Bossy girls

[Yimpa]

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

My mom is like that, i I've given up having debates with her and we just laugh and imitate people in mean ways, especially autists and hypochondriac people who still weard the mask, lol.

It's very funny, but yeah i couln't can't be with a such demon. 

I like to make jest of normies for being fools 

[Ayham]

interesting, I am into "bossy girls" more, each to his own I suppose.

[StarStruck]

10 minutes ago, Ayham said:

interesting, I am into "bossy girls" more, each to his own I suppose.

What was your relationship to your mother in your childhood?

[D2sage]

I have been approached by Bossy girls a lot when I went out.

Girls will also pickup guys and buy them drinks.

Bossy girls like this I dont mind at all.

Edited September 12, 2023 by D2sage

[Ayham]

@StarStruck Very healthy, unlike my father.

She was nice, caring, into personal development, new agey, a bit overprotective, but overall pretty good, my father pretty much disappeared from my life ever since (with more details that I won't get into). 

And I do have a femdom kink, but from what I have seen, most women are submissive, and I would have to force them into a different role, so I just avoid that and live my life normally, though in general I love giving up control for some bossy dominant woman who I am already close with, but this only applies to sexual situations, not normal ones. 

 

 

[StarStruck]

9 hours ago, Ayham said:

@StarStruck Very healthy, unlike my father.

She was nice, caring, into personal development, new agey, a bit overprotective, but overall pretty good, my father pretty much disappeared from my life ever since (with more details that I won't get into). 

And I do have a femdom kink, but from what I have seen, most women are submissive, and I would have to force them into a different role, so I just avoid that and live my life normally, though in general I love giving up control for some bossy dominant woman who I am already close with, but this only applies to sexual situations, not normal ones. 

 

 

This doesn't come out of nowhere..

Edited September 13, 2023 by StarStruck

[Javfly33]

7 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

This doesn't come out of nowhere..

+1000.

Dig enough and he will find a mountain of pain behind it 

[NoSelfSelf]

@Sincerity Finally someone gets it ?

[Ajax]

Being decisive is an intellectual trait. One that I admire. It may appear to be bossy and opinionated and behind the apparency is something divine. 

[StarStruck]

10 hours ago, Javfly33 said:

+1000.

Dig enough and he will find a mountain of pain behind it 

Femdom is not healthy. It is trauma reliving. 

[Ajax]

3 hours ago, StarStruck said:

Femdom is not healthy. It is trauma reliving. 

????

[mr_engineer]

Something interesting that just occurred to me is that 'bossy girls' or 'boss babes' have a certain definition of 'real woman' that aligns a lot with Andrew Tate's definition of 'real man'. Andrew Tate wears suits and smokes cigars and says that 'real men don't need women', the 'boss girls' wear suits and smoke cigars and say that 'real women don't need men'. In other words, they're just using the word 'woman', when in reality, their definition of it actually is the traditionally masculine definition of 'man'. 

Therefore, never take anything they say about 'femininity' and 'feminine power' and 'girl power' and 'women empowerment' seriously. They're just using the word 'feminine' cuz they have lady-parts. If they had man-parts, they'd be saying 'masculine'. 

Edited September 14, 2023 by mr_engineer

[StarStruck]

10 hours ago, Ajax said:

????

I know right. !?!!! 

[something_else]

14 hours ago, StarStruck said:

Femdom is not healthy. It is trauma reliving. 

This is along the same lines as saying that being gay is trauma reliving. Some people have sexual preferences that aren't trauma based.

[zurew]

11 minutes ago, something_else said:

Some people have sexual preferences that aren't trauma based.

Yeah its really cringe when people kink-shame people or when people have to trace back every kind of kink that they themselves wouldn't be confident with to some kind of trauma as if they would have any idea whatsoever how kink develops or works.

 

The irony is that the same redpill people who use these talking points to shame guys who have kinks they despise or kinks they wouldn't be confident with, these very same guys will shit on feminists who tell each other that "no no no, what that guy did to you in the past wasn't okay , it was very very bad, regardless of how you lived through that experience" so they sort of trigger a trauma response in their friends and recontextualize their whole history in a way, to trigger an actual trauma response. - the very same dynamic can be seen in this case coming from insecure  redpillers.

Edited September 14, 2023 by zurew

[StarStruck]

24 minutes ago, something_else said:

This is along the same lines as saying that being gay is trauma reliving. Some people have sexual preferences that aren't trauma based.

Not everything can be compared to gayness. Trauma plays a huge role in sexual preferences according to the literature. If you have resentment against this you probably have some dirt you haven’t discovered yet. 

[something_else]

9 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

Not everything can be compared to gayness. Trauma plays a huge role in sexual preferences according to the literature. If you have resentment against this you probably have some dirt you haven’t discovered yet. 

Being gay is a sexual preference, and so is femdom. They are very comparable.

I am not arguing that trauma is unrelated to sexual preference, I am pointing out that the phrase 'Femdom is not healthy. It is trauma reliving.' is a very narrow and judgemental view of human sexuality.

[StarStruck]

@something_else Gayness is not caused by trauma dude. While Femdom can definitely be caused by trauma. What was your relationship with your mother?

Edited September 14, 2023 by StarStruck

[zurew]

3 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

While Femdom can definitely be caused by trauma.

'Can be' is different from saying it must have been caused by trauma. - which was you initial implication.

You are really confident and smug when it comes to this  issue and try to appeal to the literature, when in reality the research on kinks is very fucking bad and there is a lot more to do and discover.

[StarStruck]

2 minutes ago, zurew said:

'Can be' is different from saying it must have been caused by trauma. - which was you initial implication.

You are really confident and smug when it comes to this  issue and try to appeal to the literature, when in reality the research on kinks is very fucking bad and there is a lot more to do and discover.

Perhaps you should look into your defensiveness? I read my fair share of psychology books and interacted with girls who are into Femdom. There is definitely something fishy if you dig deep enough.