How do you motivate yourself when you’re alone at a club?

[flowboy]

On 22/10/2023 at 1:25 AM, PurpleTree said:

Well yea because im at the club now but i usually just play headgames with myself

You're very close, slight tweak: play headgames with yourself which are actually cracking you up.

Do things that amuse you, interact with people in a way that you think is funny.

That way when you want to chat up someone interesting, you can just start right in the middle of the story of your self-created adventure.

 

[something_else]

2 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

Jesus Fucking Christ man how about a trigger warning before making me read a post like that, I almost smashed my phone on the ground. They kicked you out because you whispered something in a girl’s ear.

That was my second time in a club ever, I was shitting myself with nerves most of the time. Likely behaving quite erratically as a result too. These things make you seem much more creepy than you really are even when doing the most basic things.

And I've also never been kicked out a club since. And I've been back to that same club like probably 30 times since then and got laid more times than I can remember. I had a threesome with two girls from that club.

Don't focus on the negative things that could happen, focus on the the potential benefits.

2 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

Yes, calibrate as in you better walk on eggshells around the all mighty woman because you’re constantly on very thin ice and one small slip up away from being figuratively burned at the stake.

I don't walk on eggshells anymore. The first few times yea, and then you learn to relax a little bit. If you want to go to places where you have more leeway you should find rock/goth focused clubs. The girls (and people in general) in these places are usually way more chill.

[petar8p]

2 hours ago, flowboy said:

interact with people in a way that you think is funny.

This is one of the most important piece of advices in Pickup. 

If you're able to build your game around this, you will get a lot of returns on that investment!