'Nice guys aren't actually nice' is a shit-test

[SeaMonster]

3 hours ago, Tenebroso said:

Murderers, abusers, losers, bums, drug dealers, thieves have no issues attracting women yet the average struggling guy is struggling because women can see into his soul and feel that he is toxic and inauthentic. Give me a break, women have no special intuition for sensing the true nature of a man. They preemptively vilify the men they find unattractive and make excuses for the men they find attractive, only to play victim when it all goes wrong.

They are not looking for the "true nature of a man" (which is like saying "soul" or another ill-defined reification.)

They are looking for certain markers of masculinity, and while it would be preferable to them that the guy is good and masculine, they will take bad and masculine over non-masculine.