The third and final post of this topic of helping certain victims of crimes?

[NightHawkBuzz]

I wanted to make one final post on being able to help all victims of crimes even people I feel are wrong or bad. I felt like in my other two posts I wasn't specific enough on what I meant by bad people. I wanted to get very clear on what I meant. Also, I wanted to see if there was any final advice or tips someone could give me on the only issue I am facing pursuing a career in politics. 

A bad victim to me would be someone that intentionally mistreats others with there words and verbally abuses them or physically abuses them.

Also, a jealous boyfriend who displays jealous, controlling, psycho behaviors when he is at the bar with his girlfriend. Like if any guy even gets near her or he sees her talking to them he gets very controlling and confrontational. This guy actually comes close to or is ready to fight with people who get near his girlfriend or talk to her. This guy is starting a fight or is willing to start one because he is controlling over his girlfriend.

I have personally met a couple of bad men like this in bars who have tried to or were looking to start fights with me over their girlfriends. Also, verbally abusive people at the bad high school I went to. I would consider these people as bad victims for sure and I wouldn’t feel as successful helping them.

Now if these jealous boyfriends who start fights with men at the bar and these verbally abusive people were in a different situation and became the victims of a major crime like a mass shooting, terrorist attack, etc. How am I suppose to help these people successfully like I would other good victims?

Even though they didn’t deserve to have what happened to them I still would consider them bad victims because of their past behavior. I wouldn’t feel successful helping them as I would people that were actually good victims.

Also, bad victims would also be murders, rapist, robbers and terrorist to me as well. I wouldn’t feel as successful helping these people as good victims to.

How can I help these controlling jealous psycho boyfriends and verbally abusive people as well as criminals when they become the victims of crimes just like other good victims?

Some of the tips I have gotten are below.

1. Focus on what you can control. Realize there is no such thing as a bad victim you are choosing between the lesser of the two evils. 

2. Rise above good and bad and realize you serve all your constituents. Once you rise above good and bad you will cease to become a politician and be a leader. Rise above good and bad and lead. 

3. Advocate for all victims and if someone of them are bad I would have just made an honest mistake. Go towards the issue not run away from it. 

4. Just call them people don't call them good or bad. 

There are more tips and advice I have received as well those are just some. 

Does anyone have any other final advice or tips that you could recommend on this issue? 

 

 

[Adrian colby]

36 minutes ago, NightHawkBuzz said:

I wanted to make one final post on being able to help all victims of crimes even people I feel are wrong or bad. I felt like in my other two posts I wasn't specific enough on what I meant by bad people. I wanted to get very clear on what I meant. Also, I wanted to see if there was any final advice or tips someone could give me on the only issue I am facing pursuing a career in politics. 

A bad victim to me would be someone that intentionally mistreats others with there words and verbally abuses them or physically abuses them.

Also, a jealous boyfriend who displays jealous, controlling, psycho behaviors when he is at the bar with his girlfriend. Like if any guy even gets near her or he sees her talking to them he gets very controlling and confrontational. This guy actually comes close to or is ready to fight with people who get near his girlfriend or talk to her. This guy is starting a fight or is willing to start one because he is controlling over his girlfriend.

I have personally met a couple of bad men like this in bars who have tried to or were looking to start fights with me over their girlfriends. Also, verbally abusive people at the bad high school I went to. I would consider these people as bad victims for sure and I wouldn’t feel as successful helping them.

Now if these jealous boyfriends who start fights with men at the bar and these verbally abusive people were in a different situation and became the victims of a major crime like a mass shooting, terrorist attack, etc. How am I suppose to help these people successfully like I would other good victims?

Even though they didn’t deserve to have what happened to them I still would consider them bad victims because of their past behavior. I wouldn’t feel successful helping them as I would people that were actually good victims.

Also, bad victims would also be murders, rapist, robbers and terrorist to me as well. I wouldn’t feel as successful helping these people as good victims to.

How can I help these controlling jealous psycho boyfriends and verbally abusive people as well as criminals when they become the victims of crimes just like other good victims?

Some of the tips I have gotten are below.

1. Focus on what you can control. Realize there is no such thing as a bad victim you are choosing between the lesser of the two evils. 

2. Rise above good and bad and realize you serve all your constituents. Once you rise above good and bad you will cease to become a politician and be a leader. Rise above good and bad and lead. 

3. Advocate for all victims and if someone of them are bad I would have just made an honest mistake. Go towards the issue not run away from it. 

4. Just call them people don't call them good or bad. 

There are more tips and advice I have received as well those are just some. 

Does anyone have any other final advice or tips that you could recommend on this issue? 

 

 

Decide on the type of person you want to be including the way you behave towards other people. Don’t allow their behavior to affect, change or determine how you behave towards them. Develop personal integrity and stay true to your commitment to be your chosen type of person.

[NightHawkBuzz]

@Adrian colby

On 9/7/2023 at 6:43 PM, Adrian colby said:

Decide on the type of person you want to be including the way you behave towards other people. Don’t allow their behavior to affect, change or determine how you behave towards them. Develop personal integrity and stay true to your commitment to be your chosen type of person.

Yeah I agree.