The Redeemer

I'm having a hard time approaching

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I live in a college town and I find it hard to strike up a conversation with college girls.

I have been laughed at several times and people have called the police on me.

This just traumatizes me from even approaching. 

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You aren’t ready to approach, you have serious psychological issues you need to work on first.

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Sorry to hear that bro

i also have issues with approaching because of a fragile ego and some childhood trauma 

i only do it when the stars align which isn’t often 

are you doing „inner work“?

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43 minutes ago, PurpleTree said:

Sorry to hear that bro

i also have issues with approaching because of a fragile ego and some childhood trauma 

i only do it when the stars align which isn’t often 

are you doing „inner work“?

Yes

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I met a straight up psychopath woman. Who pulled a gun on me for approaching. Like I don't know if I had some rare occurrence happen, but that shit traumatized me like for real.

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18 minutes ago, The Redeemer said:

I met a straight up psychopath woman. Who pulled a gun on me for approaching. Like I don't know if I had some rare occurrence happen, but that shit traumatized me like for real.

You’ve claimed that you’ve had people scream they’ll call the police, call the police, falsely accuse you of rape, and now pull a gun on you. You’re either trolling or doing something insane.

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1 hour ago, Raze said:

You’ve claimed that you’ve had people scream they’ll call the police, call the police, falsely accuse you of rape, and now pull a gun on you. You’re either trolling or doing something insane.

I'm just a guy that wants love

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Can you give some more context or backstory. I know from experience that people don’t just randomly scream, pull guns, or call the police. 
 

I approached thousands of people at my sales job and only had the cops called once. 
 

How are you approaching these girls? 

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10 hours ago, The Redeemer said:

I'm just a guy that wants love

Apparently not that much, since you aren’t willing to follow the simple suggestions I gave you 

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52 minutes ago, Raze said:

Apparently not that much, since you aren’t willing to follow the simple suggestions I gave you 

Here we go again 

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9 hours ago, Noahsteelers34 said:

How are you approaching these girls? 

I was doing my best to be as calibrated as possible. Just experimenting around. I try to be as kind when I approach give basic compliments or statements. Try to add positive energy, but time and time again I have noticed that they don't seem to respond well to that. Heck I even tried giving a girl a negative compliment and she responded better to that than an actually compliment.

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2 minutes ago, Phil King said:

This will be the most important video you watch all year. No BS

Owen is just talking about neediness, this guy has way bigger issues than that.

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What do you tell them exactly?


There is nothing safe with playing it safe.

 

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