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How do I get rejected?

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I was in a party and I tried to pull a girl from social circle. I didn't notice many attraction signs besides I can touch her arms, thighs, face and she liked it (she was already comfortable with me from previous meetups). She was passive, just went with the flow and did not chased me, I was mainly chasing her. She opened up about as I perceive to be a little vulnerable things and she developed a little bit caring attitude towards me. I did not kiss her that night, but we cuddled and fell asleep together.

I am really confused about if there is any dating potential here. I want to test if she's attracted to me without being to obvious or straight to her face with that. Any Ideas how can I do that? Or should I just straight up ask her if she's into me? If more details needed I can fill in.

Thank you guys.

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You don't need to ask explicitly. If she responds to your texts at all then she's interested in you.

Invite her for a drink.

Edited by Leo Gura

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@Leo Gura Sometimes she does, sometimes she leaves me unread. I am planning to take her out, since she mentioned she wanted to go to a movie. Thanks for clarification. 

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You don't need to do checks that's a massive thing I've learned this year !!!!!!, if she has a bf SHE WILL TELL YOU , if she doesn't respond to a dm then she's probably flattered but not interested, she may flirt in the future but move on as no guarantee

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"You have to allow yourself to not know"- Peter Ralston

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@The_Searcher ask her out you have nothing to lose 

Edited by Chives99

"You have to allow yourself to not know"- Peter Ralston

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5 hours ago, The_Searcher said:

I did not kiss her that night, but we cuddled and fell asleep together.

Dude... if she's not interested in you then she has a funny way of showing it. :P

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@The_Searcher Movies are a bad first date location.

Edited by Leo Gura

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@Chives99 She does not have a boyfriend. She does text back and stops untill I text something later. Maybe it's just how she goes.

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@Leo Gura Yeah, I know. I asked if she would want to and maybe I'll reserve it for the future, will see how it goes. I think grab coffe/tea and a walk could be a nice starting date.

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1 hour ago, The_Searcher said:

@Chives99 She does not have a boyfriend. She does text back and stops untill I text something later. Maybe it's just how she goes.

Ask her for a drink I recommend


"You have to allow yourself to not know"- Peter Ralston

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