'Men grow through criticism and women grow through approval' is BS.

[mr_engineer]

On 13/10/2023 at 9:31 AM, Leo Gura said:

@mr_engineer Don't you see that you are slowly brainwashing and radicalizing yourself on this whole topic around women? Until eventually your mind will be full of such toxic ideas that you will never be able to relate to women in a healthy way.

The more you stew in this bitterness and negativity the worse you will feel, the more angry you will get.

Man bad, woman good. 

If I had female parts, you would be singing a different tune. 

Don't you want men to be strong, to have credibility, to be loved and supported?! Don't you want men to be so strong that they can destroy anyone who gets in their way?! 

You simps only listen to a woman's word, right?! Here, have a look. This is serious. 

 

[mr_engineer]

On 13/10/2023 at 4:50 PM, Yousif said:

I mean if you think about it, men wants very feminine submissive women and in order to get that these women have to be spoiled and treated like princesses and queens, on the other hand if you want strong and dependable men, you have to be rough with them both mentally and physically so they grow up to be tough and masculine, if you wanna be treated like a woman fine but you’ll become soft and feminine and that’s cool if its what you want but if you want to be a masculine man you gonna have to toughen up and that’s just how it is.

Oh, please treat me like a woman. If that's what it takes to be cared about and listened to seriously, 'I identify as a woman'. You can be treated like dogshit, you can have people spit in your face and criticize you. I don't want that. 

[Mada_]

You’re misinterpreting David Deida. He said THE masculine (energy) grows through challenge, and the feminine grows through praise. 
 

Think of one as your curative ability to create and manipulate matter in the world, and the other as your ability to relax, let go and enjoy the moment.

This energy is present in both men and women. 
 

[flowboy]

On 12/10/2023 at 1:19 AM, mr_engineer said:

The underlying assumption is that the reality of who you are, as a man, is 'bad', whereas the reality of who you are, as a woman, is 'perfect'. And, in my opinion, this is simp-propaganda. 

That's not the underlying assumption at all. It's just your pain-body misinterpreting it.

And you're feeding your pain body by listening to all this toxic shit on the internet.

I'm not going to bother looking at that, I already know you're poisoning your mind with drivel that upsets you.

Actually listen to David Deida talks and have a real relationship with a real life woman and you have a chance of understanding this concept.

Edited October 16, 2023 by flowboy

[mr_engineer]

@flowboy Man bad, woman good. 

The content that trashes on men and says that 'you have to grow by criticism' is not toxic, oh no. It's the content that acknowledges your struggles and supports you through it - that's the real toxic content. Isn't it?! 

[flowboy]

@mr_engineer  You're not listening.

None of the ideas you're projecting onto me and others here, are what we actually think.

You're in a loop of getting upset online over some content you shouldn't be watching, and then processing your feelings by projecting it on people here and having a fight with them, making them the stand-ins for some imaginary enemy you've invented.

See through the illusion ?

Edited October 16, 2023 by flowboy

[mr_engineer]

9 minutes ago, flowboy said:

@mr_engineer  You're not listening.

None of the ideas you're projecting onto me and others here, are what we actually think.

You're in a loop of getting upset online over some content you shouldn't be watching, and then processing your feelings by projecting it on people here and having a fight with them, making them the stand-ins for some imaginary enemy you've invented.

See through the illusion ?

You're the one defending David Deida's illusion, in which he's forcing you to internalize criticism and self-hate and then attaching some 'spiritual meaning' to it. I'm here, trying to help you out of that illusion! 'Enjoy your friends' criticism'. 

I'm not hating on women. My honest opinion is that we should learn from women how to be kind to each other. 

Edited October 16, 2023 by mr_engineer

[flowboy]

@mr_engineer Wow you really misinterpret his teachings.

Maybe not focus on that then.

It's not for you at this stage.

Why are you wasting energy getting upset and waging this imaginary war against teachings you don't understand?

Just be at peace that there's some teachings you don't resonate with, and live your life dude.