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I dont know how to dance

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There is no wrong way , feel the music run through you, imagine it's electricity passing through your body 


"You have to allow yourself to not know"- Peter Ralston

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Nobody does. Just be creative and move with the beat.

Nobody is gonna talk about your dance moves the day after. 

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People who “can’t” dance typically don’t enjoy it. If you don’t enjoy it don’t do it. 
 

Doing things you do not enjoy will not get you laid/find a partner nor get you new friends.

Edited by Spiral

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This is the main reason why it's almost impossible for me to get any results from nightgame. All girls go to clubs to dance, so I'm left with two options: Don't dance and don't get any girls, or be super awkward on the dancefloor and definitely don't get any girls. Alcohol almost doesn't help at all. No matter how drunk I get, I feel so awkward and out of place on the dancefloor that I've actually been laughed at by girls while dancing. That for sure didn't make my situation any better! Pretty crazy that something that's such a big part of human culture can become so unnatural to some...  

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@Kid A There are many other ways to meet girls, outside of the dance floor. 


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On 12.9.2023 at 8:50 PM, Yimpa said:

@Kid A There are many other ways to meet girls, outside of the dance floor. 

Not if we're talking nightgame. If you stick with a girl long enough, she sooner or later wants to dance. Since Norwegian girls also don't go on dates with men they don’t know well or haven’t met through a dating app, grabbing her phone number is absolutely worthless. 

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Take a dance class and attend weekly. If you take this seriously, you will get very good and will absolutely kill it at social gatherings. You will be able to walk up to any girl at the venue with a cheeky smile and ask them to dance with you because you'll know you're the shit. 

I'm a dance instructor, I've seen guys change their confidence in dancing from 0 to 100 in just a few months. NOBODY knows how to dance because no one actually takes the time and money to learn from a real instructor. Put in the work, put in the time and you can be a phenomenal dancer. 

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On 10/31/2023 at 4:41 AM, Kid A said:

Not if we're talking nightgame. If you stick with a girl long enough, she sooner or later wants to dance. Since Norwegian girls also don't go on dates with men they don’t know well or haven’t met through a dating app, grabbing her phone number is absolutely worthless. 

Develop your own way of meeting women. Take the advise that is not only useful, but ones you have personally tested yourself and have gotten results from. 

Drop all the other shtick. Your own authenticity will attract women naturally. You have to trust yourself. The shtick will help you in the short-term, but you being yourself is what makes it stick in the long-term.

Dance in your authenticity.


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On 31. 08. 2023. at 7:14 AM, sleep said:

I've never rly been able to dance. Whenever I ask people how they do it it seems that it comes naturally to them, and they react as if you were asking them how to do a very obvious task which comes from simply "flowing with the music", but its not that way for me at all. I know social anxiety plays a part in my inability but I think a bigger part of it is simply not understanding how one is supposed to dance, and I dont know how to learn. To me it feels as if you were trying to learn how to levitate, an activity which no matter how much you practice you'll never be able to attain. This makes events like parties uncomfortable because I feel very out of place just standing there. Anyone with the same difficulties that has overcome this issue here? I would like some help because even though I've tried practicing I can't seem to grasp it and i don't know what to do about it.

Bro you have it probably within yourself. Just look at how to uncover that. If you feel loose and feel the music, all you  need to do is start to move in a rhytm that suits it in your head at least. And who cares whether you do it right? Just dance :) 

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I’m a professional level, my own version of hip hop dancwr.

I never use my dancing skills in a club.

I just fool around in the dancing floor. Most people looking at me dancing in a club will think I can’t dance at all.

The only time I dance seriously in a club if I am really enjoying the song and want to express it with my dancing. It is never to impress.


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I dance instinctively although I never do it except by myself in the room, must be southern blood lol. xD

A bit like black peo…..

 

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