Is It Possible To Maintain Or Worth Maintaing A Relationship At University?

[Rocky]

Is it possible to maintain a healthy relationship at university?  I'm a  1st year undergraduate on an incredibly demanding and relatively challenging full time Mechatronics BSc, and I wanna have a relationship since I've never had a real/serious relationship before and I've just turned 19 and feel as if I'm missing out/have missed out on something. Although I often go out and with girls and do stuff but I don't think its quite the same as an actual relationship.

But then again from what everyone seems to tell me relationships seem to be a lot of drama or a trainwreck waiting to happen and I really don't have time for drama as I have enough on my mind, and don't have much time for potential extra responsibilities. And it's kind of putting me off although I want one.

I just need some advice on whether or not it's possible to maintain a healthy relationship whilst at university on a demanding course, I've been told the first year is generally the toughest so maybe it's possible after the first year? I don't know what's your thoughts and advice???  

[ajasatya]

2 hours ago, Rocky said:

everyone seems to tell me relationships seem to be a lot of drama or a trainwreck waiting to happen

do not trust social/cultural average opinion. your relationships depend entirely on your mental organization, body domain and heart purity.

Edited March 28, 2017 by ajasatya

[Spiral]

If both of  you are really serious,  tries to wake up on time and study properly  (8-17 every weekday including lunch). You should be fine

(where i'm from, grades in university is basically irrelevant)

Edited March 28, 2017 by Spiral

[Rocky]

Thanks for the advice, I guess the only way to know is to experience it for myself and go through it and hopefully grow from it instead of avoiding it.