Both men and women are full of shit

[Someone here]

Why do we need "game" at all ? Look at animals like cats ..they meet and they immediately befriend each other and get laid.

Whereas humans ..both men and women play infinite tricks to get into each other's pants ..it's fake and disgusting.. maybe in a million years from now men and women would meet and just say "hey ..you look sexy ..let’s FUCK "!

 

[NoSelfSelf]

Game is no tricks or trying to get women in bed ,its literally who you are but who you are is not stimulating since you dont create anything for yourself, since you dont have any game you are writing about this stuff to distract yourself from seeing that there is nothing inside you that can create an impact.

Your mind is not rooted in itself(game) its rooted in fitting into worlds and womens narrative ,just accept that you going to be like this.

[Princess Arabia]

10 hours ago, Someone here said:

Why do we need "game" at all ? Look at animals like cats ..they meet and they immediately befriend each other and get laid.

Whereas humans ..both men and women play infinite tricks to get into each other's pants ..it's fake and disgusting.. maybe in a million years from now men and women would meet and just say "hey ..you look sexy ..let’s FUCK "!

 

Women usually don't have to play tricks to get into men's pants. Don't kid yourself. Women are not going around saying how can I get laid today as much as men are.

Ever notice how you guys are always looking for the next lay (of course, not all, just generalizing). If your previous ones were so fulfilling, why keep on looking. Why do men need so much variety. Why are you learning game, why after having sex one time isn't enough with the same partner forever and ever.

I'll tell you why, because it's the process, not the end game that's more exciting. The thrill of the chase. The becoming, What a boring sex life you would have if everybody was just willing to have sex on call at anytime, any moment, anybody, anywhere, anyhow. You would get so bored of sex you would want to throw up every time someone mentions the word.

This is why men have to work so hard at game because most of you are almost always ready to have it. Guys are easy. All it takes is some visual stimulation and you're ready. That's why hookers dress a certain way or strippers are half naked.

If it wasn't so easy for women to get sex they would want it more, maybe. Telling a woman she looks sexy isn't enough to get her in the mood because she wants you to appreciate her, go through the process, that turns her on, whatever that is, just like how you men don't like easy women and call them sluts and whores, it's because you like the chase. That's what get's your blood flowing. You will take the easy sex but you won't feel as fulfilled.

So don't be so quick to ask for the Mercedes when all you can handle is a honda. Enjoy the chase that you so long for because you created it. It's not about the destination, but the process. The younger you are, the more you chase after sex. When you get older, after realizing all that chase was just a waste of time and energy, even though it really wasn't because it teaches you about yourself and molds you into becoming whatever it molded you into becoming, you realize none of that was fulfilling and you start to appreciate the opposite sex a little more because you recognize it's not about quantity but quality. 

 

[Someone here]

@NoSelfSelf you always get personal with me and lose sight of my point with your projection.

What is the ultimate purpose of game?  Why are you approaching girls ? Isn't it to bang their pussy ? Enlighten me if there are other reasons. 

[Raze]

You are a living coomer meme 

[Someone here]

@Princess Arabia I agree  .men are more desperate for sex . That's because basically the male's libido  is like 1000X higher than women. I have never understood 'why' it is longed for soo much by other men. Pretty much every other guy I know probably have it as their top 3 life priorities and there is nothing wrong with that all and is actually quite normal.

Looking at Maslow's hierarchy of needs.. sex would fall under the base most desired layer of physiological needs that come first above other factors. So I guess it makes sense... but for me personally...I would place it above esteem or even self actualization...making it very hard for me to understand.

1 minute ago, Raze said:

You are a living coomer meme 

No u

[Princess Arabia]

14 minutes ago, Someone here said:

.men are more desperate for sex

The way you describe it will perpetuate that desperation. Words have power especially if there is a strong feeling behind those words. Desperation implies lack, so maybe if you change your internal dialogue, you will have a better relationship with sex. Seriously. It's a mental world; so how we see things in our minds eye, will become true for us. 

Ever notice when you stop caring about something, it starts to flow in your life or trying to remember something with a lot of energy, as soon as you let it go, it comes to you. I've recognized the similarities in life when it comes to certain things and I try to use the same strategy in how I do something I'm successful at and try to implement that strategy in other ways because life has a way of showing us the connections to everything.

Edited October 15, 2023 by Princess Arabia

[Salvijus]

11 hours ago, Someone here said:

Why do we need "game" at all ? Look at animals like cats ..they meet and they immediately befriend each other and get laid.

Whereas humans ..both men and women play infinite tricks to get into each other's pants ..it's fake and disgusting.. maybe in a million years from now men and women would meet and just say "hey ..you look sexy ..let’s FUCK "!

 

Hmmm. I actually agree with this. Simple honesty is rare these days. Lots of pretending and mind tricks.

[NoSelfSelf]

@Someone here Yeah my style is like im a coach i shouldnt even get involved since im not the one...

ultimate purpose of game is understanding yourself and standing on you as a man before giving everything for a little pleasure..

You guys dont care if you give your dignity,identity for play its horrible thats why i get personal...

No its not about pussy you too shortsided and desperate for some affection...

[Someone here]

8 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

The way you describe it will perpetuate that desperation. Words have power especially if there is a strong feeling behind those words. Desperation implies lack, so maybe if you change your internal dialogue, you will have a better relationship with sex. Seriously. It's a mental world; so how we see things in our minds eye, will become true for us. 

