

 

Edited November 3, 2023 by Spiritual Warrior

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And I think of you growing old and it breaks my heart.

 

Edited November 2, 2023 by Spiritual Warrior

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Principle 2: Be Clear Why You're Here: Determine Your Life Purpose

I don't have one right now, lets start with this one that I really like and lets try to make it personal to me. 

"My purpose is to inspire every woman to realize her own personal beauty, regardless of body type, size, or age, to love yourself, and to live brilliantly." - Rani St. Pucchi, Fashion Designer and Author

Why do I like this statement? 

Because I have experienced many insecurities about my own body type and size. I'd like to deal with these insecurities myself while also accepting and inspiring other people to accept theirs and to love themselves and to allow themselves to act authentically. I feel that I can inspire people through dance, my role as a dance instructor will be to encourage men and women to accept themselves fully, to embrace their inner beauty and most importantly to not suppress their sexual side. I have suppressed my sexuality out of shame, not wanting to come off as creepy, like being sexual is wrong. I am still dealing with this. I'd like to deal with it and encourage others to express their sexual side as well. Smile. Smile more when you dance with women or interact with men. A smile shows the person that you accept who they are and how they act. Smile. 

Edited November 3, 2023 by Spiritual Warrior

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Principle 2: Be Clear Why You're Here: Determine Your Life Purpose

My Life Purpose:

I want to encourage everyone to love themselves fully and to realize that they are capable of achieving anything that they desire. You are perfect exactly as you are and you can have anything and everything that you want out of life. 

This is my life purpose / mission statement for now. I am happy with it. 

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Principle 2: Be Clear Why You're Here: Determine Your Life Purpose Attempt #2

My life purpose attempt # 2: 

I want to encourage and inspire men and women that they can have anything and everything that they want out of life. You deserve the world, and I will help you get there. 

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Principle 2: Be Clear Why You're Here: Determine Your Life Purpose: What do I need to do to get on track with my life purpose

I want to encourage and inspire men and women that they can have anything and everything that they want out of life. You deserve the world, and I will help you get there. 

My life purpose is still a work in progress, but I think this is a good start. What do I have to get in order in my life so that I can put more attention on my life purpose?

1. The first and foremost thing that I would need to get in order is the organization of my life. My room is a mess, my clothes are not organized, my bed is disgusting (i.e. no girl will sleep in there as is), I lose everything, etc... I must get my life organized if I am to fulfill on my life purpose

.... Lets get to work 

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Principle 2: Decide What you Want

I'm at the beginning. The very beginning of consciously eradicating all unhealthy behavior and creating success in my life. Pushing myself as far as I can into falling in love with life.. Falling in love with God.. Falling in love with my soul. 

New life purpose statement:

I want to encourage men and women to express themselves fully and to love themselves and life with all of their heart. 

 

 

 

 

[Spiritual Warrior]

I came into this job being selfish. 

Now I can't shake the feeling. 

How do I shift from selfish to selfless? 

You love. You love with all of you heart.

You love until it hurts.

Until it bleeds.

Until you couldn't possibly go any further.

 

I'm learning to love.

Slowly but surely.

To love every being of the universe.

To love every speck of dust, every grain of sand.

One must surrender.

Surrender to the process.

Surrender to your life.

 

How much can I give?

Can I give any further?

Can I give any more to myself? 

Can I be any less selfish?

These are the questions

 

But be gentle with me

I might not be ready

 

I'm destined to do something

Something will happen before I die

I will go through events, make mistakes, make choices, fall in love with people, fall in love with myself, jump out of an airplane, dance on dancing with the stars, be a phenomenal dancer, have sex with 100 girls, motivate and inspire others, have a full head of hair, post beautiful, sexy pictures in my Instagram, call people out on their shit, be loving towards my wife, be respectful and punctual at all times, loving every being as deeply as I can 

 

But why did I do that?

That was annoying

I just want to be better.

Why did I do that?

Why do I care about others perceptions?

