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is it realistic to find a long term relationship from nightgame

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Obviously lots of people are hooking up from nightgame but is anyone finding someone they want to date long-term or potentially marry from bars and clubs?

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Of course.

Don't judge the people in bars and clubs. They are normal people, not some special class.

You will meet all sorts of interesting and amazing people if you go out a lot.

One time I bumped into Tony Robbins' copyrighter and we went on a date.

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You may struggle if you are not into that sort of stuff.

 

Edit: by which I mean party and so on.

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You don't want to tell your children "we met in the nightclub" and before me she danced with 3 other dudes.

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Yeah, it is realistic.

If you want this long-term relationship to be loving, though, that's a different story. Then the traumas that they're coping with using loud music, booze, drugs and casual sex will get in the way. 

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2 hours ago, StarStruck said:

You don't want to tell your children "we met in the nightclub" and before me she danced with 3 other dudes.

Lol, And she fucked 20 before, who cares?


"Say to the sheep in your secrecy when you intend to slaughter it, Today you are slaughtered and tomorrow I am.
Both of us will be consumed.

My blood and your blood, my suffering and yours is the essence that nourishes the tree of existence.'"

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2 minutes ago, LSD-Rumi said:

Lol, And she fucked 20 before, who cares?

Aren’t you from the ME? lol. 36F40DDA-9F5B-4038-960B-BD7D2F1434B0.jpeg

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1 hour ago, LSD-Rumi said:

Lol, And she fucked 20 before, who cares?

Let’s see you maintain that attitude when you try divorcing her for cheating on you and now she gets half your net worth + the kids

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1 hour ago, StarStruck said:

Aren’t you from the ME? lol. 36F40DDA-9F5B-4038-960B-BD7D2F1434B0.jpeg

I suppose so :D

Believe me, it took me a lot of time and effort to deconstruct my religious tendencies, I was fairly religious. The kind who doesn't look at women and feels guilty for watching porn or missing a prayer out of the 5 a day.

7 minutes ago, Raze said:

Let’s see you maintain that attitude when you try divorcing her for cheating on you and now she gets half your net worth + the kids

If a woman cheats on you, that's most likely on you.

Edited by LSD-Rumi

"Say to the sheep in your secrecy when you intend to slaughter it, Today you are slaughtered and tomorrow I am.
Both of us will be consumed.

My blood and your blood, my suffering and yours is the essence that nourishes the tree of existence.'"

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5 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Of course.

Don't judge the people in bars and clubs. They are normal people, not some special class.

You will meet a sorts of interesting and amazing people if you go out a lot.

One time I bumped into Tony Robbins' copyrighter and we went on a date.

great. 

I’m definitely a newbie so this helps. My first time even really doing this was only a week ago. I met a really sweet girl who I hooked, and then her boyfriend pulled her away, lol.

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One time I bumped into the 75th top rated female tennis player in the world and we went on a date. She was smokin hot.


You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity.

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8 hours ago, StarStruck said:

You don't want to tell your children "we met in the nightclub" and before me she danced with 3 other dudes.

Seriously. I guess it's ok to tell your children you met in Church where she fucked the pastor, the Deacon and ten other Church members  before she met you. What's the difference how many guys she danced with before you. What's the difference if it's a Church or a nightclub, or a Spiritual Retreat, all those places don't define who you are, who you are defines who you are. That's it. Who you are is how you think, how you see yourself and the world how you respect others and yourself, how much love you have inside of you, how much you criticize and judge yourself and others, and what you identify as, not a place or how many people she danced with before you.


Know thyself....

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Love+admiration changes things around you. Have you ever met someone with who gives you peace and serenity by just being around them. I have and it reveals the beauty and love in people.


What you resist, persists and less of you exists. There is a part of you that never leaves. You are not in; you have never been. You know. You put it there and time stretches. 

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12 hours ago, Raze said:

Let’s see you maintain that attitude when you try divorcing her for cheating on you and now she gets half your net worth + the kids

Don't ruin the climax or else Rumi will see the benefit of a nice conservative middle eastern girl ...

 

8 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Seriously. I guess it's ok to tell your children you met in Church where she fucked the pastor, the Deacon and ten other Church members  before she met you. What's the difference how many guys she danced with before you. What's the difference if it's a Church or a nightclub, or a Spiritual Retreat, all those places don't define who you are, who you are defines who you are. That's it. Who you are is how you think, how you see yourself and the world how you respect others and yourself, how much love you have inside of you, how much you criticize and judge yourself and others, and what you identify as, not a place or how many people she danced with before you.

Are you sure it was a church you went to?

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It's not impossible but don't use this as an excuse to avoid daygame. If you can do both nightgame and daygame sober, you will have incredible character development and you won't have to worry about not bumping into a girl who can potentially be a long-term companion.

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15 hours ago, LSD-Rumi said:

If a woman cheats on you, that's most likely on you.

No, it really isn't.

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It happened to me. It might be different because I approached the guy and I am a girl but basically just saw him and found him very attractive and said hi. We went and talked outside about the universe and basically just started dating and it did turned into a very committed relationship! What I like to do is invite people to talk outside and its a great opportunity to actually talk and get to know people. It is fun!

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4 hours ago, something_else said:

No, it really isn't.

Unless you are married to a hoe.


"Say to the sheep in your secrecy when you intend to slaughter it, Today you are slaughtered and tomorrow I am.
Both of us will be consumed.

My blood and your blood, my suffering and yours is the essence that nourishes the tree of existence.'"

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7 hours ago, Norbert Somogyi said:

It's not impossible but don't use this as an excuse to avoid daygame. If you can do both nightgame and daygame sober, you will have incredible character development and you won't have to worry about not bumping into a girl who can potentially be a long-term companion.

daygame is a lot harder for me. I mean I’ve only done nightgame 3 or 4 times but it’s always on a crowded dancefloor with women who want to be talked to

daygame it’s like I have to go up to a woman who’s focused on other things and it just feels really awkward.

I did it once though, at the beach. I started by approaching women I wasn’t intetested in and eventually worked up to someone really hot.

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