That's a nice perspective.  Thanks. 

Yeah my relationship with sex is based on scarcity and longing . I have a sex addiction and porn addiction.  I can't even go to bed without  a quick jerkoff session.

Also..I broke up with my gf and it hurts my soul . I haven't been able to find a similar girl up until now . But I go out every weekend and approach girls .Maybe I will get lucky one day .

9 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Ever notice when you stop caring about something, it starts to flow in your life or trying to remember something with a lot of energy, as soon as you let it go, it comes to you. I've recognized the similarities in life when it comes to certain things and I try to use the same strategy in how I do something I'm successful at and try to implement that strategy in other ways because life has a way of showing us the connections to everything.

It actually works the exact opposite for me . It's like synchronicity. Like when you think about something too often and you start seeing everywhere. Never understood how that works ? .

[Someone here]

10 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Hmmm. I actually agree with this. Simple honesty is rare these days. Lots of pretending and mind tricks.

I mean isn't that how it used to work in the cavemen era and neanderthals and our ancestors?  Do you think game existed 1000 years ago ? It's a modern day invention.

[Princess Arabia]

15 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Hmmm. I actually agree with this. Simple honesty is rare these days. Lots of pretending and mind tricks.

Because people are afraid. Afraid of being too honest for fear of judgement. I wouldn't say the trickery is a bad thing. It is a coping mechanism. If i'm playing hard to get with a guy, for example, I might not actually be deliberately trying to trick him. I might just be trying to protect myself from something, whatever that may be. Vulnerability is one reason why we tend to not be so open with others because humans love to judge, criticize and condemn each other, 

We have created this dynamic and now we call it trickery and deception. If we were to be blatant about our intentions with the opposite sex, if our intentions aren't pure or of a loving nature, we will always find ways to deceive ourselves and the ones we're trying to influence to fit into our construction. Remember, we are constructing something here so wherever and however we find the bricks to fit into this construction we will try to manipulate our way into getting the work done. It's human genius. Doesn't need to be taught. That's the power we have. To create and to destroy. There's always a deeper meaning to why we do what we do under the surface.

Edited October 15, 2023 by Princess Arabia

[Someone here]

9 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

@Someone here Yeah my style is like im a coach i shouldnt even get involved since im not the one...

ultimate purpose of game is understanding yourself and standing on you as a man before giving everything for a little pleasure..

You guys dont care if you give your dignity,identity for play its horrible thats why i get personal...

No its not about pussy you too shortsided and desperate for some affection...

Yep I'm obsessed with sex. You are right . But sorry you are not being honest about the purpose of game . For me game's ultimate objective is sex.  I mean  if you think about it from an evolutionary perspective  .men who have more sex with more diverse women and produce bigger offsprings have more value as alpha males.  

And yes btw you should humble yourself a little bit..sometimes I feel like you abuse your power as a mod.

[Leo Gura]

12 hours ago, Someone here said:

maybe in a million years from now men and women would meet and just say "hey ..you look sexy ..let’s FUCK "!

Nope.

FYI, animals work really hard to get laid. You just don't appreciate it.

Edited October 15, 2023 by Leo Gura

[Princess Arabia]

16 minutes ago, Someone here said:

I mean isn't that how it used to work in the cavemen era and neanderthals and our ancestors?  Do you think game existed 1000 years ago ? It's a modern day invention.

 

16 minutes ago, Someone here said:

 

You are using your mind to self-deceive you without even recognizing it because of selfish desires. Eradicate all cell phones, tv, books, internet, etc., you won't be talking about cave-men days, you'd be begging for your sanity back and the opportunity to use those tools again. You are resisting life and wanting it to go back to how it was when you really don't want that you just think you do.

Edited October 15, 2023 by Princess Arabia

[Francis777]

10 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

  12 hours ago, Someone here said:

maybe in a million years from now men and women would meet and just say "hey ..you look sexy ..let’s FUCK "!

that would be soo boring as well

[Someone here]

10 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Nope.

FYI, animals work really hard to get laid. You just don't appreciate it.

I see wild dogs with their 8 inches dicks fuck each others on the streets of Delhi all the time without getting to know each other or exchanging phone numbers. (even though its not a primitive area )

[Someone here]

4 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

 

You are using your mind to self-deceive you without even recognizing it because of selfish desires. Eradicate all cell phones, tv, books, internet, etc., you won't be talking about cave-men days, you'd be begging for your sanity back and the opportunity to use those tools again. You are resisting life and wanting it to go back to how it was when you really don't want that you just think you do.

I don't understand what you are saying here. 

[Someone here]

2 minutes ago, Francis777 said:

that would be soo boring as well

So would you rather approach..be charming and charismatic. Develop a sense of humor ..learn 100 hours of pick-up theory and approach and get rejected hundreds of times ?

[Princess Arabia]

37 minutes ago, Someone here said:

For me game's ultimate objective is sex.  I mean  if you think about it from an evolutionary perspective  .men who have more sex with more diverse women and produce bigger offsprings have more value as alpha males. 

This is very interesting to read. I believe this may be the underlying belief and subconsciously acted out why men can be so promiscuous when it comes to the opposite sex and are so sexually inclined in addition to testosterone levels, versus a woman's promiscuity. Her promiscuity is probably more mentally related and has to do with feelings of unworthiness. Something to ponder. 

Edited October 15, 2023 by Princess Arabia