Married Women Need Love Too! And It's Easy To Get Them Love And Reciprocate

[Mesopotamian]

Sharing this, hopefully will have some insights..

I am mentoring a friend of mine (T) and she was at the lowest emotional states when we were introduced to each other about two years ago. 

T has issues with her husband, there's basically no compatibility. It was an arranged marriage she accepted to walk in to when she was young because she didn't' know better back then. Her husband was brought from somewhere in Asia (not mentioning countries) into the US, while she was raised in the US herself.

Right now she wants to get divorce, but the issue is that there are children, so that'll be taken slowly.

The issue she was facing though is that she wants to have a sex life still (she call it fun), but she stopped sleeping with her husband after things between them gone downhill. 

Then one day, she booked a massage session, and she thought it will be a fun experience, but it turned out the massage guy was keeping distance during the session and he treated her in a cold way, which did agitate her feelings and she were feeling like she wants sex badly now. 

And then it was very bad days she lived and she wanted to be touched, but she wasn't able to find anyone. She can't go to night clubs, obviously she has children. She can't invite anyone home, cuz there's CCTV camera there.

Eventually she was able to find this sub-reddit, where people offer massages for female members. And after many encounters, she's now able to have somebody to share the fun with, they can book a hotel room every two weeks.

The thing is that this is still not enough for her. As it turned out women love to have sex more than guys probably! but the offer she gets through the websites don't make it past the conversation phase. She say guys are stupid and clueless. Sometimes they start talking dirty right away, and sometimes they are not stepping up to reserve a room and acting like they need somebody to convince them first!

So in my mind, there are countless opportunities that guys are wasting! free opportunities to have fun..

Worth to note that also guys are super afraid of attachment, and as we observed me and T, guys want less sex than they imagine themselves to want! they can get by with less sex!

I am sharing what I know with T and in return she's sharing her life with me, we chat on a daily basis, and I've gained so much insights about woman's life, and although people here perceive me to be anti-women, but I can assure you, I am good with women, and I am kind and nice person. After all, people might think that I am anit-women because of opinions I write in controversial topics, and it's not based on observations about actual interactions with women. 

[Raze]

She sounds very immature and will probably have a existential crisis when she realizes sex with random men isn’t fulfilling.

[Mesopotamian]

@Raze It can get her some release.. so it's not totally garbage I would assume.