De Sade

How to understand things such as inequality,randomness or differences ?

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If everyone is the same,how can i dinstinguish beauty from other people ? How can i say person number one is prettier than person number 2,or how to explain certain racial/ethnical difference between people,and how others may perceive them if everyone is one ?

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beautiful isn't to do with the seen but the seer, it's how you look not what you see

clue is in the word

be you to full

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Beauty could be based on memories of your mom or previous interactions with women. Beauty can be based on animal instinct or pheromones. I don't think our goal is to date every girl or love every girl or marry every girl. It is ok to follow your instincts. Let passion blossom and bloom.

But if we get awakened or expand our consciousness we should eventually see everyone as ourselves. We are they and they are us. We should have more compassion. But our monkey mind might still take over sometimes. Or we might be in a bad mood some days. It is ok. :)

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Imagine looking at a beautiful portrait. Every stroke, every color, every form, every object... contributes to that masterful painting. It's ok to have opinions and differentiate and compare. However, it is important to know at the same time that what you are looking at is what makes the beautiful portrait what it is. You can't have the mona lisa without her smirk or her eyes in the exact position they are in. 

Understand whatever, viewpoints, judgments, meanings to you attach to something is only an opinion because what you are observing is only part of the larger whole. It contributes to the overall effect, no matter how minute it may be. 

What you resist, persists and less of you exists. There is a part of you that never leaves. You are not in; you have never been. You know. You put it there and time stretches. 

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On 9/18/2023 at 10:11 AM, gettoefl said:

beautiful isn't to do with the seen but the seer, it's how you look not what you see

clue is in the word

be you to full

Nice...lol love that last part. Reality is sneaky as all hell

You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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On 18/09/2023 at 1:36 PM, De Sade said:

If everyone is the same

Sameness and difference depends on what you choose to focus on. If you put two people together there will be a lot of similarities (two arms, two legs and so on), and differences (sex, height, hair length and so on). So you can argue it both ways: everyone is unique but also everyone is the same.

It's not a paradox though, because the things that are different are not the things that are the same. It's possible to be both the same and different simultaneously.

Your statement that "everyone is the same" is only half the story.

The only reason to have the "everyone is the same" idea, is to counter our inherent bias that difference is bad. Difference is neutral of course and so is sameness.

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@De Sade You're full of bias, that's how.

You couldn't treat things the same if there was a gun pointed at your head.

You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity.

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3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

@De Sade You're full of bias, that's how.

You couldn't treat things the same if there was a gun pointed at your head.

He could if your scenario ended a certain way....

You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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17 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

@De Sade You're full of bias, that's how.

You couldn't treat things the same if there was a gun pointed at your head.

Yes,i have bias,i just don't know how to end them.

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25 minutes ago, De Sade said:

Yes,i have bias,i just don't know how to end them.

You're not going to end them.

You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity.

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25 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

You're not going to end them.

Wait,if that's so why say that i'm full of bias as if i could end them ? Or it's just that i could end some not all of them ?

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25 minutes ago, De Sade said:

Wait,if that's so why say that i'm full of bias as if i could end them ? Or it's just that i could end some not all of them ?

Even more important than ending your biases is firstly just becoming aware of them. You can also end some of them after that.

You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity.

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On 9/18/2023 at 8:36 AM, De Sade said:

If everyone is the same,how can i dinstinguish beauty from other people ? How can i say person number one is prettier than person number 2,or how to explain certain racial/ethnical difference between people,and how others may perceive them if everyone is one ?

There is no difference it's based on an infinite subjective perception 

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