Ramzi08

How should I interpret this gesture of my female friend?

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a good female friend of mine posted a selfie of the two of us in which she wrote "when you're trying to get your shit together in life, but there's some people that won't leave you alone"

how should I interpret this message?

Did she label me as clingy and in the friend zone?  Or should I take it as just a joke and stop overthinking?

 

P.S : she was the one who wanted us to meet and who suggested a meeting

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Do you want this woman and agreed to platonic meet up?

 


There is nothing safe with playing it safe.

 

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Might be using you to make someone else on social media feel jealous. I've unfortunately done that one before 

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@Ramzi08 You could just ask her, so what do you need an outside opinion for?  Either your relationship with her is hot garbage, or you misunderstood something.  Are you going to trust what we have to say more than your "good female friend"?

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I would dump such a person. Like seriously. She humiliated you. 


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On 10/14/2023 at 2:55 PM, Ramzi08 said:

a good female friend of mine posted a selfie of the two of us in which she wrote "when you're trying to get your shit together in life, but there's some people that won't leave you alone"

how should I interpret this message?

Did she label me as clingy and in the friend zone?  Or should I take it as just a joke and stop overthinking?

 

P.S : she was the one who wanted us to meet and who suggested a meeting

I would ask her what does she mean with that because there's ur face on it. If you suspect it's shady, don't let her step over you. Friends don't really do that unless you have a capacity to make humiliating and insulting best friend jokes with her, then you wouldn't post it here I assume.

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On 14. 10. 2023. at 1:55 PM, Ramzi08 said:

a good female friend of mine posted a selfie of the two of us in which she wrote "when you're trying to get your shit together in life, but there's some people that won't leave you alone"

how should I interpret this message?

Did she label me as clingy and in the friend zone?  Or should I take it as just a joke and stop overthinking?

 

P.S : she was the one who wanted us to meet and who suggested a meeting

I would give her shit for that. Just to see how she cops out. But that0s just me. If you would do it, she would flip it against you in a split second so be careful. If this wass placed on social media like ig or fb, she is using you to get to someone else. Very bad taste idk.

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Meaningless joke, but in bad taste if it wasn't based on an inside joke between you.

A quip at your expense to get likes on social media?

Such low maturity.

I'd take it as a sign that this person is a waste of time and I shouldn't be spending any time with them.


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