This is proof personal accomplishment does not make you happy

[Razard86]

This guy is an amazing Youtuber. I have never met him in person but from the outside looking in his life seems like it is on track. Listen to this video and how he talks himself down. He suffers from low Self-Love, listen to the negative self-talk he has. Do not assume that accomplishments will get rid of this. You need a paradigm shift to learn to love the character you have built.

 

[UnbornTao]

Consider that the nature of happiness may currently be unknown to us, hence the confusion on the matter.

Edited September 20, 2023 by UnbornTao

[Hojo]

its because he is demonizing himself. he wants to sit around and smoke weed but he demonize it. he could be a  good philosopher but says thinks its bad to do it and want to do something more important. There is nothing more important than being yourself. he didnt do enough shadow work and quit weed before he was done with it cause hes made up that it is not good. he needs to love weed. He should ask himself why do i like weed so much. then get high and just ask that question and find his shadows.

I understand the feeling about never feeling like you have a home i have that as well. This is from not being loved enough as a child and having a broken home. God is the answer to that you are always at home with God

Edited September 19, 2023 by Hojo

[Razard86]

9 minutes ago, Hojo said:

its because he is demonizing himself. he wants to sit around and smoke weed but he demonize it. he could be a  good philosopher but says thinks its bad to do it and want to do something more important. There is nothing more important than being yourself. he didnt do enough shadow work and quit weed before he was done with it cause hes made up that it is not good. he needs to love weed

The crazy thing is he got deep into Spiritual Work, did lots of psychedelics, he even did therapy. Did you hear how he 

 

2 hours ago, UnbornTao said:

We should consider we might not know what happiness is, hence our confusion on the matter. Good question to look into.

I know what happiness is, and Rupert Spira gave a good definition because luckily he discovered it for himself. Happiness is your baseline state. The problem is you are not aware of it. You are happy every time you go to sleep. You literally cannot go to sleep unless you can calm yourself enough to pass out. Sleep is a meditative state, the more you meditate the more you can access that state.

This is work you have to do daily. Now its not just meditation, you also need to change your opinion of yourself. You need to uncondition yourself from society's definition of yourself and learn to appreciate your strengths and your weaknesses.

 

[Ajax]

13 minutes ago, Razard86 said:

Happiness is your baseline state.

Would you explain this?  What do you mean by this?

I understand happiness to be on a dualistic scale, as a result it is both on a gradient and impermanent and ever-changing.

I have noticed states above this such as:

Sereness... where you are completely tranquil and no resistant and tranquil. Unbothered and completely at peace.

Aesthetics... where you are being with the highest wavelengths and particle flows. Where it is full of magic and love, and everything is beautiful and... Heaven.

The Static.... Native God-state... Perfection.

LOVE