Why not be sexually explicit on approach with girls who use guys only for sex?

[flowboy]

14 minutes ago, Javfly33 said:

Damn, Interesting how we are not that different from chimps ?

We're just chimps with iPhones

Which I'm actually quite okay with. Chimps can be very loving and sweet!

But they do have a social hierarchy, and the lowest in the hierarchy don't get to have sex. If someone wants to move up in the hierarchy, they have to form friendships with others who are well connected to the top, and do valuable things like patrol and fight competing chimp tribes.

Some chimps have a rough childhood and they don't understand the social rules that well because of it. They have trouble making friends. Those chimps have to learn to get accepted and form friendships with other males, to strengthen their position. If they don't do that and still try to get laid, or show off their physical strength, they will be beaten severely.

All we get for that today is a disgusted look from women and sometimes being ignored, I say we're pretty well-off

Edited September 18, 2023 by flowboy

[Javfly33]

21 minutes ago, flowboy said:

We're just chimps with iPhones

Which I'm actually quite okay with. Chimps can be very loving and sweet!

But they do have a social hierarchy, and the lowest in the hierarchy don't get to have sex. If someone wants to move up in the hierarchy, they have to form friendships with others who are well connected to the top, and do valuable things like patrol and fight competing chimp tribes.

Some chimps have a rough childhood and they don't understand the social rules that well because of it. They have trouble making friends. Those chimps have to learn to get accepted and form friendships with other males, to strengthen their position. If they don't do that and still try to get laid, or show off their physical strength, they will be beaten severely.

All we get for that today is a disgusted look from women and sometimes being ignored, I say we're pretty well-off

chimps have childhood? ?

[flowboy]

Just now, Javfly33 said:

chimps have childhood? ?

Of course they do.

And if they are orphaned, they grow up with difficulty understanding how to socially interact, but they can learn.

[The0Self]

On 9/11/2023 at 4:55 PM, Hardkill said:

If there are plenty of girls out there who just want casual sex and nothing more, then why don't guys just approach every girl they talk in a sexually explicit manner right away until they find the girl or girls who are down to use a guy just for sex with no strings attached?

This is true, however, women still expect a guy to be very smooth and lead them to a sexual encounter with minimal discomfort and anti slut defense. They will be most affected by those types of guys. But yes you should be very suggestive with those types of girls from the very beginning (hand on lower back sometimes within 10 seconds of meeting for the first time) — using sexualizing speech and jokes too. You still want to be smooth even with women who are only looking for sex (though even then, they’re still hoping they’ll eventually find a long term partner).

Edited September 18, 2023 by The0Self

[The0Self]

And you know how after you successfully share an awesome sexual experience with a girl, you kind of think “wow I did well there...” ?? Well, if a woman thinks you’re awesome, and shares an awesome sexual experience with you on her end as well, she will think exactly the same sort of thing — “wow I did well there...”

What can really help your game is understanding that you're sort of becoming a better male sex object for the female gaze, just like they’re a female sex object for the male gaze. Realizing this is what’s happening results in a more mindful and congruent view, and women want to see you right down to your view. They want to know that you know that you’re a male sex object for the her, the female gaze, and that she’s a female sex object for you, the male gaze. This is one of the subconscious fantasies they often seem to have.