To all those who have hurt me

[Sidra khan]

1. To all who have hurt me and I have not taken revenge.

Edited October 2, 2023 by Sidra khan

[Salvijus]

"How many times have we tried to withdraw our love in the attempt to hurt someone?"

?

Edited October 3, 2023 by Salvijus

[Sidra khan]

9 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

"How many times have we tried to withdraw our love in the attempt to hurt someone?"

?

I don't get it

[Salvijus]

It's like when a child decides to no longer talk to her parents or best friend because her feelings got hurt and now she decides to turn her back on them in the attempt to make hurt them or take revenge.

Edited October 3, 2023 by Salvijus

[Salvijus]

"Turn our back on others in the attempt to make them feel sorry."

Edited October 3, 2023 by Salvijus

[Sidra khan]

2 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

It's like when a child decides to no longer talk to her parents or best friend because she got hurt and now she decides to take revenge on them by not talking to them anymore in the attempt to hurt them.

It can be self defense mechanism of not to go through the same hurt again. 

[Salvijus]

1 minute ago, Sidra khan said:

It can be self defense mechanism of not to go through the same hurt again. 

Love cannot get hurt. Love laughs at such things and embraces it with a smile and gives back only compassion to the ones that are offended by your presence.

Only ego gets hurt. You're defending the wrong guy.

[Sidra khan]

28 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

"Turn our back on others in the attempt to make them feel sorry."

"Turning our back on others in an attempt to safe/change/grow ourselves"

Edited October 3, 2023 by Sidra khan

[Salvijus]

Just now, Sidra khan said:

"Turn our back on others in an attempt to safe/change/grow ourselves"

But... as the scripture once sayed to me.

"You cannot trancend what you don't embrace with your love"

[Salvijus]

Just now, Salvijus said:

But... as the scripture once sayed to me.

"You cannot trancend what you don't embrace with your love"

Because only love can heal and only love can trancend all things.

[Salvijus]

3 minutes ago, Sidra khan said:

"Turn our back on others in an attempt to safe/change/grow ourselves"

You grow not by turning your back on others. You grow by facing another cheek even if injustices are done to you. The cheek of love and forgiveness.

[Sidra khan]

2 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Love cannot get hurt. Love laughs at such things and embraces it with a smile and gives back only compassion to the ones that are offended by your presence.

Only ego gets hurt. You're defending the wrong guy.

Humans have limits, accepting these limits is also love

[Salvijus]

Just now, Salvijus said:

You grow not by turning your back on others. You grow by facing another cheek even if injustices are done to you. The cheek of love and forgiveness.

And you find that the ones that crucify you are actually the means for your salvation

[Sidra khan]

1 minute ago, Salvijus said:

You grow not by turning your back on others. You grow by facing another cheek even if injustices are done to you. The cheek of love and forgiveness.

One can do that for months and sometimes for years , than one need some time to get charged.

[Salvijus]

10 minutes ago, Sidra khan said:

Humans have limits, accepting these limits is also love

Forgiveness need not have any limits. Because if you condemn others. You condemn yourself aswell. And there's no point in doing that

Edited October 3, 2023 by Salvijus

[Sidra khan]

2 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

And you find that the ones that crucify you are actually the means for your salvation

I agree with you

[Salvijus]

1 minute ago, Sidra khan said:

One can do that for months and sometimes for years , than one need some time to get charged.

The conflict energy and disturbed emotions will get resolved only when you turn towards them with total vulnerability and allowence. Running away is just postponement of the problem.

[Sidra khan]

5 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Forgiveness need not have any limits. Because if you condemn others. You condemn yourself aswell. 

Forgiveness is needed when we think others are wrong, when we think others are right we have to take the responsibility and that's even harder.

[Sidra khan]

9 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

The conflict energy and disturbed emotions will get resolved only when you turn towards them with total vulnerability and allowence. Running away is just postponement of the problem.

 Turning inwards isn't runny away.

[Salvijus]

1 minute ago, Sidra khan said:

Forgiveness is needed when we think others are wrong, when we think others are right we have to take the responsibility and that's even harder.

I didn't get the second part

But... I would say forgiveness is when you see all beings as perfectly guiltless and holy loved by god. It a way of overlooking their surface display of insanity and choosing to see with the eyes of love. It's about being aware in the midst of insanity and ego rampings that love is not affected in any way and turns not its back on anyone. Because when you turn your back on others, you are the one who becomes seperated from the feast