Because I'm scared

Scared what would happen if I don't care

 

If I don't care then I can't love

Is this true? 

He was showing off

Killing it

 

I want more role models

 

I want to be the best dancer I can be.

 

I want to take my life purpose seriously.

 

Do these people really believe in me?

 

Why would they? 

 

I have issues.

 

Fuck. 

[Spiritual Warrior]

Love every "issue" that you have. Love every blemish on your record.  Love the embarrassing side of you. Love your hair. Love your skin. Love your eyeballs. Love your legs. Love your bed. Love your hygiene habits. Love your dick. Love your selfish intentions. Love yourself for you. 

 

Let it go.

Let it all go.

Nothing left.

You're blowing in the wind.

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New life purpose statement:

I teach people to dance, helping them express themselves openly and to fall deeper in love with themselves and life. 

Edited December 6, 2023 by Spiritual Warrior

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I want to love as deeply as I possibly can. 

I want to love deeper than the darkest depths of the ocean. 

I want my love to burn as hot as the sun. 

I want to embrace love with all of my being. 

I want to radiate love throughout my entire body. 

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Principle 2: Be Clear Why You're Here: Determine Your Life Purpose: What do I need to do to get on track with my life purpose

New life purpose: I'd like to master the dynamic and relationship of the masculine and feminine and spread this knowledge with people through dance. 

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Principle 3: Decide what you Want

Be honest with yourself when contemplating what you want. Don't follow someone else's dreams, follow your own authentic path! 

Stop saying "I don't know, I don't care and it doesn't matter." It does matter, you have your own preferences, make them known to the world. Your wants and desires are important.

Exercise: Make an "I want" list of 30 things your want to do, 30 things you want to have, and 30 things you want to be before you die.

 

Edited March 1 by Spiritual Warrior

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Principle 2: What is your Life Purpose:

My life purpose is to master the dynamic between the masculine and the feminine and to master the art of bodily movements through dance. 

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Principle 3: Decide What you Want

Exercise: Write down 30 things that you want to have, want to do, and want to be. Here goes: 

30 things I want to have:

1. A big house with a big lawn, long driveway, fireplace, lots of room for entertainment
2. An inground pool with a diving board, outdoor bar, and hot tub
3. $2,000,000 in my bank account
4. A beautiful, smart, funny, highly concscious girlfriend
5. 6 pack abs, a chiseled chest, defined back, large thighs and calves
6. A job that gives me the freedom to do whatever I want
7. A wine cellar filled with natural, organic wines from Europe
8. My own wine farm in the backyard
9. A king sized bed
10. A Shiba Inu puppy
11. A library full of lots of books and tables and comfortable seats
12. A housecleaner and maintenance guy to take care of my yard
13. Reverse Osmosis Water Filtration System
14. A cool, colorful gaming computer with a comfortable chair and sick gaming room
15. 8 really nice expensive tailored suits
16. A Tesla
17. A ski house in Vermont or New Hampshire
18. A rolex watch
19. A full head of hair until I'm 60
20. A long, full beard like Rhett from Good Mythical Morning
21. An emotionally mature, highly conscious, fulfilling intimate relationship
22. An organized and clutter free home / living space
23. 20 / 20 vision
24. An unwavering drive to help humanity evolve
25. A complete understanding of spiral dynamics and how to raise other people to the next stage
26. A physical copy of every book on Leo's book list
27. A highly conscious, highly ethical, high impact job
28. A consistent sleep schedule
29. A fulfilling sexual life and high sex drive
30. A highly attractive face and body

30 things that I want to do: 

