How do you motivate yourself when you’re alone at a club?

[PurpleTree]

Like which thoughts can motivate you?

 

[nhoktinvt]

just do it ? see what happens ? this (whatever u think this is) is (lowkey) funny

[PurpleTree]

1 minute ago, nhoktinvt said:

just do it ? see what happens ? this (whatever u think this is) is (lowkey) funny

Well yea because im at the club now but i usually just play headgames with myself

[nhoktinvt]

ahaha i used to be where u at, i tried to be active and move from this corner to that corner, eventually a bartender told me to stand still at one place

[PurpleTree]

3 minutes ago, nhoktinvt said:

ahaha i used to be where u at, i tried to be active and move from this corner to that corner, eventually a bartender told me to stand still at one place

That bartender is wild I’m getting drunk while crying for humanity 

[PurpleTree]

hot womens at some point often dance infront of me because I’m cute-ish. But i feel guilty for touching them and then they leave. Thanks karma 

[PurpleTree]

now that other hotnchicknis cockblocking

just shoot me now jesus

 

 

[nhoktinvt]

i never get to that point...

[PurpleTree]

The problem is i fold under pressure, and two hot chicks infront of me is pressure

[PurpleTree]

4 minutes ago, nhoktinvt said:

i never get to that point...

Well it just means one woman wants to stop another woman from being close to you 

it has nothing to do with cocks it’s just horrible pua language

Edited October 22, 2023 by PurpleTree

[PurpleTree]

Now they are gone and I’m relieved + disappointed smh 

this can’t be life

i’m just writing all this crap to document real time crap

[PurpleTree]

What am i afraid could happen? I’m not sure honestly 

[nhoktinvt]

this is when you center yourself be balance between what haven't and what already happened

[PurpleTree]

4 minutes ago, nhoktinvt said:

this is when you center yourself be balance between what haven't and what already happened

Yea i take myself wayyy to important 

[PurpleTree]

the resistance is unreal friend

[PurpleTree]

i think im more afraid of rejection and telling a woman i like her than death.. thx god… 🙄

[Noahsteelers34]

Just try and have fun and enjoy yourself. Let loose.

[Noahsteelers34]

Don't think about anything, dont worry about trying to accomplish anything

[nhoktinvt]

if you are having negative unwanted interaction (even though you haven't do anything wrong) that is because of your environment is really polarized and unharmonized this might be caused by you gaining reputation the solution is to go home or chilling and take a time off then continue to approach when the time is right (context and social calibration 101)

[PurpleTree]

well yea it’s silly it’s all in my head. Just now intalked to a woman i wasn’t really intrestwdtand she was nice of course. But approaching is hell. I think it’s trauma