Why don't girls bother with basic human respect?

[Leo Gura]

3 minutes ago, Psychic said:

That's what friends are for.

Do you have a dick or not?

Do I need to tell you what dicks are for?

Edited October 1, 2023 by Leo Gura

[Yimpa]

7 minutes ago, Psychic said:

Well, then I don't know what it means to be in a relationship. Can you give me some examples?

You can also ask how is the quality of the relationship with yourself.

[Francis777]

a true homie lets his bro's hit.

[Farnaby]

I think it's impossible to not show any interest when you like a girl. What's important is to work on your neediness because it repels women but also people in general. If she senses that you need her a little bit too much she won't be attracted to you. 

In my experience, the more you have going on for yourself the less desperate you are because you're already reasonably fulfilled and you don't depend on a girl wanting to be with you to feel good. 

Also, don't bother with inmature girls who aren't into you and who play games. Yes, some level of games is always present when you're flirting but some people just want to use you and you don't want a relationship with them anyways. 

[Nemra]

7 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

We are talking general principles of game.

Is the game appropriate for only masculine men and feminine women?

[Leo Gura]

20 minutes ago, Understander said:

Is the game appropriate for only masculine men and feminine women?

Generally yes.

Some principles can carry over into other domains. For example, humor works on everyone.

Edited October 1, 2023 by Leo Gura

[Nemra]

@Leo Gura

Let's say it's appropriate for the ones who are the opposite, do the principals for men and women stay the same or do they switch?

[Leo Gura]

9 minutes ago, Understander said:

@Leo Gura

Let's say it's appropriate for the ones who are the opposite, do the principals for men and women stay the same or do they switch?

I don't have experience with that.

[Nemra]

@Leo Gura Ok, thanks.

[Hardkill]

10 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

You need to learn that girls have no investment in you until after sex. She is not going to care about you until after sex.

The issue is, you are invested in her and she is not invested in you. Girls are not thinking about you, they are lost in their busy little lives, like rats, until after they sleep with you. Then everything flips.

Your only problem is over-investment. Stop expecting respect from women until after sex.

If girls get invested in a guy they just had sex with, then why do some girls never respond back to you ever again even after you had good sex with her?

[Leo Gura]

36 minutes ago, Hardkill said:

If girls get invested in a guy they just had sex with, then why do some girls never respond back to you ever again even after you had good sex with her?

One night stands work differently than dating.

If a girl is horny and out to party she is not looking for dating.

Edited October 1, 2023 by Leo Gura

[Hardkill]

3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

One night stands work differently than dating.

Right, but why is that? Sex is still sex and a girl's main objective is to find a man who will commit to her. So, why can't a girl you slept with from a night club not get attached to you?

Edited October 1, 2023 by Hardkill

[Hardkill]

6 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

One night stands work differently than dating.

If a girl is horny and out to party she is not looking for dating.

Even if the guy was able to emotionally connect with her, stimulate her emotions, and the sex was good she still wouldn't want to see him again?

[Raze]

4 minutes ago, Hardkill said:

Even if the guy was able to emotionally connect with her, stimulate her emotions, and the sex was good she still wouldn't want to see him again?

Normally she would, Leo just lives in Las Vegas where the culture is different.

[Hardkill]

Just now, Raze said:

Normally she would, Leo just lives in Las Vegas where the culture is different.

I don't think culture matters that much. Women biologically get emotionally attached to a guy after sex, regardless. At least I would think that is the case.

[Leo Gura]

34 minutes ago, Hardkill said:

Right, but why is that?

Because girls operate based on mood, and their moods change every hour.

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Sex is still sex and a girl's main objective is to find a man who will commit to her.

That's not her objective if she's just in the mood to have fun.

Edited October 1, 2023 by Leo Gura

[Raze]

47 minutes ago, Hardkill said:

I don't think culture matters that much. Women biologically get emotionally attached to a guy after sex, regardless. At least I would think that is the case.

Humans are not robots, biology is not that cut and dry. The mechanism that tends to make women attached is just one of many that would alter her decisions. Some women ghost men after sex.

[Hardkill]

33 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Because girls operate based on mood, and their moods change every hour.

That's not her objective if she's just in the mood to have fun.

 

2 minutes ago, Raze said:

Humans are not robots, biology is not that cut and dry. The mechanism that tends to make women attached is just one of many that would alter her decisions. Some women ghost men after sex.

Oh, I see. I think that makes things more clear to me now. Thanks

[Yimpa]

1 hour ago, Hardkill said:

I don't think culture matters that much.

Of course it matters. I’m going to date someone who is in a poly relationship. If I didn’t open my mind, I would have immediately closed down that opportunity.

If my conservative family members found out, they would kill me.

[Girzo]

23 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

Of course it matters. I’m going to date someone who is in a poly relationship.

I am not a natural born monogamous person, but I would never get into a poly relationship. Sounds so complicated to manage few relationships at the same time. Not for the introverted folks, I guess.