1. Make love in Mexico
2. Salsa dance in Spain
3. Make pasta in Italy
4. Drink wine in Austria
5. Win an award at a dance competition
6. Own a highly ethical, high conscious, stage yellow or stage turquoise business
7. Make an impact on people's lives
8. Skydive
9. Read all of the 5 star books on Leo's book list
10. Fly in a helicopter
11. Meditate on a mountain top for 10 days
12. Do a Vipassana retreat
13. Understand what death is
14. Ride a horse
15. Hunt - shoot an animal
16. Eat street food in Japan
17. See the needle in Seattle, Washington
18. Fly first class
19. Fly to Hawaii
20. Do karaoke 10 times
21. Have a one night stand
22. Have sex 10,000 times
23. Go to Antarctica
24. Go into outer space
25. Access infinity
26. Take 5 Meo DMT
27. Write a book
28. Speak in front of thousands of people
29. Have a three way
30. Race in a tough mudder
31. Do a shirtless photoshoot and post it on my Instagram
32. Have a samadhi experience
33. Donate $100,000 to charity
34. Make an impact on the world before I die
35. See the northern lights
36. Throw lots of parties at my impressive houe

30 things that I want to be: 

1. Mature
2. Intelligent
3. Wise
4. Funny
5. Witty
6. Clever
7. Strong
8. A body-numbing lover
9. A caring, loving, emotionally strong boyfriend
10. A caring, loving, emotionally strong friend
11. Loving
12. Compassionate
13. Confident
14. Free flowing
15. Emotionally mature
16. Emotionally available
17. An attentive listener
18. A professional dancer
19. Charming
20. Spritually Enlightened
21. A stage turquoise thinker 
22. Playful
23. Happy
24. Content
25. Stable
26. Stoic
27. God-realized
28. Focused
29. Organized
30. International Dance / Dating Coach
31. An attentive, caring, fun host
32. Fun-loving

Edited March 13 by Spiritual Warrior

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Principle 3: Decide what you want

Be honest with yourself when contemplating what you want. Don't follow someone else's dreams, follow your own authentic path

 

I want a house with a fenced in yard

I want a king sized bed

 I want a dog to play with

I want a smart, funny, beautiful, highly conscious girlfriend. 

I want to open up a dance studio.

I want to travel and teach people to dance, become a traveling consultant

I want to fuck 10 different girls

I want to be better than ******* at dancing

I want to have a one night stand

I want to salsa dance in Spain

I want to go to a tantra speed date event

I want to understand the truth behind my own sexuality

I want to write a book about the masculine vs the feminine

I want to kill an animal and eat it for food

I want to read every book on Leo's book list

I want to fuck someone after meeting them at a dance event

I want to weigh 150 pounds

I want to make a woman my wife and love her as deeply as I can

I want 3 more tattoos on my thighs

I want to go to the dentist twice a year

I want to professionally whiten and straighten my teeth

 

Edited September 7 by Spiritual Warrior

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Intermission

Since deciding to get back into pickup, I've been experiencing ego backlash. I have been jerking off a lot, being lazy, not standing by my own habits, etc. The funny thing is I've actually been a lot happier since Ive decided to start my pick up journey again. It was as if I had this burning desire inside of myself that Ive been hiding from and now it is out in the open and I am going to fully embrace it. 

What made me fall off of the pick up journey was that I got a girlfriend, she loved me, I loved her, she was nice to me, we had sex, we went on trips together, she made me laugh. It was a beautiful period in my life. But I always had this nagging desire to get back into pick up, and when she started to talk about getting married in as soon as a couple of years, I knew that it wasn't a good idea to continue any further. 

A man embarks on the pick up journey not for the fruits, but for the growth that he will get from obtaining said fruits.

The main things that I'm working on right now in my life are: 1. Finances, getting income up so that I can live comfortably. 2. Pick up, hitting on women as often as possible and having sex with them. 3. Being more mature, delaying instant gratification in favor of long term principles and values, sticking to habits such as working out 3 times a week, making sure my caloric intake is at least 2700 calories, meditating every morning, 4. Living with integrity, not doing anything for blatantly selfish reasons, caring about the feelings of other, understanding that you have your own biasees.

Continue to work on these things and in just a few years you will be a very attractive, mature, highly conscious young man. 

At the end of this period, I predict that you will truly be ready to take the leap into tier two thinking, the systems approach. Then you will start to dissolve the ego.